Fanning The Flames 8.1

Oh the Magic! 11/11/17 & More!

Hi All,

This week has been trying to say the least, I hear you say, tell me about it, I need to know when this will stop, because I do not want to feel this way anymore. Does life for a twin flame get better than the turmoil you feel before getting to a state of peace in union.

Advice

The first thing I will say on this it does not get better right away when you do get to union, there is no antidote, but there is answers that need to be found. How you find them is entirely up to you. I know personally I have done many of this the hard way, pushed against his pull and vice versa.

My advice to the leader twin flame would be: take some of what happens in your stride, do not dwell on it, do not overthink, however there is a lesson in it for you, perhaps you will know what it is without having to dig to deep, but if you do not, go ahead and send me an email to reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com

A Magically Magical Life

Magic! Essentially it really is all around us only if we are aware. The beauty of clouds in the sky forming images in our minds, songs on the radio, ads or shows on tv, conversations with others, things that make you happy.  All bring to us daily magic of our connection to the universe and for many of us that of our twin flame as well.  I am going to talk with you a bit today on the magic of November 11 - 11/11,  what it means not only for you as part of your personal spiritual development but as well for those on the twin flame journey. I will also talk about the moon phase which is also on this day. Third/last quarter phase which was yesterday the 10th but it has only aided with building the energies up for us.


It’s All About 11

Every year on November 11th there is a portal the energy for it begins October 10th as we know that is a magical number 10/10 as well. The 1 energy is highlighted - meaning it’s all about our personal development, both spiritually and in this physical life as well - working towards the accomplishment of goals you have set for yourself both spiritually and otherwise.

Today,  November 11th amplifies as you have the double one energy plus 11 is a master number. This particular November 11th has other significance to me.  We are all being shown that it is now time to tap into our guidance and harness that for our own greater good and find ways to use it to inspire others.  So this portal 11/11/2017 is opening now for us to step into the energy of 2018 earlier and use it to our advantage as Being that 2018 is actually an 11 year. The 11:11 gateway portal is finally fully open and it is going to bring with it some huge twists, turns and changes for you all. I for one am excited about this.

Talk To Me The Right Way

The first thing that will be brought to the forefront is communication, this does not necessarily have to be a bad thing as I do feel it will iron out more than a few issues. This communication can come in any form to you, perhaps it will be that long awaited email, through song and music or simply by finally seeing your twin flame after months or even years of separation. Now when I said it does not necessarily have to be a bad thing, it did not mean it was going to be all good either, factor dependent, you may enter separation, there may be a time where you will not want to talk to your twin flame, perhaps a period where you will both play the blame game as you go along with your life. So much can and will happen. Learning to cope will help greatly here, learning more effective ways to communicate with your twin flame is paramount and lastly figure out how what has happened can bring you to being closer to the best version of yourself.

For those of you on the journey now who may have not met or connected with your twin flame in the physical, meaning met face to face, this portal is allowing for you to harness the ability to use your telepathy and connect with them from a soul level,  another great way of communicating!!

Also as it is leading into 2018 this means for some of you that union indeed is possible next year if you listen to me and my guidance, along with yours, your twin flames wants and needs.

Is Loyalty Lost?

Over the next week your loyalty is going to be tried and tested, in all manner of ways. I do find that not many are as loyal as they claim to be to their Twin Flame. I know that at times I for one have wanted to walk away and that right there is the type of loyalty I am talking about. I do get it however, you are giving this relationship your all and you are seeing little in return, emails and texts go unanswered, your kindness forgotten but the biggest betrayal of all I am seeing more and more so lately and that is running your twin flame down. Saying that they are weak, they will never man or woman up. They know my feelings but they do not give a flying f$@k anyway. Why should I do all of this and have them do not one thing for me.

You want to know why?? It is because you are not doing it. If you were you would be so much closer to union. I have said this so many times before, it starts and ends with the leader twin flame, so if you are not being loyal to them, you can be damn sure they are not going to be loyal to you. Wake up, see what is going on. Stop blaming everyone else for your issues. Get off your ass and work on you, look at your ideals, look at how you have treated your twin flame.

The next huge issue that is going to surface in the next 11 or so days is where you may want to begin to plan your future life, do not make the same mistake I am reading about everyday and that is discount the things that  your twin flame will want before you have even discussed it with them. Let’s say, you want to live in Ireland and your twin flame wants to live in France. You automatically say oh hell no, I am not going to live there, where is the love without condition there, it seems as though you have already decided before the opportunity was there to even discuss. My advice do not do that!! Do not future plan your life, a good friend of mine once did that, she decided that she was going to have 6 children, her first was to be a girl and she wanted to be married by 28 with her own business. She had her wedding, she was pregnant with her first child, yes a girl, she died one month before her daughter was born, both of them taken, so what I say to plans always has been, the best laid ones go to waste.

Choose Your Moods Carefully

So for the next month, do not play, go and live in the now, notice the little things, appreciate the gift of life that you have and choose to be happy. When you do this your twin flame will feel happier and you two will become closer to each other.

Moral of that above is you are connected on the highest of levels, when you are down, they are, when it all feels hopeless they feel hopeless, when you are happy, they are happy, when you become content with what you have in life, they will too. It’s all about keeping that energy balanced.

For those who have difficulties accepting the faults and behaviors of your twin flame, this is also because these things are being mirrored to you, so if they are mistreating you, how are you mistreating yourself?  Be honest! Do you beat yourself up over stupid silly little things, and call yourself negative things or think negative things about who you are and the actions and things you do in life or such? Think about that???!!!  Where does that come from?

If you recall last week’s blog where I talked about programming and how you were raised to believe or not believe in yourself or to not love yourself or whatever the case is.  Yes I know we asked for these experiences before we came here as humans but this energy of 11/11 is about honoring who you are as a spiritual being which is perfect so we had these lessons so we could grow! Don’t wallow in self pity or lack of love for yourself.  You can’t have others love you including your twin flame by being a negative Nelly, it is up to you to find ways to change that!

Activity For You!

I’d like to give you an exercise to try.  As we are all aware we are energy, and everything is connected and so with that said I’d like to share with you something that you can try to not only connect to your higher self but also send messages to your twin flame’s higher self.

First, get quiet: No this isn’t meditation, though you can do that for a few minutes if you like before hand to settle yourself.

Secondly, Rub your hands together until warm then hold them about four to six inches apart. Do you feel pressure between them? If so, woohoo, you’ve created an energy bubble. This is essentially part of your auric field that you have harnessed.  Think of it as an energy crystal ball but not to see the future more to transmit messages to the universe or to your twin flame.

Thirdly, into that energy bubble put your thoughts into it of what you want to know from the universe. Form the question appropriately, such as What is it that I need to know to guide my day? What is for my highest and best good to know or do today?

Or

If you wish to send a message to your twin flame. Just by thinking of them you can connect to their higher self and you can send them a message and with your higher self get a response back. The first thing that comes to mind is usually your higher self responding to what you’ve sent out.

I would suggest please send loving thoughts and messages to your twin even if you’re upset with them. If you are upset with them, this will be to your detriment and can actually push them away when you wish to bring them closer.

Being that 2018 is actually an 11 year !! (yes it carries the 2 energy as well and I’ll get into that later in December as we approach 2018)

11/11 Moon Magic

The moon is now in it’s 3rd/Last quarter. This is about midway through its waning phase as we lead into what is called the Dark/Balsamic phase. Now is the time to look over and assess what has been going on since the last new moon since October 19th and see where we are and how far we’ve come and what needs to change and shift before the next new moon on November 18th where we can begin to create again and work on achieving goals. So take a break after this week, chill out, have some fun.. Relax.  This is also the time where we are dealing with internal (emotional) challenges and with the Sun being in Scorpio this is about life, death, rebirth. What can you leave behind and are willing to let go of in order to be reborn and renewed?

The sign this phase is in is Leo.  Leo moons are about refusing to be limited. No limits to your ideas, dreams and being full of exuberant joy at seeing them come to fruition. Meaning no narrow minded focus. It is not just about union, it is about you and your life before union and also after it!  No matter how small or how big you dream! Affectionate and outgoing are words resonating with this energy so perfect with this 11/11 gateway for twin flames!  Dreaming of union? This can no longer be a mere wish anymore. Whether that is your union or your big goal of creating the wonderful life you have for yourself, whatever that may be.  Know that you are the master of your own destiny, have faith, trust, believe and you can and will reap the rewards.

Guides Message

“It is here, it is here, time to reflect on who you are, time to learn how you will grow, time to know that life is about to take you where you need to go! Show your love to others, show it, work hard and always remember that where you are in life right now, while it is true time, you will see your life mapped out before you, now go and take advantage of this energy.”

Check out this week's twin flame tip below!! Remember learn as we go along!! 

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. 

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

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Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary


Much Love


​Carol Mary xx


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