It's all on the full moon and more!
So it seems many came back down to earth with a bang this week and others well they just stayed where they were in the first place, why is that because they are going to coast their way to union on the coattails of someone else, yeah right, they will not even make it to the halfway point. You remember that old saying “no pain, no gain” This week you are being called to push your limits, go that bit further so that you can get to union.
Sometimes I find myself sitting and thinking what does being a twin flame really mean, I research and I see the same old things, so here is what I think!! (for those who want to read)
When I discovered that I was a twin flame, I was so confused, I said this can not be for real, how can someone who loves me so much treat me this way. It hurt, so much that there were days I could not eat because I missed him so much, so being a twin flame is painful.
Then I started reading and reading some more and some of the things I came across were mind boggling, I mean who would even understand half of what these people were talking about, so I stopped reading because well we are only human at the end of the day!!
While I believe that twin flames are here for higher good that will only become apparent after you unite, I do not feel that there is just 144,000 of us, I think there is many more and that we can do a lot for humanity.
Then when I decided to put on my big girl pants and face this relationship head on, change what I needed to, become a better person, I started to grow, learn and eventually I had a full understanding of what I needed to do for my twin flame and I. I had to lead my twin flame to union, show him the way.
The only way to truly learn something is to go through it or talk to those who have and who came out on the other side smiling.
As days went by I learnt that when I hurt, he felt it, so he hurt more. I learnt when he was sad, I felt sad, when he needed me I could feel that he did, when I missed him, he would write, like he could feel what I did and knew what I was thinking. However this part was instant, it was the issues between us that kept us apart or so I thought.
Fast forward another year, there was total silence between us, I thought in my mind that it was over but my heart and soul could not let go no matter how much I tried, all roads lead back to him. I would even turn my phone off at night just so I could sleep because otherwise I would have willed it to ring all night long. I went so far as actively deciding that we were done, this was my idea, nothing will change my mind. I felt totally out of my depth and I was a shadow of my former self literally. This went on for 6 months straight, in that time I only wrote him when my father got sick because that was a day I really needed him, did he reply yes, but it was cold, it made my choice a little easier because he was this way.
Instead of hurting, what I realized was it was better to try to send him love when I hurt than to ignore, so he could heal, send understanding and look at things differently, with new eyes, when I felt his pain, I told the universe to give all it could to me because I could handle it. I felt happier, stronger and then came contact. This was every day full on contact, we chatted for hours about everything and anything, I found out that he was hurting, that he missed me and pushed me away because he thought my life would be so much better without him in it.
Making It Work
I worked hard at our relationship, I wanted this to work, I wanted the two of us together, I fought, used the theory above and with help from a really great therapist and my angels and guides we united. I am the leader twin flame and I am proud to be one! He was my sleeper and he still has a little waking up to do but in the end it will be all good. So you go right ahead and get yourself to union by whatever means you feel will work for you. Do not listen to those “twin flames” who judge for they are not twin flames, true twin flames do not judge or put others down for their beliefs, their ways!
Reuniting Comes From Within
So being a twin flame and the key to uniting is love of self, respect yourself and above all else know that you can do it. No matter how bad you feel, remember your twin flame will feel this too. Take the good with the bad, everyday as it comes. You are a leader and you have got this.
Anyway I went off on a tangent there, so what does being a twin flame mean to me, I can sum it up in one word ~ EVERYTHING!!
Leaders and Sleepers
I have had quite a few people write me and ask me what is a leader and sleeper twin flame and why do I use those words as opposed to the chaser and runner dynamic.
Leader ~ Well it seems to me that when you think about the word chaser, it means to run after or some might even say stalk, that is not truly what we do, we lead, we show our twin flame the way. We do not run after him/her so I felt the word leader was more appropriate here.
Sleeper ~ This one is pretty simple, it just means that your twin flame is not awakened yet so he/she is sleeping!
More Than One Twin Flame
I see a lot of hype these days about how we can have 2 twin flames, I have on good authority that can not be the case plus common sense tells you that twin has always meant two, two people in our case who share a soul. We can however have more than one soul mate, more than one karmic relationship and of course others who will help us more than we give them credit for until we see a lesson learnt.
Full Moon Talk
Turns out that the full moon occurring on September 6 2017 happens to be a pretty confusing one, things are going to hit you full force, so instead of this happening let's prepare for it earlier.
The Sun sign is in Virgo and this full moon is taking place in the sign of Pisces. Essentially this is like a double edged knife, being that right now your energies related to your emotions are on high alert, and the key here is to learn to filter out the good from the bad and take this energy and use it to your advantage and focus on the good changes you can make.
Your dreams might be a bit wonky, or perhaps they may even end up having an energy of their own. Don’t get too caught up in the fantasy of it all, in other words now is not the time to raise your expectations and be hit with a fall.
The energy of the Solar eclipse is still prevalent and will be for 6 months and if you recall that was about making positive changes in areas of your life for the long term to bring about success and positivity to you for in the near as well and foreseeable future. Are you working on that?
Well you may find with this full moon some confusion as to your twin flames words and even perhaps their actions in 3D. As I’ve ALWAYS said do not take that at face value. This is not who they truly are. They are only really dealing with what they know, their current life experiences and perhaps some triggers from past lives-either with you or not with you, that are making them feel this way or react this way. You too may find yourself acting out or finding things wonky and over-reacting to your own stuff right now.
Remember Your Health!
Twin Flames need to try and keep themselves in the best of health, you have a long and possibly difficult journey ahead of you, colder weather is incoming so go ahead and get some vitamins and a well check at your doctors, so if there is anything you are fully armed to deal with it. Did you know that many twin flames feel each other's physical ailments so this is as good a reason as any to get yourself check out!! Your health is your wealth!
Since this is the first blog of September let me cover a few things. As always I cover the month and I use two number energies here. September, when you add the letters up = 40 So essentially it is a number 4 energy. This is a very masculine energy number. It is a very grounded and stable energy. Slow moving, yet determined and methodical energy and exactly what we need right after such heightened energies.
September is also the 9th month of the year. So that number 9 has a catalyst kind of energy. About completing cycles and understanding the true value of life and the human experience and how it all relates to the divine and sacred power of the universe. The 9 is the center of the 9 steps of the life cycle, it is about reaching the height of both mental and spiritual attainment. Transformation!!!
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The day - September 6 is a double energy as I see it.. Both the month and day together and the day itself carries the energy of 6. That is all about relationships, fairness in relationships, loyalty and harmony along with responsibility. This applies not only to romantic couples but also to families and work relationships.
Full date - 9/6/2017 is a 7 so that is about the inner self. Knowledge of who you are and how you are in this world, with yourself and how that interplays with others. This may mean some quality alone time. This is exactly what many of us want, alone time with our beloved.
For Those In Union
September is the month where some of you will have their mission laid out in front of them. I encourage those of you who this happens to, to embrace it, go right out and get started.
Others of you will be very frustrated, you did all of this work to get to union, things do not seem to be working out and those of you who are the leaders will lose sight of who they are for a short time. As with all relationships there will be issues just ours will feel much worse as we will be dealing with such a strong mixture of emotions. Remember not to lose your head, this is simply because everything must come back into alignment for you both again. Try to relax and know that you have got this like I say to those striving for union.
“These are the tests you need to learn to ride out. DO NOT TURN AWAY or BACK OFF from this journey now. Some of you are VERY close to union or at least communicating again with your twin flame if you haven’t in awhile, and working towards meeting and union, so just be calm and take things easy. Stay in the unconditional love energy and know too that this temporary setback is simply that TEMPORARY! Many times we see twin flames and soul mate partnerships dissolve away over the tiniest things. Why? Because we’ve forgotten that this isn’t your typical relationship".
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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.
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