Fanning The Flames 8.3

​You Are Enough!!

 
Hi All,

​I was going to call this, how do you know you are enough but I changed my mind because I know that you are enough, now it is your turn to know that you are.

So how do you know you are enough? This is a matter that really covers issues like self worth, self esteem, personal empowerment, and judgement on yourself.  Many times we feel we are NOT “good enough”. What does that really mean anyhow and where does that come from? Are you being too hard on yourself?

Why

Not feeling “good enough” stems from comparing yourself and your life, your looks and so forth to others and somehow convincing yourself you don’t measure up or don’t equal someone else’s accomplishments or whatever it may be.  That is an amazing amount of pressure on your heart emotionally,  on your mind, and also spiritually, not to mention negative and allowing more negativity to permeate you and rev up your inner critic and your negative Nelly personna, not to mention the green eyed monster of envy and jealousy.  Rather a lot to comprehend isn’t it?  I am sure you can think of many situations you do this,  now and have in the past. While it isn’t an easy “habit” to stop, I’ll be honest.. YOU HAVE TO! If you ever expect to improve your life.

The How To

So where to begin to change this behavior? While I can’t give you specific information as each and everyone one of you are different what I can tell you is:

Our minds do this “programming” to us. If you remind yourself over and over about all the good things you like AND LOVE about yourself and I mean that.. From the small things to the big things you love about YOU, I can tell you that you’ll begin to let go of all this and realize you are definitely WORTHY and GOOD ENOUGH!!  Remember to love who you are as you are. Love yourself because you will need it most when you think you need it the least.

Start your day with looking in the mirror and fill your heart with love and appreciation of you as you are and say things like that to yourself in the mirror.

Say to yourself: (Your Name)  I love you I really love you because you are so _____ , you have such pretty _____  and so on.  In fact write out what you want to say to yourself and tape it to the wall near your mirror or on the mirror so you can see it as you read it.

Do not let the negative mind thing and the criticism come into play! Do not believe it if it does - to be honest that is your arrogant ego doing it! If someone else in your life puts you down please always remember that is no reflection on your but on them entirely, they are criticizing you for what they lack.

Accept the peace and what is of the now and that way you can be happy with the later. Focus on the progress you make not perfection. See how far you’ve come not where you need to be.  Stop hating yourself and degrading yourself because it won’t make it better. Instead realize you are enough just as you are and learning to practice self-love more and more every day will get you further than being nasty to yourself.

Another Why

As Twin Flames we can feel as though we are not enough when our sleeper shows little interest in us, they run away from you so therefore you are not good enough for them, well that is not the case, in fact you are too good and it is that fear that makes them leave, they do not believe that someone as perfect as you can truly love them.

Have a read over the blog I wrote on the searching phase, to show you what I mean by that!

http://www.reunitingcomesfromwithin.com/carolmaryblog/the-searching-phase


Remember

Some other things to remember are:

• There is more right than wrong with you.
• Your mind can be a very good liar.
• You are deserving of this love.
• Focus on how far you have come instead of how far you have to go.

YOU ARE ENOUGH!!! FREE YOURSELF ~ Carol Mary 2017

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Moon Magic

November 26th 2017 is the first quarter moon phase.  It is a time to be more positive and have a moving forward attitude. This bodes well for us twin flames. How?

We are going to be brought into a phase of more understanding this week, we will begin to see more clearly why our twin flame does the things they do, a putting yourself into their shoes moment. We will also want to explore the relationship more deeply.

It is about planting seeds for the dreams you desire to come true, which is fitting for the first quarter moon phase.  So what are your BIG goals and dreams?  It doesn’t matter if you don’t know the HOW or any of the details. The fact of the matter is it is the time to get those things down on paper and share it with the universe and even though you cannot see it you still MUST BELIEVE it is already in your life as you desire to live it.

Union Plan

I was asked this week, how do you plan for union, well there is that old saying the best laid plans go to waste, this is especially true when it comes to twin flames, so what do you do? You work towards union, you believe that you can get to union and you know that without doubt this man or woman is the one for you and there is nothing great enough to hold you apart.

So instead of planning your union, have a plan of action to get you closer to union? Ask yourself these questions:

1. Am I ready to unite?
2. Do I trust my twin flame?
3. Do I understand my twin flame?
4. Do I show my twin flame and others in my life unconditional love?
5. Do I have faith it will all work out?
6. Am I working on become a better version of me?
7. Have I healed from past hurts?
8. Have I offered forgiveness?
9. Am I a patient person?
10. Do I now have the strength it takes to get to union?
11. Do I love myself?

If you have more no’s than yes’s we need to talk!!

Letter Writing

Another really great way to aid in your union is to ask the universe to help you. A good  way to do this is to write a letter, this letter will need to contain your wishes for the future with your twin flame.  Show the universe that you are serious about getting to union.

You also need to show that you are loyal to your twin in your thoughts and in your dealings with others. This will also let the universe know that you are ready and seriously wish to be in union with your twin flame and begin your mission.

Consultation Time??

This being said I know how difficult it can be to keep one’s hopes up, this is something I know many of you struggle with daily. You are working, you are waiting and you are still getting nothing. Are you working on the right things? Do you know what is holding you both back from union? Are there issues that you are not able to see? Are you too close to the situation to be objective? May I suggest a consultation with myself Carol Mary, for just $150 you will know what direction to go in, know what you need to work on and feel more confident on your road to reunion. Book one today.

I am going to have a second blog out this week, this one is some questions that I have been asked in relation to the sleeper (runner) twin flame, keep an eye out for that one it promises to be very informative. If you have any question that you would like to ask about your sleeper please send them along to reuintingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com or use the contact me form!! 

Twin Flame Tip ~ Number 37

Have a watch of this week’s twin flame tip, keeping yourself informed is half the battle.

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

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Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary


Much Love


​Carol Mary xx


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