It’s All in your Dreams

Dreams, we all have them, but what do your dreams mean especially when they are related to your Twin Flame. Do you know how to decode the hidden meaning or are you lost as to why you dreamt certain things?

Dreams are said to be the brain’s way of making sense of the many types of life intakes with which it has to deal with.  The Twin Flame journey can be one of the most mind blowing things, so to discount your dreams would be foolish of you. During our waking hours the focus of our pursuits are generally geared towards our outward external processes and our conscious actions. Where as our dreams are on a subconscious level, or are they really?

Let’s start off with when you were a child, you dreamt of places, people or things that you had never seen before, much of it did not make much sense to you. Perhaps you were dreaming about one particular person or occurrence over and over. Were these insights to your future or your past lives?

The connection you now have to your Twin Flame began a very long time ago in most instances, but you may not have any recollection of this. I remember one dream in particular that I would have often as a child, it was always at the beach, there was a high wall surrounding it, in that wall, there was a hole, in the hole was a piece of paper, that piece of paper said a name and the numbers 7, 11, that is all that was written on it, it was the name of my Twin Flame and the date we were going to met on. Of course I had no idea what it meant at the time or how significant it really was to my life, have you had dreams like this?

Subconscious or Not?

I asked earlier if our dreams are on a subconscious level or not? In my opinion, when we have very life like dreams it can be our higher selves communicating with us or a future prediction, Is it part of your awakening process, to get in touch with your higher self, I would have to say yes! Do these dreams occur on the astral plain? Oh yes they do.

If you can you should pay close attention to the numbers, to what is actually happening, the finer details and if possible keep a dream journal. A dream journal can be priceless on this journey!

Dreams tap into your database of memory, experiences, life occurrences, past, present or future, cultural beliefs, problem solving and conditioned beliefs. Are your dreams trying to tell something important that you need to change about yourself and your life. Can you learn from your dreams? Oh yes without doubt you can.

Was the very first time in this lifetime you met your Twin Flame in your dreams, did you have that feeling of deja vu about the surroundings of you meeting them? Besides the already instant recognition and knowing that this person was going to be an integral part of your life!

I have also had some dreams that gave me very specific details about what I needed to do, some I will admit scared me, some that were very informative, others were just plain weird at the time, like they had no significance, until I decoded them. Dreams were key during my journey and I do feel that this could be the same for you. Is it time to explore your dreams for you never know what hidden secrets or solutions they may have for your Twin Flame journey? 

Do you have music or songs in your dreams? There will be a message in that for you too, one particular dream I had was one that I had great trouble with as I must have had this dream for weeks on end, every night, after someone close to me passed away. I printed out the lyrics and began to read, it became so very apparent to me that there was an extremely important message in this dream for me and I will in fact go so far as to say that it changed a large portion of my life and still does to this day!

Will your dreams show you what you need to work on, reveal your insecurities about your Twin Flame, oh hell yes, so like I said DO NOT EVER DISCOUNT YOUR DREAMS, they hold more information that you can possibly imagine!!

I also have a wonderful service that is very inexpensive to help you out with decoding your dreams, check it out here, https://www.reunitingcomesfromwithin.com/services.html

I bet you do not think that you dreams are crazy anymore right and that you should have been paying more attention to them all along!! Lesson learnt and onward you go!
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The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

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Now for the history part!

Where does the concept of Twin Flames come from? The discovery of Twin Flames began in ancient Greece. Many Greek philosophers had different theories about how two souls joined together in reunion, each philosopher had their own view on life. 

Plato was the only philosopher to really have an idea on what Twin flames are. Plato was born in what was known as classical Athens and live a very influential life he had many different views on the way life should be lived, he believed in love and kindness towards others even though he is known to never of been satisfied with his love life because of this he wanted to help others find their one true love, their Twin flame. Plato said that everyone comes from one soul that divided into smaller fragments and were spread all across the earth and over time would all unify and bring together every race, nation, gender and families, or as individuals while on opposite sides of the universe.

As the splitting occurred relationships were created causing us  to seek reunion and eventually return to our source of “origin”. At the end of the division cycle our souls made the painful decision to separate themselves for the greater good of the universe because of this separation from our twin the other half of our soul we lost our way on earth and became humans all of this pain from the separation is a part of a plan made by the universe it was so we could feel things on different levels, to feel separation and when the time was right we would become reunited and all the pain would be worth it. 

“It seems that when each of us separated into our male and female halves long ago, the soul knew, and still knows, that the rejoining of its incomplete self would inevitably take place. It was part of the divine plan. After that agonizing and painful division occurred, a deep-seated yearning for oneness began to linger within each of us and the desire for reunion and completeness has endured over the ages. Only one other in the entire universe can satisfy it. As a result, we are constantly searching for our twin.”. 

Plato is not the only ancient philosopher to write about Twin Flames throughout history Twin Flames play a key role in the love life aspects, some have believed that wars have started over love so powerful it cannot be described.  

One key lesson that many Twin Flame researchers have said “is to be patient and to love all equally with all of your heart and for any and all heart break is a lesson to be taught and learned.”

I hope that you have found the above article interesting and of course as always I would love to hear your thoughts on this.

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​Hi All, 
 
I first wrote this  article around 2 years ago, some of it was from my own journey and more of it was from what I have learnt helping out, many wonderful Twin Flames. We already know that our Twin Flames will do things, hurtful things, that would be a deal breaker with anyone else, however, the one I find most struggle with is what I call the searching phase. I know that some of you will know about this already, but I decided to look at it again and see what if anything has changed, if there is a new way of combating it, and of course to refresh your memory.


Life Changing
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After we meet our Twin Flame our whole life changes, this had a pretty tremendous impact on you but it seems our counterpart does not notice this as much as us leaders do. Often times many do not understand that, because it had such an effect on your life, it brings up all kinds of hurts and struggles, things that you may have thought you left go long ago.


Oh No!

One of the next things that could happen is you hear that they are dating someone else, on a dating website or the latest dating app, some will tell you that they want to date others, or you hear from a friend that they saw them with someone else.

As if you heart was not broken enough already!! Now you have to deal with this on top, there will be so much going through your mind. Along with crying, anger, some even get depressed.  


Questions

Why are they putting themselves out there and looking for someone else? How could they want to be with someone else after they have been with me? Did they not feel what I did? Am I losing my mind? I am sure that these are all questions you have asked yourself! 

Well I mean the love of your life has left you, it seems to you that they have moved on and at lightning speed, all the while you are in a lot of pain.  It is never easy to comprehend why your beloved finds it necessary to find someone else. 

You will find yourself asking questions like, what is wrong with me?  Am I not good enough? Did they not find me interesting or attractive enough? Did they not feel the same things as I did. because it had such an effect on your life.


What Actually Happened

Your Twin Flame knows on some level, but it is because they are not as awakened as you, they find that the whole relationship with you could not possibly be real, I mean there is no such thing as a perfect partner right. 

In my opinion there are four reasons why they do this, which one has your Twin Flame done? This might help you to understand more why they have done this.


Reality

So your other half goes out in search of reality.  They want to make sure that they have found their one by seeing if others will even compare.  It is a sleeper instinct to do so, the sleeper may be running away but they are also in search of truth as they do this!!


Safety

The search for the safer you, why do I say that?, well like I said on some level they understand who you are to them, but oh my do you have the potential to hurt them, sleeper Twin Flames do not cope well with being hurt at all, so instead of having to feel such things, they just let you go and go out in search of another. This person may have some of same characteristics of you, but they will not feel for them, half of what they feel for you. Therefore less chance of getting hurt, but this relationship will not compare to you at all, so they will begin to drift away quickly from this person.


Opposite 

Alternatively they may be the total opposite of you, in looks, personality and actions. This is perhaps because you have brought out all of the things that they do not like about themselves, a person who is nothing like you, could never do that. What your Twin Flame does not realize is that when you brought up all of that in them, that they will have no choice only to begin working on it, so being with another person will not help that process and that relationship will fizzle out.


Going Over Old Ground

They may revisit old relationships, this is to  try to figure out why it did not work with that person. This is a learning curve for them, it may be necessary for them to know so that they will not do it in the future. Once again they will find out the reasons why they left this person in the first place. Your sleeper will realize this and know that it  will work with no other, there is really only you.


What Happens Next  

Now will come the time where they will make contact with you again, or you both will have a chance meeting. How you react towards them is up to you. You both will either come together one more time and part or actually get to union. 

You will need to forgive your sleeper for hurting you so much, it is hard to think about them being with someone else and I know you will have to dig deep to find it in yourself to forgive them and move forward. This forgiveness will also need to be offered to yourself for acting out of ego and not a place of unconditional love. 

One thing I will say though, is your Twin Flame is not cheating on you, I hear that so often, if you are not in a committed exclusive relationship with one another, it is not cheating, while it may feel like it is, it is not, it is important to know that while they are your Twin Flame, you do not own their lives or what they do.


My Lesson

I learnt about the searching phase the very hard way, when my Twin Flame decided he wanted to go back to his ex wife, he wanted to see if the marriage was worth saving. He later told me it was for their children in some ways and the other reason was he was scared, that things would not work out with us, everything felt too intense for him. 

It did not make sense to me as they were going through ending their marriage, they did not talk much anymore, a karmic relationship for him.  We were in the beginning of our relationship, not committed more so talking about being together. Things started to get a little strained with us, I was feeling like he was pulling away, talking with someone else and I felt that he had decided to try again with his wife. Double whammy. 

When I questioned him about this, asked him if he had decided to try again with her, why did he always take so long to answer me, when it was normally instant, asked was he talking to someone else,  he lied to me, I knew he was lying, so I got more silent, stopped communicating with him, it took him 4 more months to tell me the truth, the next time we saw each other in person, that he did indeed have sex with his wife, that he was talking to an ex, the one before his wife.
I could see that he was suffering, he knew that I was going to walk away and I did just that, he asked me to come back, he wanted to be with me, but I could not bring myself to do it, I was just too deeply hurt.


I walked away!

For 9 months, I had so much pain and hurt built up inside of me, I asked all of our mutual friends to not talk to me about him. I did not want to talk or hear from him. 

I had the hardest time with this and made it a very difficult time, I often look back and say that I wish I had known why he did it. Now that I do, I want to share that with you. I asked him many questions about this time and the answer he gave me was I had to know if I was making the right choice,  as being with you was going to change my whole world. It was not that he was not totally in love with me, not that he did not want to create a future with me, but more so protecting himself. That was hard to take too because I would not have hurt him in that way, he just did not know that I would not have. 

In those 9 months I was gone from him, his whole world fell apart, I immersed myself in my children and work. He was very depressed, he said he would sit outside for hours and cry because he had lost his one true love with his actions, he deserved to feel that way.
 
Moving Forward

Then out of the blue I heard from him, I did not open the message for a week, could not bring myself to do it. There was an apology and an explanation, one like I said I had a hard time hearing it. You know that burning feeling in your chest, that is how it felt. I now knew that I had to either forgive him or walk away, I knew I was still in love with him.

He told me everything was done, he had learnt his lesson. He asked if we could be friends so I agreed, when we signed off for the night he would always tell me that he loves me, I did not reply, my ego was bruised more than anything, about 2 weeks into that friendship, after a lot of thinking and soul searching,  I wrote him, I knew he was hurting, I told him that I forgave him for everything. 
Things moved quickly after that.


Hindsight

I am now happy that he did this because it showed him without doubt that he wanted to be with me and no other for the rest of our days on this earthly plain.

This searching for another will hurt you very much, and make you ask the question how can this person be my beloved, the other half of my soul.  If they are in love with me, they would not do this to me. In fact they are doing this for you complicated I know, so they are 100% sure when entering a relationship with you.  

Your sleeper will never find it necessary to look for another, they will know 100% that you are the one for them. Some of you might argue that this should be known from the beginning but I will state that past hurts cause sleepers to act how they do.

So how do you get through this phase, how do you deal with the hurt your runner causes you?
Many work on themselves, find other interests.  Some wallow in self pity and wonder all about how they are not good enough. Some twins meet someone else in the hope they can forget about their sleeper Twin, this one never works out either. 

What I suggest for you to do, is accept what your twin is doing and the reason why. Work on yourself, look at your faults and failings, not an easy task I know so contact me and I can help you deal with this phase and how to move forward with the least hurt possible.

If I could offer any advice or words of wisdom on what I call the searching phase is that you know that they will not find another like you no matter how far they look, and know that you are good enough and that you are special, unique and not like anyone else!! 
 
Don’t do what I did, it wasted so much time!! 
 
I do know that some will say, wow she is crazy going back to someone who hurt her that way, but they do not understand the love we experience. 
 
In all the world, there is no heart and soul for me like yours, in all the world there is no love for you like mine ~ Maya 

The quote he said to me when we first met up after that life changing forgiveness message.

Thank you all for reading, I do hope that this will help you if you are suffering right now or to perhaps know what could come in the future. 
 
Much Love, 
 
Carol Mary


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​When I first came across the term twin flame, my mind was filled with confusion, so much that I was reading made no real sense to me, words like ascension, divine masculine etc, blew my mind. I had no idea what anyone was talking about, that day I said I was never going to read another person’s explanation of it ever again. Plus I partly did not believe that the symptoms of a twin flame relationship were even true although some did fit for this person I met 6 months before.

Up to the point I met him my life was not great, my husband at the time was and still is an alcoholic, who when drinking was the nastiest person you could ever come across. I often fantasized about a man coming to save me. Take me away from this life of hurt that I lead but that was not going to happen really, I had to become strong and save myself, this was one of the first things I learnt as a twin flame.

Of course I was not confident in my gifts at that time so I shrugged most of what I was feeling off, I did however go to see a psychic, a man who lived about 25 miles away from my home, I did it for a laugh to be honest because I never really believed in things like that, oh boy how my mind has changed over the past 7 years. I was there with two of my friends and the first thing he said to me was “Your whole life is about to change, you are in for one heck of a ride and also you are not as innocent as you like people to believe you are. He then told me that I was going to met someone in the most unusual place, this person was going to be the next man I was going to marry, my one and only true love. He talked about some other things too that shocked me, like my fear I would not be able to have a baby after a miscarriage. He told me I would always suffer with back pain and to take care of my kidney area and lastly what stands out in my mind is that he said I would never be rich but I would be well known. I fobbed most of it off!

Then I look back to my childhood, I was never settled and was always searching for something new, someone I had not met yet. Always kicking myself for not saying something that I felt or saw to another. To be honest up until the 11th July 2010 there was always a missing piece. The 11th of July was the day we first spoke and I knew that he was going to be very important in my life, I felt like we had met before and I started to see my future spread out before me.

By this stage my gifts started to intensify, I was seeing more and more as I met people, all these words and things that would happen would start to jump out at me, I could see what I learnt later was their soul, I had dreams so clear I felt it was actually happening to me at the time, so in hindsight meeting my twin flame was a catalyst, so my journey of learning and discovery had begun.
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Now I am going to impart the information to you that I have not shared with others before….

Truth Time

This has become a very hot topic, everyone wants a slice of the action so much so that there are people claiming they are twin flames when they are not, there is a very mixed perception of what a twin flame is and how you know you have found yours and there is a very common misconception that your twin flame will come into your life and everything will fall into place and be perfect. That is just not true on any level.

You will get to that level of perfection that I know as a united twin flame, but it is damn hard work getting to that position and anyone who tells you otherwise is either not a twin flame or has met their soul mate. There are huge differences.

In my opinion at the very beginning of your existence, the ones who guide us and our angels were there at our creation, we were made as one soul, this soul was then split in half and you were sent out into the world to make your soul one again and to fulfill a mission that was set forth. Sounds easy to do right?

It is important to remember that twin flames were a rarity before, as we did not have the technology back then that we do now. So therefore social media, better travel systems and a total different set of values have brought much more twin flames together!!

So they are not as rare as others try to make out they are.

The other half of your soul will mirror you, so they will bring every single flaw, emotion, wrongdoing and belief you have ever had to the surface and make you become the best version of yourself whether you like it or not. This person will come into your world and turn it upside down and you will become a person you did not know you could be. When you look into your twin flame's eyes, what do you see? Make a list, because that is what you have to work on. 

When we look at levels of relationships we will see that twin flames are on the highest level possible, so I often refer to it as the ultimate love. Then soul mates come behind them along with karmic relationships, we will look at all of these later on.

We all know that a twin flame can not be a sibling, parent or related to you in any way by blood for want of a better word! They are not always romantic relationships, it is ok to be just friends with your twin flame, carry out your mission and support one another. You will know which type of relationship that you are meant to him with them.

When you first meet your twin flame, you will have the feeling that this person is familiar to you, that is of course if this is not the first time you have incarnated together, if that is the case you will mostly just feel an unexplainable connection with them. Many say that they have dreamt about their twin flame, realizing it when they meet them for the first time.

The likelihood of it is you will come from different cultures, have totally different beliefs, age gaps are common, different backgrounds and can be the same or the opposite sex, you will however have had similar happenings in your life, like take for instance my twin flame and I, I am older by 3 years, but both of our grandfathers died at the same time, same day in fact, so as you get to know one another these things will become more apparent!

Numbers and signs will become very important to you, they will give you messages on how to move forward. Pay close attention to your dreams as you will also be shown the way as your dreams are accessed by you higher self.

More often than not you will meet your twin flame when one or both of you were in other relationships and not available. It’s likely that you met when you were not even looking to find someone. It hits you like a bolt out of the blue.

One of you will be more awakened than the other, what this means is that you will have a better understanding of who you are to each other. I have discovered that one of you is the leader and the other is the sleeper, the runner and chaser as it is more commonly known. 

Why I prefer Leader and Sleeper

Leader ~ Well it seems to me that when you think about the word chaser, it means to run after or some might even say stalk, that is not truly what we do, we lead, we show our twin flame the way. We do not run after him/her so I felt the word leader was more appropriate here.

Sleeper ~ This one is pretty simple, it just means that your twin flame is not awakened yet so he/she is sleeping!

This relationship or connection will wax and wane, push and pull and you will experience extreme highs and super lows. No one in your life be that family or friends will understand this and you will be told that you are crazy for pursuing this person, and almost always be told to move on to someone more suitable.

You will have an unconditional love for your partner that is unrivaled!! Your partner may also do things that would be a deal breaker with anyone else but somehow you find a way to forgive or understand the reasoning behind this behavior or bad habits.

These are all lessons you will learn, this can for sure be a harsh awakening process, with many twists and turns. Ultimately you will have a longing to be with this person no matter what! You will not feel complete without them in your life.

Then of course the universe asks you to be independent from them and show how you can live without them and do not need to rely on them, so you would almost need a degree in twin flames to figure out some of what is thrown at you!

It is my belief that there are not particular stages to this relationship, like bubble love, ascension, personally I think that is bullshit, that is for people who live in 5d not 3d. One of the main reasons why I want to help others navigate through this journey is because of the ridiculous things I see on the internet. What I do believe however is that there are phases, like when you meet, when you separate, when you search, when you want to give up and when you reunite. So much easier to understand this way.

Relationships like this are hard to understand so I hope that I can make is easier for you and of course help you get to union because that along with learning about who we are and who we need to be is the aim, but always remember that reuniting comes from within.

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