Fanning The Flames Vol. 9.7

​Powerful Female Twin Flame Day
& Your Weekly Moon Musings

Hi All,

I hope that you are having a good week so far, I am posting a quick blog this week to let you know about today International Women’s Day and tomorrow March 9th being the third quarter moon phase. So let’s get right to it. It is a bit of a lecture for you all.

International Women’s Day -

​Be a Powerful Female Twin Flame - also an 11/11 day for Twin Flames!

Since the early 1900’s the United Nations has celebrated a day for empowering women in many countries and for many reasons. Sadly to this day we still have the issues of gender equality when it comes to employment and gosh knows how many other reasons we are to this day considered “the weaker sex”.  We’ve been empowering women in sciences, medicine, and so on for years and we’re making strides but it’s still an issue for women in less suitable situations in the world where they may live. We can do something about that go check out International Women’s Days information online and find a cause you can be proud to be a part of!

As how I see this relating to the leader Twin Flames, by majority which are female by the way, you need to learn how to be strong, how to be a leader to your Twin Flame be they male or female. This isn’t about overpowering them but it’s about claiming your journey and standing strong in your truth!  That means this as it relates to your journey, both in your personal life and with your Twin Flame.

Learning how to be strong and confident and secure in yourself. Strong in you,  your self-worth, your self-esteem and how strong you are at remembering to love yourself unconditionally faults and all and learning how to forgive yourself over the past and pull yourself up by your bootstraps and be who you are meant to be. However that looks for you.  If you don’t know how this needs to look for you please come talk to me or talk to a good friend you believe has their life going in the right direction and ask them to help do that for yours. - I know you can’t do this 24/7 but you CAN do it most of the time…  it’s definitely important to do believe me!

STOP complaining about your twin, STOP thinking they’re doing everything wrong and against you. The sleeper twin does not really have the knowledge you have about this journey nor have they walked in your shoes and seen this journey from your side { I have a service or two that can help you with that}  STOP the judgement on them as well. You do not have the right to tell them how to do things the way you ‘’expect’’ them to be done. - I know this is difficult for many of you but I will be honest … guess why you’re stuck in your journey? I realize it may not apply to some of you due to the way your Twin Flame is but…. I digress.. Give them a break will ya?

START having compassion and learning how to unconditionally love your Twin Flame regardless of what is or is not happening with them right now. START being compassionate towards their struggle and learn to support them and stand up for them and bless them for what they are doing. Even if they aren’t doing it right. At least they are trying.

DROP the ego expectations, WORK on your fears and releasing them, DEVELOP trust and faith in yourself and in them. - if you don’t know how I can help you with advice and maybe some services to get your higher self to help you so that you can do this for them.

Do you know how to claim your leadership power? I’ve given you some idea but you also need to heal the pain of your past. I see a number of Twin Flames especially the women who’ve had rather negative family experiences, some very drastic, some consistent right from birth until up through part of their adulthood.  For various reasons.. These matters are also what is holding you from union with your Twin Flame.

I realize you can never been perfectly 100% free of your “demons”. However, our attitudes toward ourselves, our lives and our Twin Flame is always a work in progress, even as a Twin Flame in union I am not perfect and still face issues all the time, but my wonderful Twin Flame is always there for me helping me to see where I need to grow and change my thinking and open my heart to the possibilities of having better in my life as far as my attitude towards myself, towards him and others in my life. I am grateful everyday for him!

That is another thing GRATITUDE is HUGE in this journey, that includes being grateful for your Twin Flame and I DO NOT MEAN just saying that I mean for you to really mean and understand how to be grateful for them.  They are your mirror and you cannot be who you are now without them showing up in your world. Gratitude for your experiences and what they’ve taught you about yourself and them as well as how to be a different person won’t happen without that.  

It is also an 11/11 day and that adds to the power because it’s about mirroring, unity and becoming the best version of yourself in the way you know how.  Have a look at my past article for further guidance

http://www.reunitingcomesfromwithin.com/carolmaryblog/the-true-meaning-of-1111

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Your Weekly Moon Musings

This is something I don’t always mention but these things can also be something your Twin Flame is going to go through so if you don’t see any of this fitting your life remember it could be for them.

March 9th bring the third quarter moon phase into our lives.  Third quarter is a waning phase and it’s about internal challenges. Learning about responding versus reacting, learning to understand why you’re triggered from outside situations and how to get through it and come out from it in a positive way. As we’re in the waning phase it is time to turn within so it is a good time to practice self care, healing and releasing what no longer serves you - be it physically, mentally, emotionally or spiritually.

There are both favorable and unfavorable energy aspects to be aware of. Due to the sign the moon is in, it is actually a rather unstable energy, you could find yourself having both the favorable and unfavorable situations coming up this next week or so.

Favorable - exerting your independence, being different and bringing out your uniqueness, being an individual. Being involved or attracted to anything that allows you to increase your intuition and your intelligence. You may make new discoveries about who you are, and your life and the people around you. Being progressive, moving forward. A good time to get out in nature on the water or take up swimming - water is related to the emotions as an element, so good for helping you cleanse your spiritual and mental energies so you’re clear and able to focus on what you intend to get done. A good time to look into healthier eating habits and maybe trying new foods and yeah a little indulgence in your favorite treats too.  For those spiritually inclined you may find subjects of mystery and the occult and such of that may be raising your curiosity, feel free to explore. You may find yourself inspired to create art,music, poetry or maybe doing some public speaking or attending events related to those to explore how they may be good for you to include into your life.

Unfavorable - detached emotions, fear into getting close to people emotionally or maybe even in getting to know yourself. In other words issues of clinginess, co dependency, neglect and such may rise to the surface or be triggered. You may also have issues with fraud, lies and deception. What I’m feeling is it is within you - so can we say denial?! - denying there are issues, denying it isn’t you and coming from outside of you. You may find yourself attracting some weird people this week due to this energy especially if you’re into studying things spiritual and occultish in nature. Be wary… !

There may be issues in love relationships and poor communication and general misfortune between partners - OH ! This points to KARMIC relationships for sure. Whether they will dissolve is not clear, but troubles again are on the rise and looking like they could be consistent for a while.

As we are in a portal much like with the two full moons in January, the month of March having 2 full moons as well, the other moon phases are going to enhance the trouble in these relationships much like it did in January.

Strong chance of impulsive decision and action related to judgement (over reason) and  as well and also unfavorable decisions and actions related to impulsively acting upon misinformation - more lies, deception etc this time from others. Use your common sense please and make sure you get your facts straight.

This can also mean related issues towards your Twin Flame - your own ego may get in the way  or vice versa any of this be it favorable or unfavorable may be them going through it and it relating to you and they are experiencing the mirror effect therefore being triggered to do what they need to do to heal or whatever is needed.


A quick note of interest


I have been looking into the information available to you as a Twin Flame,  in relation to questions and topics that people really are needing to know about. From the commonplace questions to more unique and even the bizarre, be on the lookout for a new section on my website where I address some of these questions and give you the opportunity for your feedback and insight and maybe how they are things you’ve wondered about and ask how it applies to your particular journey. Yes you’ll get to ask me questions about the topic.

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

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Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary

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