August 11th ~ A Positive spin for Twin Flames today!
Today’s blog is just going to be a shorter one to explain the importance of this day to you for us twin flames, there are so many energies floating about right now, that we need to be careful how we use them and know that we are taking advantage of them correctly.
Do you ever feel that in life others are always getting things just fall at their feet, whether it comes to love or money, that no matter what they do they always come out of things smelling like roses, how do you deal with that? Are you one of these people, if yes, why is that?
What about those who continually to put others down, pass the buck and never take the blame for anything. Do they drag you into your arguments and your name is never out of their mouth?
Who are these people, I call them false sympathy and attention seekers. As I continue to work with twin flames, I am being shown all manner of things but the one thing that sticks out so much in those who have not united is how they are so worried about where everyone else is at, how come it worked out for “Sophie” and not me, time and time again I hear this, well the short and simple answer is that if you are doing any of the above you are not ready, if your twin flame continues to do this kind of thing they are not ready. To be ready you must not worry yourself with such foolishness. Work for what you need and do not worry about what anyone else is doing or saying.
Remember that this is a reflection on who they are and if you react every time you are your twin’s reflection and therefore showing them to do the same thing. For every action we take will affect our twin flame!!!
My Lesson in Trust
Have you ever wondered why your twin flame is in a relationship with another? I am sure you have but what about if they leave you, separation comes and then they enter a relationship with someone else shortly afterwards, that has to be the most hurtful thing to endure! How about they go back to their wife after being with you, it is hard for us to understand why they do this, because we felt the connection so strongly.
The truth of the matter is because they have unfinished business, whether this is with someone new or someone old, how you deal with this will show the universe how you have grown or not so much grown. It is all about learning lessons, growing and becoming the best version of yourself.
How did I deal with this happening well I did not, I was upset, angry, could not believe that he would do that to me. He had said so much about how we would be together and then as soon as I left and headed for home they were back in each other's arms(well a month later). It was my lesson to learn that he was not mine in the first place, he was married to her, his karmic learning relationship. However I decided I was not going to talk to him, let him see what he was missing, I, in truth ran for the hills as soon as I thought I knew what was going on, I decided that on her birthday just because I did not hear from him that he must have been in bed with her. I was disgusted, I even went so far as to tell him I was just a booty call for him.
Little did I know that he was heart broken that I left, I did not know that he cried for days, that he felt very lost and alone. I was pushing him away because I was fighting with him because I was pissed he did not ask me to stay. I could not have stayed nor could he have left, as we were both still married. I was upset because he kept saying his marriage was over and he was moving out but he was still there, I felt that it was all a lie, everything he told me I would question. I felt a burning pain inside my chest every time he spoke about her. He was not doing anything how I had imagined in my head he would. He told me “I love you” but I stopped answering. I was my own worst enemy.
I told him to go ahead and sleep with her on her birthday because he was never going to be with me, he was going out to the movies with her, I knew that she had set this up, I knew that she was trying to hang on to a dead marriage, I knew this was her attempt to win him back.
I was however right he did sleep with her on her birthday, he did not tell me the truth about that until the next time I saw him in person which was months later, that sent me running again, I was not able to keep my running shoes off for at least a year. Was that wasted time, yes, because had I trusted him in the first place and not told him that I did not want to be with him anymore, he would never have been with her again because he was getting things organized to leave, finish his business with her. Is there a lesson in that for you, yes trust your twin flame!!!
Just some thoughts that came to mind as I began writing this blog.
Moving Onward and Upward ~ Towards The Sky That Is!!
Mercury Retrograde, oh how I love you lol, well ok I did not so much up until now, especially with the recent full moon, lunar eclipse as well as the Lion’s Gate portal this particular Mercury retrograde has a positive impact. With the added influence of the recent Uranus retrograde on August 3rd, we are all in a much better position with our twin flames, now you may not realize it or see this in action yet but it is coming, so best to be prepared for sure. Many don’t realize that Mercury retrograde brings this opportunity to us, we are going to have a very positive impact from this it, there is a great abundance coming with it, this abundance is love, light and great energy. This one brings with it communication, yes quite the opposite of what others expect. So go with it, trust in it, know it will bring you what you have been waiting for.
Now for the magic of today!
I have a photo explaining this from a previous blog about how the energy of 8 and 11 are intertwined between both twin flames but for those of you who haven't seen it I shall explain it again.
There are also other things at work here with these numbers related to the twin flame dynamic as it relates to each of you individually.
The number 8 in numerology represents personal power and excellence, meaning a healthy self worth, a strong healthy pride and self love for who you are, as you are and using that to push you into being the best you can be. Whether that is at your job, in your relationships with others, creating good health or a better life for yourself in general. It is also about balance and power, what is created is also equally capable of being destroyed or underachieved. Meaning you reap what you sow. It is essentially the law of attraction in action. What you put out is what you get back. Do not forget karma when it comes to this either!
If you go after something with fear of not having it and yes we do this when desperate, needy and not in control of our personal self worth, looking outside of ourselves to feel complete, then you know what happens? We fail miserably therefore repeating the cycle over and over and over until we learn that when you decide to go after something or create a new life for yourself you don’t do it out of fear of not having it, you do it because you know you are worthy of it because you have a strong self worth and high self love for yourself and that no matter what others tell you it won’t matter you know you can do it because you are worthy and that’s all that matters.
We’re talking about the elements of self mastery here, knowing who you are in all ways, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and that you are a divine being not simply some carcass covered in skin walking around some rock floating around in space. We are all more than that, isn’t it time you looked into it?
So for this day of August 11th, it’s time to perhaps begin to look at who and where you are in life and see where you can make changes. Yes I know I tell you this all the time.. But how many of you listen? You don’t have to do it all at once, just start slow and build on it. If you need help I’m sure you can find it I trust you’re intelligent enough to seek out tools and ways to do this. I can guide you in some things.. But it is you that must do the work.
Now for the 11 essentially a few energies here Double 1’s so amplified 1 energy about strength, personal power, putting yourself first, not in a selfish way but harnessing your independence, your masculine energies (even if you’re female!) and looking after your life, focusing on your goals and having discipline and so forth. This is also the mirror for twin flames as well, all the positive aspects you mirror to each other.
This is also the energy of the number 2 in numerology- harmony and cooperation, relationships and the feminine principles and also unity - (this applies whether you are male or female) these feminine principles are related to being gentle and nurturing, creative and flexible meaning being open and receptive and inspirational as well as spontaneous.
As far as the number 11 itself, yes it is a master number it is about illumination, the inspirational messenger of the light and of the cosmic consciousness. So how do you see that playing a role in your twin flame connection? It’s about learning the truth of who you are. This number also applies to the leader twin flame. (Ask me if you don’t know what that means!) It’s about learning to surrender to higher ideals and understanding the reason behind the two of you connecting and then expressing the truth to yourself, to each other (when the time is right of course) and also to the world.
Now Look Higher Up!
Some astrological information to share. Not usually discussed in the case of special days like this, but here goes. This particular Mercury retrograde will bring up matters of love and trust in your relationships.
With a planetary influence of Venus and Neptune affecting this Mercury retrograde there are also lessons related to compassion, forgiveness, compromise and empathy. Especially over minor “indiscretions”. In other words for you leader twin flames it is time to stop blaming, stop mistrusting them and fix this! We can fix this! How? Ask me! Want to be a leader twin flame???!! Ask me how!
This is a big and very hard lesson to learn. What we see in 3D is rather misleading when it comes to twin flames. Realize that if they are with someone else,
1. There is no perfection in that relationship no matter what they show you. There are probably more lessons happening for them than you may even realize and this also could relate to you if you’re with someone and they are not.
2. This person if it isn’t you is there to teach them things (and for you maybe teach you things) that your being in union with your twin flame cannot teach you. They are lessons on how to make you be ready for your twin flame - so you or they change yourselves, to learn what a relationship is not so that you can be with each other. Just to simplify it for you.
You may feel and they will feel in your hearts that there is an element of trust there that is undeniable. Not always easy to accept - especially for the “sleeper” twin but eventually they’ll come around. Be trusting of yourself and of them that you know this is what needs to happen right now in order for you to be together and trust in the process. The universe and your souls agreed to this and to all the lessons and such you’ve been through up until this point from the moment you incarnated on earth. This life is in essence your soul mission really. Learning, growing and changing because it’s what you need to do. Then since your twin flame has shown up this too is slammed full of more lessons, lessons you need to get through as best as you can in order to be together. *** Many of you have gotten far with this so union is closer now in fact for some of you, you’re right on the very brink of it.*** For some of you, you’ve barely scratched the surface. It is scary to have to realize things about oneself you don’t like but all in all, the joy you’ll feel and moving through that into becoming a better person far outweighs any pain and agony you go through, including the actual pain and agony you put yourself through without cause .. due to lack of self worth and self esteem.
You may have dreams, visions etc about these lessons of trust and what it means truly to trust each other, with compassion, unconditional love and empathy and perhaps very romantic and sensual dreams too. ***Be careful not to put your twin flame on a pedestal either, you may find yourself disappointed. Don’t allow your love and kindness for them be mistaken as being weak.***
The energy of this day with the influence of us still being in the Lion’s Gate Portal and Mercury Retrograde allows for us to have more open communication with our twin flame. If it is possible to speak with them in 3D, if you’re in contact with them, please do so with kindness and compassion and have some mercy if they’re going through a rough time. Should this be you going through it and you need their support please be willing to step up and say I don’t know how you can help and maybe you can’t but I just want to know you’re there for me, something like that is what the best thing to say may be.
By the way Mercury goes direct on September 5th so issues with love, trust and finances can be focused on just be positive in your words, thoughts and actions in these areas or disappointment will follow. The solar eclipse on August 21st is a big influence on Mercury when it goes direct because they are on the same degree in the astrology charts so by staying positive then great success can be seen long term!
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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.
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