Fanning the Flames 1.4

Full moon April 22nd 2016 - all about relationships!

With this full moon we need to be aware of our intent and feelings about our personal relationships.  We are now given the opportunity to think about the relationship, make decisions and be certain of our reality. It is your choice to do this.  

This is all about oneself and what you want out of your life and relationship. It is a time for thinking and looking forward.   Also we are given the chance to look at the disharmony and the imbalance in the connection we have with our other half. You need to look at the relationship for where the faults are.  In other words, don’t look at love through rose tinted glasses all the time. What looks good on the outside isn’t always so pretty on the inside.

With Mars in retrograde as well  it means we are being given the time to discover things about oneself and you very well may do so with a very analytical outlook. There is an energy hovering over this full moon that brings an uneasiness and there is a possibility of intense arguments.

This full moon is going to possibly expose your fears to you in ways you were not expecting. You are being asked to break away from the reasons why one carries those same fears, and strike out on your own to conquer them and come out a winner!  

This can also mean looking to others who are trusted to step up and show you the person that you are. Look deep inside yourself.  Some may  be willing to step out and reach out be part of the community that helps those in need.  Instead of clinging to what you’ve always known as your typical way of dealing with the fear. Band with those strong enough to help you and together you can come out of this stronger and more stable than ever. This will help you and your personal relationships.

I will now refer to advice given in my blog on Mars in retrograde below.  

“Write down a list of your goals, number them and during this time try to work on each one of them. Try having a soul reading which may show you flaws you did not know you have that need to be worked on.”

We are talking about a purging of emotions and relieving of emotional tensions.  Becoming a new and stronger you and with a more stable persona. Learning  how you handle your intricate dealings with others more easily.

This energy is being supported by the new moon from April 7th where it provides the stability to make the changes necessary. The new moon in May allows for continued progress, more on that as we approach the new moon next month.

For Twin Flames:
With this full moon, all that is going on with all your other current relationships, this energy is going to allow you to understand how fortunate you truly are to have found each other, even if you aren’t in union right now it is time to make these very important changes within yourself. Much will be revealed to you as to the love between you and how it is growing and changing.  (Contact me for a coaching session or emotional releases and healings to help you move forward with this part of your journey)

You may see in your current connections with others, where and how you would like to be in life. When it comes to being in union you may now be able to more clearly the beautiful relationship that can be created with your twin flame.  You will see what you need to change within yourself and those current relationships be that friendships or family.   Also what and who you need to leave behind in order to be with them and open yourself up to the full potential of real, true, unconditional love. NO MATTER WHAT and ALL THAT MATTERS is the love, and support we have for each other, no matter what blocks can be in the way. In other words you will have more clarity.

You are being given the chance to purge those old assumptions and ideas once and for all.  Open yourself up to the new levels of understanding, accepting and loving the one you are meant to be with.   As well as accepting and loving yourself in ways you didn’t think possible. (more about loving oneself in the right way soon)

Take this time now to become friends who you are, and give yourself permission to become the very best person you can be today!  The more you do you this, the more the energy shifts and you will find things changing in your interaction with your twin flame.  Perhaps not immediately but it will happen.

Talk to me about services that can help you with these shifts. Ones that can help you move out of where you’re stuck, and open up to change, and growth.


© Carol Mary 2016

© Photo credit Lorenita Marin