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Growth, Change and Patience!Hi All, Yes it has been a while since I have sat down and wrote a blog for you all, life sure can get busy and mine is no exception to that. I have recently also taken time to smell the roses if you will, to get back out there into nature and find another way to connect with this journey of life that we are on. I went ahead and planted some seeds for sunflowers, daisies, tomatoes, strawberries and blackberries. As I now watch them grow, I thought back to times in the past where I have tried to grow something and it would inevitably die and I wondered why did that always happen? Each day the kids would run outside to see if anything was peeping through the clay and feel disappointed when they could not see any signs of life. They would say, when are they going to grow? How much longer will it take? Then of course there was the excitement when they saw those first buds appearing and even more when they can now see the flowers almost all the way grown. Yes everything we planted is all still alive, yay!! So what did I do different this time from all the other times? I ensured that I watered the plants when they needed it, took time to put stakes on the ones that needed extra strength and lastly I have the patience to allow them to grow! Truth is of course, each one of them takes a different amount of time to grow but you must keep them nourished. Does this sound like a familiar story to you? Do you know the moral of this story? Time To Learn Learning a new way of thinking and doing things is essential when you are a Twin Flame as it is a whole new way of life. Those conditioned beliefs that you grow up with need to be shed in order for you to move forward. When you hold onto those old ways, you are stunting your growth and for sure stalling your union. Sometimes we can not see the hard work that is going on under the surface. We feel disappointed because there is no change, but change takes time, growth takes time. Do you find yourself comparing your journey to others, if yes STOP, this is a pointless exercise as all of us grow emotionally at our own pace. Our Twin Flame journey’s while they may seem the same on the surface, each one is very different. Different levels of growth is more common than many realize and they do not all fit in the same box. Patience is key, without patience you will not get very far on your journey. When many of us get caught up in the hows, the why and why not, you can forget to care for yourself so nourish your soul ~ Take care of you! Give strength to other Twin Flames who are having a hard time, allow yourself to grow in strength and you will begin to see things change for the better. Expecting change and growth without putting in some work is like planting a seed and not treating it right so it can come into full bloom. All of the above are essential when you are a Twin Flame. Makes sense right? Do You Communicate The Right Way? On my travels over the past few weeks, I noted something that made me feel very sad. We were waiting outside a restaurant for a table to become free, when a family of 6 arrived and asked about how long the wait is etc, they were told it would be 30 to 40 minutes and they said that they would wait. The first thing I noticed about this family was they had tablets, phones and computer games with them. They all proceeded to go on them while waiting for their food, not so bad I know some will say but then they were called for their table and from ordering to the food arriving they did not take their eyes off of their electronics. Of course at this point I was thinking surely now they will talk to each other, acknowledge that they are all sitting together and have a conversation but no, food arrived, none of them looked up to thank their waitress for her help. Is the true art of communication really lost, is this why people do not know how to communicate with each other any longer? To sit down and have a conversation with someone, to look them in the eye when you talk to them, to pick up on their feelings? Something for you to think about and to try and implement change in your life? Do you spend your day looking at your phone to see if your Twin Flame has contacted you and forget to interact with others because you are so consumed by your Twin Flame? That is not nourishing your soul! Read on if you wish to know what to expect for the rest of this beautiful month of July. Will you promote growth this month or will you expect change without doing any work to get to where you need and want to be. Useful Links: Contact me at: reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarolMary1111/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/CarolMary1111 Instagram: www.instagram.com/reunitingcomesfromwithintwinfl/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ1xAgZKyLOJ1fNEUtW69bg Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/carolmary11/ Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reunitingcomesfromwithin/ This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. “Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.” ~ Carol Mary Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct messages or Facebook inbox. ©Carol Mary 2013 ~ 2019. ©Reuniting comes from within All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner
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Are You Entitled?Hi All, Are you entitled? I have been noticing of late, a change in society, where people have become more disrespectful to others. I see that people feel like they are entitled to certain things and do not feel that they have to do any work to obtain the things that they want. I say “want” because most entitled people have wants not needs. They may think they need something but in truth they want it. More often than not, a person who has an overwhelming sense of entitlement make unreasonable demands on others around them. They expect a certain lifestyle has to be maintained. They will push their demands on most people in their lives and their Twin Flame is no exception to that. When they can not get their way, they will lash out at others, the people trying to help them especially so. The difference between a person who is angry and a person who is entitled can be shown by how they act, a person who gets angry over being wronged does not have a sense of entitlement but a person who does will become angry and difficult every single time that they do not get their own way. Me, Me, Me!! Me, me, me, I am the only person, I need people to give me all of their attention, they expect that the world revolves around them and they always have to get what they want. As many of you know of course this is not how life works. They are not people who give to others, they are people who take. Does this come from their past and not being able to have what they wanted or were they brought up in such a way that anything they wanted was produced, either way it is something for you to think about. So you may be wondering why I am writing this and what does it have to do with Twin Flames? The answer to that is, I meet Twin Flames all of the time, from every walk of life, some who are so very kind, some who are hurting, some who just need answers, but I do come across those who have the sense of entitlement, so I felt it was worth of addressing. Are you a person who expects everything to be handed to you, are you a person who feels like you are entitled to the time of others, do you act out of anger towards others when you do not get your way? If yes, it is time to change that about yourself. This is the type of help that I offer when you wish to work with me, I will show you exactly where you are going wrong, perhaps it is time you booked that Twin Flame consultation so you know what mistakes you are making. Do you feel like you are entitled to your union? If the answer to this is yes then we need to talk because your union with your Twin Flame is something that you have to work towards and not something that will just happen. Food for thought. Now I would like to move to the various energies to expect for the month of May. May News This May is all about your sense of freedom, freedom from those life happenings that start to hold you back. You know those issues that keep popping up that you just can not seem to get past. It is going to be a month of change, if you are ready to use the tools that you are being offered by the universe. When I say tools, I mean those signs that are always in your face, time to find out what they mean and how they can help you. There is going to be a variety of energies, so positive, some negative and very strong energies that can aid you with your union. Progressive and quick thinking as well as resourcefulness. It is also important to note that there is no quick fix on this journey, it is working everyday to achieve your goals. I know many feel that union is the be all and end all but perhaps you are missing out on the bigger picture, that is bringing yourself to a place of peace and happiness, that is as important in your life as union. Essentially, it will be rather chaos driven, not conventional in any way the energy is teeming with craving change and seeking freedom with the underlying tremble of rebelliousness. It is also a magnetic energy so if you’re one to practice working with the law of attraction this can be a prime month for doing just that in whatever way you work that energy for creating your desires and bringing them into reality. Monotony will drive you batty so if you get the urge to be a little more carefree this month do so. Break tradition and have a little extra fun this month. More News As well as being imaginative, enthusiastic and optimistic, it is an important time to take a long hard look and things and how you are progressing in life.It is also definitely time to bring things in your life into fruition. The 3 is sometimes also called The Sunshine Number. It is a potent yet scattered energy, sometimes focused, sometimes all over the place. It is the energy of creative expression, this can be a powerful time to help with communication. Direct but subtle yet strong. This is where art meets life. You may find yourself drawn to new ways of expressing your thoughts in written, spoken or physical artfully done ways this month. Don’t keep it bottled up. You know how good you feel out in the sun when it’s warm and you’re just feeling great! Think of the song Forever Young by Rod Stewart for what the energy of this month is. Here is the song for you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yGEe_zpddNI Do you need help on how to do that? Or some guidelines on where your focus needs to be? Please ask for a consultation and perhaps even something to do with your personal numerology (for you and your twin flame) for further insight Power Number Days May 11 - Master #11 day The energy is obviously going to be intense for many of us. It is also the 4th month of the year so I’ll cover that too as well so you can see where the energies blend. Please remember the number 11 is NOT just a twin flame number BUT a number for spirituality as well. Let’s start with the 5 energy. This number carries the energy of stability and also obedience. Determination, persistence and trustworthiness is the key energy, it’s all about being present, doing what you are to do where you are and noticing what and who is around you without having opinions or judgments. As Twin Flames we are leaders, people who not only need to guide our Twin Flames, but those around us too. Now this Master 11 energy. Essentially this is the 1 energy doubled or amplified. Independence, the primal, creative force to be reckoned with, a warrior energy. A strong determined “masculine” straightforward energy with determination to get done what needs to get done with no assistance from anyone. Now it is also the 2 energy (1+1=2). The creative energy for getting things done comes from here with an underlying wittiness and tact and diplomacy that makes this energy one of harmony and peace so when needing to be around others this is the fun energy of the Master 11. Are you living in truth? Trust in your gut instinct and intuitive energy that is meant to guide you to push your limits and past certain boundaries in order to make the most of who you are truly meant to be. You need to be aware of the capability of putting up blocks from you venturing forward here. Be willing to explore what is beyond you not only mentally, but even spiritually and physically. Is it time to look at your truth? Start this month to explore those things in this mortal world that make you think, feel and be more than who you are, take some risks to explore and step out of the shadows and barriers you’re creating and using to prevent yourself from growth. What are you willing to become? The links between the mortal and immortal essences of yourself are asking to be pushed further, go harder, go faster, grow! Question your beliefs and what you are willing to go beyond in order for further enlightenment to this world, spiritually and also within yourself. Time for seek the answers for taking steps to get out of the comfortable and typical patterns you’re so use to living in? What are you going to do and become now? May 5th, 14th, 22nd and 23rd are Master #22 days. Do you have the confidence to make your dreams a reality. This will require planning and thought of course and investigating ways to do this but you are capable. It is time you use the energies available to you to become more aware of the path you need to create to have what you desire. You need to create it and be your best self possible and that starts now BEFORE anything will ever happen in your twin flame journey. So I mean focus on you and your life, this is not selfishness in the negative sense. How do expect anything in your life to ever happen for you personally or otherwise if you don’t build it yourself? Like the movie Field of Dreams - build it and they will come! Finding Balance The energy of Master # 22 is not only about working on turning your dreams into reality but once you’ve really been able to become good at that you’ll realize all along it’s been for a higher purpose. Use your creative nature to help you with this. This is also a good time to organize, - declutter, re-configure etc. whether that is your home or your life. Essentially do one you basically do the other - declutter your home interestingly enough your life becomes lighter and easier to manage. It is also about having a life and self that is more actualized. - Self improvement, personal development - mentally, emotionally and for some even spiritually will aid you in finding a balance when things are off kilter. This energy does have a weaker side - the tendency to be all work and such and no play makes for a dull life. I’m sure some of you can identify with that. Learn to achieve a healthy balance of hard work and hard play! Don’t allow yourself to get that way where all you do is work and run errands and such. Have some fun … whatever is fun to you … it’s a good way to let off some stress and bring yourself back to the reality of who you are. Now is a good time ,where you find your stability and being more grounded. Meaning it’s ok to have a routine but what good is it if you’re not colouring outside the lines from time to time and breaking free to have some down time and honest to goodness fun. That Magical Marvelous Moon! The dates for the moon phases are May 5th - New moon, May 12th - First Quarter, May 18th - Full Moon, and May 26th - Third/Last Quarter. The moon is essentially connected to our emotions but also our spiritual self and our spiritual intellect (our inner guidance) and can essentially be considered our mirror for that in terms of what it is reflecting back to us that we need to understand and then work on both from a spiritual perspective but in this physical world too, in order to make it a reality. The universe delivers things in the way for us which is best for us and it is up to you to see what the light and energy is truly revealing to us as it won’t be how we think or hope but will come to us in what we need at the time. I can help you understand your place in this journey with your twin flame and your place in your own life. Ask me about which services might benefit you in this and be sure to seek out your own information as it relates to creating your life as well. New Moon News The New Moon occurring this month on May 4th, is still not visible in the sky so essentially it’s the time when plans and goals need to be researched how to set them into motion. To me this is the energy of mysterious possibility. It is about starting something new, not repeating the same old patterns or trying to make the same old plans or dreams try to happen. This phase is about a new burgeoning perspective. It is about being willing and this energy asks for you to be open to a new idea or new message about where you need to focus and what you need to work on or seek out in terms of the things you may have kept buried or thought impossible. NOTHING is impossible if you nurture it and give it time to grow and open and allow for the messages of the universe to guide you instead of resisting. Allow this phase to help you build new strengths and new pathways to creating your life and your world as you wish to have it be. First Quarter The First Quarter moon on May 12th is during what is typically called the Waxing (Growing) phase. This is the time when you need to remain motivated not only to sticking to the plans and goals that you wish to see come to fruition in the future but also if you’re set on a different path then understand there is a reason for that too and in time you’ll see why this may have happened. This is a positive energy so don’t get all upset if things go differently than planned. As mentioned earlier sometimes the universe has different things in mind for us than what we intend. You’ll see why eventually. Full Moon The Full Moon on May 18th is when things are brought full circle in the sense of what needed to be completed has been and what is still needing to be done is being shown in its full expression, the things needing to be done to complete it or shift the perspective or the blocks/shadows will come to light so you can decide either to carry on or let it go in favour of a better option in terms of what you originally planned, with the destiny in play that it might actually turn out far better than you wished for or could have realized. Be careful though this can also be a time when the energy is not favorable and you might be led to think the opposite because you think there is too much in the way or too much negativity blocking you from achieving what you desire. Delays are not bad, it just means perhaps a different path is coming to get there or different people or methods will show up to make it happen. Don’t fret or worry, let that all go. Release that in favor of more positive changes and be open and willing to the new on its way. Last Quarter The Third or some call it the Last Quarter occurring on May 26th is the time when things are half enlightened and half in shadow. Meaning what has been completed can finally be let go of and move onto the new. The benefits have been gained and now it’s time to move onto other things. Consider it as if the seeds you’ve been planting are now fully settled and true growth can happen. Lessons may have been learned or new insight to ways to do things or to be are and have been shown and now it’s truly time to let go of that which may have held you back in favour of new directions. This includes creating new intentions, new ideas and so forth. Ok I know that we don’t always have the opportunity to do this every moon cycle from new to full each month. I am simply saying that each moon cycle gives us the opportunity to be aware and open to what is possible and available if we stay aware. Not just spiritually but to be present in our mortal life and aware of what is real in the now. These cycles are really about learning to blend our spiritual guidance with where and what we are in the physical and move forward and about taking advantage of choices and opportunities. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this, I do hope that it is helpful and of course if you have any comments, questions or feedback, I would be very happy to hear from you! Useful Links: Contact me at: reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarolMary1111/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/CarolMary1111 Instagram: www.instagram.com/reunitingcomesfromwithintwinfl/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ1xAgZKyLOJ1fNEUtW69bg Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/carolmary11/ Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reunitingcomesfromwithin/ This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. “Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.” ~ Carol Mary Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox. ©Carol Mary 2013 ~ 2019. ©Reuniting comes from within All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner Twin Flame Labels and MoreHi All, Sometimes I sit here for a little while staring at a blank page to think about what I will write this month. How can I help those who take the time to read over my blogs, what do they need to know about? Or do I give them something to think on that could change their whole perspective on being a Twin Flame. Have you ever sat and thought about what being a Twin Flame means to you? Is it just a label for a relationship that has a lot of issues to work through before the real unconditional love you share can emerge. I am not just talking about the label Twin Flame, I am talking about all of it, Divine Feminine, Divine Masculine, Runner, Chaser. Sigh. On and on making things seem far more tangled than what they need to be. Creating a vibe of fear amongst those who are in separation and who are hurting from being without their love. So imagine for a moment if you took any of those labels away, what would you be left with. Two people who love each other? Two people who in love who have somethings standing in their way of being together, two people on a similar journey or would you still feel exactly the same as you did before. I know which one it is. Do you? Does it cause you so much anxiety now? In other words do not get too bogged down, it is not all about the label and more about who you are as people! So many people are stuck with placing a label on things in life. If it does not have one, does that allow one to think it is meaningless? Just something for you to think about! I for one love the term Twin Flame and what it represents but do you know the true meaning of it or the hype that you found online. I think that last night's season finale of Criminal Minds put it in one of the best ways possible: “The thing about twin flames is that nothing can keep them apart. They are a magic unto themselves, and together they light the way for all of us.”#CriminalMinds Pedestals There are people out there who worship the ground their Twin Flame walks on, they can do no wrong and they will put up with this bad behavior, this is the holy grail of love, I can not mess this up. They put so much pressure on themselves that can not deal with it and end up doing things that they would not normally do. So is it ok to put up with being treated badly on this journey, oh hell no, that is exactly where unconditional love with respect comes in, but how does one achieve that is the question. Would you believe it if I told you that the answer was quite simple? It is not complicated as others try to make it out to be. Do you think that viewing your Twin Flame as your equal would be a good place to start? Knowing that they are just another perfectly imperfect human being like you. They make mistakes, have fears and insecurities just like you. How about you try to understand them and why they do the things that they do? Lastly do you value yourself, do you love the person that you are? If you can do all 3 of the above, it is half the battle. The other half we will talk about very soon. Need further help with any of this, I highly recommend that you go ahead and book a consultation with me. It will change your life and outlook on this journey. So what are you waiting for? Now onto what may be in store for you this month! Useful Links:
Contact me at: reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarolMary1111/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/CarolMary1111 Instagram: www.instagram.com/reunitingcomesfromwithintwinfl/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ1xAgZKyLOJ1fNEUtW69bg Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/carolmary11/ Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reunitingcomesfromwithin/ This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. “Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.” ~ Carol Mary Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox. ©Carol Mary 2013 ~ 2019. ©Reuniting comes from within All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner. Twin Flame Dreaming and MoreHi All, Happy New Year to you, I hope you are ready to begin this year with a bang and not a whimper. Now is a great time to embrace a new beginning for yourself as a leader Twin Flame, changing how you do things and looking forward with a positive attitude. It’s All in your Dreams Dreams, we all have them, but what do your dreams mean especially when they are related to your Twin Flame. Do you know how to decode the hidden meaning or are you lost as to why you dreamt certain things? Dreams are said to be the brain’s way of making sense of the many types of life intakes with which it has to deal with. The Twin Flame journey can be one of the most mind blowing things, so to discount your dreams would be foolish of you. During our waking hours the focus of our pursuits are generally geared towards our outward external processes and our conscious actions. Where as our dreams are on a subconscious level, or are they really? Let’s start off with when you were a child, you dreamt of places, people or things that you had never seen before, much of it did not make much sense to you. Perhaps you were dreaming about one particular person or occurrence over and over. Were these insights to your future or your past lives? The connection you now have to your Twin Flame began a very long time ago in most instances, but you may not have any recollection of this. I remember one dream in particular that I would have often as a child, it was always at the beach, there was a high wall surrounding it, in that wall, there was a hole, in the hole was a piece of paper, that piece of paper said a name and the numbers 7, 11, that is all that was written on it, it was the name of my Twin Flame and the date we were going to met on. Of course I had no idea what it meant at the time or how significant it really was to my life, have you had dreams like this? Subconscious or Not? I asked earlier if our dreams are on a subconscious level or not? In my opinion, when we have very life like dreams it can be our higher selves communicating with us or a future prediction, Is it part of your awakening process, to get in touch with your higher self, I would have to say yes! Do these dreams occur on the astral plain? Oh yes they do. If you can you should pay close attention to the numbers, to what is actually happening, the finer details and if possible keep a dream journal. A dream journal can be priceless on this journey! Dreams tap into your database of memory, experiences, life occurrences, past, present or future, cultural beliefs, problem solving and conditioned beliefs. Are your dreams trying to tell something important that you need to change about yourself and your life. Can you learn from your dreams? Oh yes without doubt you can. Was the very first time in this lifetime you met your Twin Flame in your dreams, did you have that feeling of deja vu about the surroundings of you meeting them? Besides the already instant recognition and knowing that this person was going to be an integral part of your life! I have also had some dreams that gave me very specific details about what I needed to do, some I will admit scared me, some that were very informative, others were just plain weird at the time, like they had no significance, until I decoded them. Dreams were key during my journey and I do feel that this could be the same for you. Is it time to explore your dreams for you never know what hidden secrets or solutions they may have for your Twin Flame journey? Do you have music or songs in your dreams? There will be a message in that for you too, one particular dream I had was one that I had great trouble with as I must have had this dream for weeks on end, every night, after someone close to me passed away. I printed out the lyrics and began to read, it became so very apparent to me that there was an extremely important message in this dream for me and I will in fact go so far as to say that it changed a large portion of my life and still does to this day! Will your dreams show you what you need to work on, reveal your insecurities about your Twin Flame, oh hell yes, so like I said DO NOT EVER DISCOUNT YOUR DREAMS, they hold more information that you can possibly imagine!! I also have a wonderful service that is very inexpensive to help you out with decoding your dreams, check it out here, www.reunitingcomesfromwithin.com/services it is at the very end of the page. I would love to help you out with this! I bet you do not think that you dreams are crazy anymore right and that you should have been paying more attention to them all along!! Lesson learnt and onwards you go! The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams ~ Eleanor Roosevelt So what is in store for you, on this the first month of the year? Read on to find out!! Let’s Talk About Patience!
One of my biggest pet peeves on this journey is patience or lack thereof. Wow some of you are the most impatient people I have ever come across in my life, it is like you are scared to wait a minute in case you are missing out. Well let me tell you this journey is going to teach you how to be patient in bucket loads, this is one of the first things I will teach you as my client. So forewarned is forearmed. Did you just have an ah ha moment!! Of course you will need to know why you should be patient, there are more than a few reasons for this and I intend to tell you all about it in a blog coming to you real soon! So keep your eyes peeled!! Useful Links: Contact me at: reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarolMary1111/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/CarolMary1111 Instagram: www.instagram.com/reunitingcomesfromwithintwinfl/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ1xAgZKyLOJ1fNEUtW69bg Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/carolmary11/ Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reunitingcomesfromwithin/ This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. “Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.” ~ Carol Mary Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox. ©Carol Mary 2019. ©Reuniting comes from within All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner. |
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