Fanning The Flames Volume 6.4

Changes Coming & Other Energies

Hi All,

7/11 day, this is my most favorite day of the year as it is the day I met my twin flame, John, as many of you know we have been in union (married) for quite some time now. This day 8 years ago was when it all started for me even though I do know that my whole life was building up to that point.

Read more about that day here!

This day feels so very important to me not just because of my twin flame union but because there are so many other twin flames that have very special memories for this time. It is one of my favorite days of the year. How do you plan to celebrate this awesome day?

Did you know that anger does not serve any purpose? This week as I was deep in thought my guides came to me and interrupted my contemplation. They tell me that many twin flames are confused and angry, they feel this way because their twin is not making any progress but they are stuck, they have done all of this work but still nothing changes, so I wondered what is the point of being angry at what is conspiring, how about you use that anger to push your journey forward, channel it another way. Sitting there stewing about what has not happened and what is to come is not going to make anything happen faster.

I remember those very frustrating days and asking myself what the hell was I doing pining over a man who could not even be bothered to pick up the phone and talk to me, it was too much of an effort for him to answer my message, that it was totally disrespectful and I was no longer going to accept it, instead of telling him my true feelings, which I am sure would have involved many swear words, I took a long hard look at myself and I realized that I did not respect myself, that I knew the second he would message me I would jump and answer because I was scared if I did not I would not ever hear from him again. I said enough, it is time to respect me!! I no longer was willing to just be at his beck and call, it was one of the best decisions I ever made. From that day forward I decided that I came first for a while and then is when I began the real awakening process.

I switched the focus from blaming others to understanding myself. Only then did I begin to heal. I forgave for my shortcomings, I began to fix the issues that I saw both in myself and my twin. I reconciled with my past. It was invigorating. Of course I did all of this with my wonderful therapist. She taught me so much and I would love to pass that information on to you.

Do you believe in yourself? If the answer to that question is no we need to talk!
Do you forgive yourself for your shortcomings? If the answer is no again we need to talk!
Do you allow your anger to take over and push your loved one away?, if yes then we need to talk and I can show you some very effective techniques to release this.

Do not be afraid to make your twin flame wait a little bit of time for you to answer. It teaches a lesson that will help them move forward!

“Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed or offended. But what you're doing when you indulge these negative emotions is giving something outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things upset you.” ~ Joel Osteen


It’s go time!

The less enlightened twin flame is about to take flight once more this week, this time do not take offence to it, take it for what it is, he is working on himself, that is of course for those of you who are on the earlier stages of your journey.

For those of you who are close to union or you are after doing all the necessary work it is time for you to reel your twin flame back in. I know that you are asking how do I do that, he/she does not ever do anything I want them to, the answer is in the statement, are you asking the wrong way. Many “runners” like to think that they were the one who came up with the idea of you meeting up or that they are the ones who decide to unite so sowing these seeds are better than giving orders. So do something different to what you normally would and halt them in their tracks and make them think about how each of their actions have a consequence.

A time for dreams

I do not know about all of you, just some of you including myself, dreams have be so very clear right now, there are great messages coming through so pay close attention to what has been happening when you sleep. If you wake up and remember write it down they are clues to union.

This is going to be one very packed blog, so get a cuppa, sit back, relax and read. I at times found it handy to make little notes when reading, just for the items that resonated with me.

General message to everyone - The Mirror and Its Reflection

Everyone you come across in life that you spend more than a few brief moments with happens to be a mirror to you. ** If you’re a twin flame then your twin is the most powerful and reflective mirror you’ll ever face.**  What do you see when you look in the mirror, write a list! Send it on to me and let’s see how I can help you! (It’s free)

​If you’re an empath or energy sensitive this is also going to happen for you in regards to others you are around, on a regular basis, so be aware when things happen and people trigger things in your heart or emotions. There will be those who drain your energy and leave you feeling despondent. These people will not change no matter what you try, this is in their make up and only by walking away from them can you clear that energy!! If you have learnt what you need to, just go, do not look back, the only thing you owe to this person is your thanks for teaching you.

This is what life is about whether you realize it or not. The energetics between people and the lesson is to realize. We are all connected in some way. We all experience the same emotions, both good and bad and these are what we reflect back and forth to each other. This exchange is very powerful and it is something to be aware of.

Special days for Twin Flames & Sacred Partners

1. July 11th, This day is special for you because it brings together the energies of the number 7 and the number 11 and I will share more with you on this further down. It brings to us the power of 11 which as you all know is a very special twin flame number. Today we are being asked once more to offer forgiveness to our twin flames, yes that one again!! It is a difficult task for many is to forgive the not so nice way our twin flames hurt us. Look at it this way is it a lesson or a blessing. It’s serving as a wake-up call to us so that opportunities are not missed in this lifetime.

Did you know that those of us who are drawn to 11, operate on a different level of energy than most, and when two people come together who both have this type of energy it’s almost combustible.

Patience will once again become an issue for some of you, so remember the techniques I taught you and if you do not know these please connect with me for more information on what I do to help you with this. I know at this point many of my clients will laugh as they remember when I first tough loved them on this topic.


2. July 16th the last or third quarter moon.  This phase in July bring a Sun Square Moon in astrology charts. What this means in effect is the energies are in opposition. Kind of like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.

Emotions close to the surface and you are seemingly to be easily scattered in many areas of your life. Chaotic and out of balance is the potential here. Basically meaning lack of harmony and balance within yourself so be careful of your words and actions right now. This may be a little concerning after we had become more balanced last week but see it as moving forward.  Have you been acting out of ego for the past few days, well stop that now!!! Being one’s own worst enemy, this is usually a crisis in consciousness moment during the last quarter moon phase so it will be amplified.   

As with the recent full moon showing polarities between Cancer Sun and the Moon was in Capricorn this is what this third quarter moon phase seems to draw back to us. The battle between the internal self and the external self.


Noteworthy numbers  

In the last blog in the Noteworthy Numbers section I covered about the month of July you can read about it by clicking here!

My favorite Number!

The day is the 11th, in Numerology that is a Master number it is out of all 3 master numbers considered the highest intuitive energy. Dynamic, capable of achieving what is already planned out, also what is wishing to be created when one plans to make it happen and when one uses their instincts and their charismatic personality that is.

Negative traits of the energy of the 11 - anxiousness, scattered thoughts when not applying them to achieving goals, conflict - usually internal versus external  

Essentially the positive characteristics become blocks and obstacles. Does this sound like you in any way or perhaps your twin flame?

Associated with both Sagittarius and Aquarius in Astrology, and the Justice card in tarot.

7/11 is 7+1+1= 9  so this is about humanitarian pursuits, unconditional love for yourself and your twin flame, for all involved in your world and your life. It is also about being creative, helpful, willing to sacrifice self in order to assist others, also seeing the bigger picture of humanity and assisting them and being compassionate.

Negative traits of the energy of the 9 -  egocentric, aloof, discontent, as well as self-pitying and fickle and even detached from romantic or intimate close relationships.

In Chinese numerology the 9 is a very positive number relating to longevity and is the only number associated with the fire element and is about motivation and truth so it relates well to the positive aspects of the 9 in western numerology.

The number 9 in numerology is associated with the Hermit card in Tarot and the sign of Virgo in astrology.

7/11/2017 is 7+1+1+2+0+1+7 = 19 which is 1+9 which is 10 so it breaks down to a 1. In numerology this is about individualism and the force of creativity or creation if you wish to look at it that way. The energy is masculine, so driven, focused with intention or initiating projects. Having or being a leader and taking the reins where needed. This can be about yourself and related to your own life or how you’re involved with others.  

Negative aspects of the 1 energy - selfishness, weakness and undisciplined or even a pariah (feeling like an outcast or unworthy or undesirable) even impatient, being intolerable as well.

In Chinese numerology the 1 also represents independence therefore related to individualism in the essence of showing the world you are unique in your own ways and tend to follow your own path rather than the pack. It carries the energy of being able to be the kind of person to break through your own walls and barriers and come out better at the end of the trials and tribulations you may have had to battle to get there. It can also mean isolation and loneliness. It all depends how you wish to harness these energies.

The 1 is associated with the sign of Aries in astrology and the Magician card in tarot.

Never Been Kissed

July 16th - The day is a 7. For this number it isn’t just a “lucky” number for many but it also carries the aspects of being gracious and refined and air of serious introspection and contemplation about oneself and even life as well.  

negative aspects of the 7 energy - sarcastic, distant, aloof, and comes across as uncaring.   

In Chinese numerology - it’s about togetherness and connection with others and is a supportive energy in relation to friendships as it related to the element of Metal so about melding together if you will.  

The 7 is associated with the sign of Cancer in astrology and the Chariot card in tarot.

July 16 - 7+1+6 = 14 so this is a 5. Freedom loving,daring and energetic. I see this number as a number of flux and change as on the negative side the energy is that of carelessness, and even self indulgent, with not much regard for others.

A highly social energy is associated with this number as well as in Chinese numerology as it is related to all 5 elements (earth, air, water, metal and fire) it is about balance but the 5 also resonates strongly with the Earth element so this is achieving stability through balance.

The 5 is associated with the sign of Taurus and the card The Hierophant in tarot.

July 16 2017 - 7+1+6+2+0+1+7 = 24 so this is a 6.  For those of us in relationships,especially twin flames this is the number of relationships. This is the number of compassion and sympathy. The number is also related to that of teachers, mothers,as well as healers. It also represents support and harmony.  

Negative side of the 6 - paranoia, emotionally over-sensitive or unstable, even cynical or jealous, selfishness and sometimes even anxious and over-protective as well as an emphasis of guilt overriding in close partnerships.

In Chinese numerology the 6 is the number of wealth and considered a very lucky and auspicious number in their culture in fact 666 is considered highly positive as it means triple luck. It is linked with the element of Metal which is associated with money and conviction (trust and faith)  

The number 6 is associated with the sign of Gemini in astrology and the tarot card of The Lovers.

Final Thoughts

I’ve been working with twin flames and similar couples for almost 5 years now. Some people do not realize that I am not about the 3D romance of it all and fully know from my own twin flame journey that romance was a mere part of it but the friendship and energy connection was the first and foremost in what we have together now.  

From an energy or 5D perspective and assistance my goal is to help you transition all of those energies, emotions and I help the energy shift so that you can connect, make contact and go forward on your own journey into union.

If you are in a state of resistance to change and in negativity about yourself as well as towards your beloved. That will not get you into any state of good relations with your twin flame.

Guides Message

“When you criticize others, it is not a reflection on them but on the type of person you are, at this stage in your life you should know better than to do this. As you have not you now must suffer the negative karma that is going to be sent your way.

Can you reflect on your life and see that you have had the perfect existance, I think the answer should be no however if it is yes then you have more work to do that you even know of. Life does not hand everything to you on a perfect platter just like you do not get to union unless you can accept and or fix your negative side. Those who claim others are wounded, need to take a long hard look at themselves because normal people do not go about trying to destroy another just because they can not face up to who they are.

Growth on your journey is there for you to accept if you are not willing to, do not expect to unite, as in this case all good things do not come to those who wait, all good things come to those who face their demons, overcome them and grow.”

Oh a harsh one from the ones who guide me this week. Until next time!

Do not forget to watch this week's twin flame tip www.youtube.com/watch?v=rl8QA4MToF4

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

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Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary


Much Love


​Carol Mary xx

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