Fanning the Flames Volume 10.1

Spring Into Your Journey & Your Union!

Hi All,

So you have come to a crossroads, a big decision has to be made on which path to go down, fear fills your whole body because if you make the wrong choice will you lose your Twin Flame for good. This I have encountered myself personally and also through working with Twin Flames.

How do you know which is the right choice?

Well first of all think about the consequences for your life if you decide to not take that new opportunity you have just been offered, are you unhappy with how your life is and making this decision will make your life happier, better, so surely it is right then to go ahead. Then you feel like if you do that, you will be pulled further away from your Twin Flame but what if the universe has other ideas and it will bring you closer to them?

What I have always found works for me is communicating with myself, trusting my feelings and gut instinct. I also put myself into my Twin Flames shoes, think of what he would do if he was faced with such a decision, then I weigh up the options, what do I gain from staying, what do I gain if I leave.

That is as good a place as any to start, the answers are generally within you!


May Day - May 1st

While not an official twin flame day or major holiday it is a day where many countries celebrate the arrival of spring. In many countries Pagan celebrations are associated with Beltane - which in the Pagan faith traditions this is the day where the Goddess & God become “handfasted”/essentially married and committed to each other.

The earth is abundant in fertility so now is the time not only for you to actually plant your garden in 3D earth life but your spiritual garden with your dreams and goals. It is time to weed out the things stunting your growth in your journey and plant the seeds to bring joy, and welcomed growth into the world of you and your beloved twin flame.

May 5th -  The Threefold Energy

You may see this on the internet or it might be called The Threefold Flame -some may describe this as the masculine and feminine being united within connected to the divine. It might be that you may read the blending of three energies - blue energy of divine will and communication and faith,  pink energy of unconditional love, divine mercy (forgiveness) and creative flow - creation of unconditional love between the two twin flames to bond them as one. The golden energy is of inner strength, inner wisdom, enlightenment & illumination - (Awakening!!!) These days happen often during every month usually, yeah I miss them sometimes but essentially it’s a day to pay attention to and ask me to help you with your union in 5D and also about building self confidence in both of you, awakening etc.  I will try to remember to post about them more.

May 6th is a Huge Energy Day

It is in fact both an 11/11 day and an 11/22 day - due to the date, I won’t get into all the numerology but I will tell you if you’ve been following my blogs that you know the importance of the 11/11 days and also the 11/22 days so it represents change, discovery and partnership, growth, mirroring, duality etc.   May 11th as it is the 11th of the month would also be an 11 day and I post service specials in my Facebook group on that.

May 13th - Mother’s Day - North America

I am a mother, but we celebrate Mother’s Day in Ireland on a different day but wishing you all a wonderful day. I wanted to bring up that much of what we twin flames learn or do not learn about love and relationships tends to come from our parents, aunts and uncles. We don’t always realize the impact of that until we are dating, and eventually find a special person to share a relationship with.  

Many twin flames do not realize the impact of this also affects how they handle love and their connection with their twin flame.  I would like to offer you a chance to figure out how your relationship with your Mom has you where you are right now with your aspects to love and relationships.

Talk to me about the relationship you had with your mom and how she raised you and perhaps there are some services we can use to heal rifts between you or clear away fears of love or issues of abandonment etc.  I do have services that can help. What we heal from within can and does change your outer relationships. I’ve seen it!

Moon Musings

May 7th - Last Quarter Moon - Internal Challenges   

We constantly go through the internal assessment and it can lead to either disappointment, revelation or resolution or making transformations. It can be hard especially as a twin flame to find the light in the dark in all of this journey but this is a moon phase that allows us as we transition towards the next new moon, to give us a chance to review where we are, and should we just knock down the plan and start fresh or just continue on. Being that it is springtime.. This is the “weeding” and nurturing time and well tilling your soul’s garden if you will.

The energy of this moon phase has an independent streak mixed with the mood of because I can, I am doing things differently than others. So it’s a tad skittish and distracted trying to find where you fit in but we’re talking being an individual and finding ways to stand out from the crowd. Perhaps taking brave steps to trying something new or venturing out to new places, exerting your extroverted self, and finding new adventures or new activities calling to you. Take a risk, see what happens.

This could mean as well forming new friendships and the energy bodes well for relationships in general.

Favorable changes can be made when you find your resting place so to speak. But don’t be too impulsive, we still should engage some logic into our plans and not just carefreely toss caution to the wind.  You may find yourself with a little more popularity or attracting new people into your life who will benefit you, and they will be blessed by your presence in their life as well.

On the unfavorable side .. - You may feel restless, and uneasy.  You may just want to sit and do nothing or you may just want to wipe the slate clean and start over - much like I had mentioned earlier. It’s ok we all need to do that sometimes.

There are other energies abound related to karma and unfavorable aspects to some relationships. Don’t spend time speculating or holding grudges or playing the blame game - with your twin flame or even your karmic partner or theirs. Let the energies play out. Focus on you and your energies.

Don’t waste your energies on selfishness either..  Or playing the martyr or victim. That won’t get you anywhere.   A point to remember.

This is a great time to being your inner work if you have not done so and if you do not know what that means, please contact me, so we can discuss it.

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. 

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

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Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary

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