Fanning The Flames Volume 6.3

July Full Moon - Balancing & Challenging ​

​Hi All,
 
As we move along on our journey we will come across many stumbling blocks, how you deal with them is what will help you get to union. Do you stop right there just because there is a challenge or do you think outside the box and find a way past it. Do you choose hope or despair?

Let’s quickly look at the things you can do to help you in these times:
 

• Firstly ask yourself what is the lesson you are being taught!
• Ask yourself what is the most important thing in this situation.
• Try your best not to focus on the negative.
• Remember you can not change what has already happened.
• Ask how can I make a difference
• Perhaps talk to your role models and ask them what would they do, let them inspire you.
• Remember for every problem there is a solution so ask yourself , is there something that I am missing to fix this!
• Remember keep the faith in yourself and know your abilities.
• Know that you were sent this trial because you are strong enough to overcome it.
• Do not ever give up
• You learn life through trials.

 
“Battling wolves today strengthens you for battling lions tomorrow.” ~ Matshona Dhliwayo
 
I think we have a little good news coming our way this week, the less enlightened “runner” twin flame will start to move forward again. This is because many have been thrown at them,  things that they need to focus on for union and the challenges have been set for the month of July. Encourage your twin flame in any way you can to surmount these challenges. Perhaps advise them of the steps below. The biggest problem with the runner twin is that they lack the confidence in themselves to know that they can get the job done, you as the leader twin have to guide them along the way, by being forward thinking at all times. Keep the words I give up out of your mouth and mind.


Take Heed Twin Flames

Now I do have to say I am very tired of seeing you leader twin flames sabotage yourselves. There are quite a few of you getting very close to union so when you have worked so hard why do you allow your fear of your twin flame leaving you to stop you taking that last stride towards union and yes there will be some things sent to you that you believe you can not cope with but I know that you can! So stop trying to make excuses and unite already!! Do you know that when you do this you are showing the universe that you are not ready and you delay things even further.
 
“Temporary failure will not prevent you from achieving lasting success.” ~  Matshona Dhliwayo
 
Stop lying to yourself, saying I am ready when you clearly are not. It gets old hearing this, why because no one is ever ready for a twin flame journey or union, instead tell yourself  and the universe I am ready for the next task. Showing willing to forge forward will serve you well and create favorable karma for yourself. I am now in a position to offer tough love sessions to help you move towards union. Ask me more about this.
 
I hope whenever you’re reading this you will find things you resonate with and that will help you. Many times we find information just when we need it most and I hope that perhaps this is one of those times.

General Insight For All

We have a full moon in the very early morning of July 9th, but the energies will start to rise on the 7th and go from there and in Native American culture this Full Moon was known as the Buck Moon as Bucks (male deer/caribou/elk etc) have their antlers full grown. It is also known as the Thunder Moon as thunderstorms tend to be prevalent this time of year in many areas of the world.  
 
The full moon rises in the sign of Capricorn and in the early part of July the sun resides in the sign of Cancer Things in your life in terms of polarities are due to be more noticeable and perhaps in some cases intensely highlighted for you. Capricorn being the male polarity, Cancer the female polarity. So ego versus emotions, action versus quiet dreams and wishes, your job versus your home life, extrovert vs introvert. The key here is seeking balance between the two. The message I’m seeing is learning to find some control or one may overthrow the other. There is potential for arguments and power plays between people now.
 
 
Emotional Learning
 
Your internal radar of your emotional intelligence is the key to creating the balance.  I’m saying you can allow your heart to lead the way every once in awhile.  They need to work together not overrule the other in necessity for all to work out perfectly or as it is meant to.  Any of the goals you started to plan for or work on during the June 23rd new moon it is time to fine tune those and make adjustments so you can continue to move forward on making them happen.
 
The energy of Pluto influencing this full moon phase is potentially going to cause some intense emotions so monitor your moods, they do affect your thoughts and actions so keeping a journal is helpful and also doing creative things and being physically active will help as well. Drink plenty of water and eat as healthfully as you can this will also help you balance things out.
 
This week you must remember that preparation is key. An unorganized person with only meet with total chaos, I am sure you do not want that to be the case, so make lists, figure out what you are going to do ahead of time. Planning!!!

​Twin Flames & Soul Based Sacred Partnerships
 
There is going to be a need for balancing and purging for some of you.  The mirror is strongly reflecting this to you at this time and it may not always be good. Your ego or your beloved’s ego or the negative emotions (jealousy, guilt, mistrust etc) could get the better of you or them at this time not to mention your emotions and likelihood for being overly dramatic and possible arguments or disharmony could also arise.
 
This is NOT going to happen for everyone nor does it have to happen for you if you heed my advice.  
 
***If things are going well and you’re feeling good then the mirror is also reflecting that back to you from your sacred partner. Stay with that, celebrate that.
 
Once again it is a case of forewarned is forearmed.
Your subconscious or 5D selves do a lot of work even when you’re unaware, usually when you’re asleep, this is of course normal but we need to be aware of our thoughts, emotions and actions here in 3D towards ourselves and our twin flame and keeping them positive and supportive. Especially now during this full moon phase and I also can assist with that so if you have been feeling things aren’t going right or you both need some guidance I can help you if you ask me.  We have two weeks of the full moon’s energy to use to our advantage here.
 
The universe is asking you to be open to change and do not exert resistance to change. We all go through these phases at times during our journey and we need to understand it is what you make of it that is the key here.
 
Noteworthy Numbers
 
July when you add the letters together in numerology,  it equals 14 which is a 5 (1+4 ) but it is also the 7th month.
 
The Fabulous Number 5
 
The 5 is the number of change & can be both positive and negative. In Chinese Numerology it relates to the 5 elements of nature (earth, wind, fire, water, metal) and therefore linked to the positive ideas of balance.
 
In Western Numerology it is a very dynamic number full of originality, adaptability, adventure & thriving on variety. So therefore achieving stability through changes creating balance.
**On the negative side there are tendencies for addictions or abuse of things like drugs, alcohol, in some cases anything that is a vice for people - porn or unhealthy sexual addiction, food addiction/eating disorders, or anything to “cope” or in essence run and hide from dealing with life’s issues or people issues.
 
***Be aware if there are things in your life that could cause this. It is unhealthy behaviour so please try to find more positive healing ways of dealing with your troubles.
 
It’s all about 7
 
The number 7 is a very interesting number it relates to connectivity and togetherness in Chinese Numerology and therefore supportive of friendships and the idea of abundance in all relationships.
In Western Numerology the 7 is the truth seeker and a spiritual number so takes nothing at face value knowing there is more than what is on the surface and realizes that what you see isn’t always what you get.  
In Western Numerology the 7 represents withdrawal and contemplation quite different than in Chinese numerology where it represents togetherness.  
**Negative - aloofness, back stabbing, even cowardice, not healthy qualities and yes ego related for sure. Some things to watch out or prepare for.
 
So again as you can see this plays right into the full moon energy, the push and pull of polarities. Interesting don’t you think?  July 8th (the full moon day) with it reaching it’s full potential in the early hours of the 9th reveals the following insights:
 
It’s Infinity Time
 
The number 8 looks like the infinity symbol, it is the karmic balance, as well as power. Very similar in both Chinese and Western Numerology that they relate to business, money, wealth and success.
 
In Western Numerology it is also about balancing karma and creating stability but as it relates to money gains of abundance wealth and prosperity aren’t freely taken without things being freely given, in other words one must give in order to receive.
 
***Negativity - Western Numerology says there can also be greed and intolerance to others or even religious zealots so beware of others trying to push their beliefs on you and use the 7 energy to find your own path and seek your own knowledge and what resonates with you and shelve the rest so to speak.
 
The full date July 8th 2017 equals a 7. I’ve covered the majority of the energy of a 7 but 7 is a representative of the sign of Cancer so to me this means the energies of Cancer and the intuitive feminine energies of inner wisdom are very prominent.  
 
Cancer is ruled by the moon, and is a water sign and as the moon affects the waters so much emotion is prevalent and so you may feel the need to nurture yourself and those around you now during this full moon phase. Bathe in the ocean or a sea salt bath at home to help release any pent up emotions or tensions you’re going through right now. Journal your feelings and burn them under the full moon and be careful to think before you react now with others from what they say or do.
 
Tarot Talk
 
The 7 is also represented by the Chariot card in the Tarot - Representative of the Goddess Freya and Archangel Chamuel this speaks to love and relationships and also represents victory after apparent challenges. One must be willing to accept the challenges and face them in order to create balance and then one can move forward.
 
This comes with connecting to celestial or divine energy so yes working with your angels, guides, and Source energies to help you in your life and relationships is key. If you do not know how to do this, be mindful that  the 7 energy is that of the seeker so perhaps it is time to stop resisting what is being shown to you and look deeper into your spiritual self. We are all spiritual beings having a human experience, our body is a mere vessel for that which is deep within, the light of energy we all were born with but many have forgotten.
 
You are to find it out for yourself and how it works for you, and allow that energy to be your guiding source along with your higher intuitive self and once you do that.. Life becomes a little easier to understand and deal with.
 
Final Thoughts & Guides Message
 
So this proves to be another very interesting week in our world. I think you find that some of this information is conflicting but it written how it is so that it will resonate with some but not all of your life. We live in a diverse universe and what is true for you may not be true for another. This is my 5th year working with twin flames, I find this work both rewarding and emotional, we all want to unite with our twin flames that is the end game so let me help you find your way. Do not be afraid to ask questions, delve deep inside of yourself to see what changes can be made, the main thing to remember this turbulent week is to keep the faith.
 
“This week will prove to be difficult but the message is clear for all to see, if you wish to succeed, know that you can do it, go with your heart, know that it guides you in the right way. A word to the wise is not to listen to others idle gossip, they do not know the real truth, if you know your twin flame you will know that they are not capable of such things and it is all borne from the jealousy of an ex. Trust in yourself and judge people only by yourself not on what another tells you for human nature being what it is, the truth always lies beneath the surface and talk to all involved parties before making a decision. Always remember too many cooks spoil the broth.”
 
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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.


“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  


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Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary


Much Love


​Carol Mary xx
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