It has been requested by more than a few people that I write an article on the truth about the sleeper Twin Flame. I had already written an article about it so I felt it was high time that I updated it with the latest knowledge. So here is it for you!
What is the sleeper Twin Flame?
To understand the sleeper Twin Flame, you will need to understand what a Twin Flame is first and only then can you get the clarity you need.
I have included the below article to explain this to you:
I often wonder why we have to define this relationship in this way, I mean at the end of the day you are two people who wish to be in a relationship with each other but there are blockages standing in your way.
However, through the course of my work I have found it necessary to use the label leader and sleeper, so that I simply did not have to use runner and chaser. Those two words right there are not the definition of a Twin Flame journey, they are the definition of a stalker and the person who does not want the stalker in their life.
So why do I use sleeper for one half of this relationship because that is why you are reading to find out what this means for you. The sleeper is quite simply the one who is not awakened to the dynamics of the relationship, it does not mean they do not feel a connection to you, it means that they are not awakened spiritually or there are conditioned life beliefs standing in the way of the relationship so it seems easier for them to walk away because they can not see the wood for the trees.
Predominantly the ‘sleeper” Twin Flame was considered to be the male of the relationship, that was always an outdated belief for me. I work with both male and female leader Twin Flames. I find that the male leader Twin Flame goes through just as much as the female.
There are some teachings out there that you can not be a part of the LGBTQ + community as they could not possibly be a Twin Flame, I call bullshit on that also.
I do not feel that the Twin Flame journey is dominated by a particular religion, race, ethnicity, age, disability or gender identity.
I come up against some ridicule for what I feel is the real truth behind this journey, just because I like to call a spade a spade and speak in simple terms that are easier for everyone to understand. I also believe that we as Twin Flames strive to come into union here on this earth for we are here to join together and carry out missions which are considered to be humanitarian acts.
An important thing to remember is that this journey knows no bounds.
Once you connect with your Twin Flame you may feel an intensity like no other, you will want to spend as much time with this person as possible, part of you will not be able to understand the reasoning behind why you feel this way at first. You may feel instant love, a need to be there for them always and obsession like symptoms with how they are doing or where they are at any given time. It is something that you can not explain to friends and family. You will keep much of this emotion inside of you. This emotion can build up and make you feel awful. At times you may even believe that you are crazy to feel or think this way.
So which one of you will become the Sleeper?
The simple answer is the one who can not deal with the intensity of the relationship, the one who feels fear about the love that you share. The one who pushes you away over and over, who will do things that are done to purposely hurt you.
The main symptoms of a Sleeper - is this you?
What happens when your Twin Flame leaves the relationship?
Many will run because of the symptoms described above, the leader needs to know that it is not because of them or that they have no feelings for each other. I find typically the sleeper will go out in search of another so that they know for sure that they have found “the one.” I have explained all of this in my blog called the searching phase.
During this period of separation, the sleeper twin may meet their karmic relationship this is so that they can learn lessons to prepare for the ultimate union. This can be very hurtful to you but you have to keep in mind that they are in preparation for being with you.
The sleeper twin will miss you and they will feel your love but still rejects the connection this is owing to the fact they are living in fear. Many will have had a very destructive past, perhaps being emotionally abused, a victim of bullying or have mostly had loved ones leave their lives without explanation. There may also be past life issues calling things to a halt. These are all issues that will have to be worked through before union can happen.
So how will the Sleeper do this. if they do not accept the relationship?
That is where you come in as the leader, firstly the reasons why the sleeper has left you, will have to be discovered, you can do this by having a reading or a consultation with myself. I have many tools that will help you to work out the right way forward for you and this ultimate love. Of course every case is different so here are some tips that will help you deal with things.
Some of the crazy things that the sleeper will do!
So how do you keep your sanity while dealing with this?
I always advise that you work on yourself, find the time to write down your issues whether that is in the past or present. Knowledge is key, find out everything you can about what is going on. Knowledge is power.
Why you are being treated like this? The more information you have the better. Occupy your mind, take up a hobby, go dancing, watch good movies and go out and have fun with your friends. Do not sit at home waiting for him to come to you.
The sleeper twin is most likely to come back when you are busiest, happiest or you have found your soulmate. Yes Murphy’s law right!! Make no error your sleeper will turn your whole life upside down and throw up emotions you thought you had suppressed or did not know existed in your world. So work them out, resolve things so that there are less obstacles in your way.
No you are not losing it. What you feel is real. Also know that many will say that it is an obsession, that you are a stalker, none of this is true. What you are feeling is a soul connection, the divine and ultimate love.
This is for sure not a journey for the faint hearted.
As Twin Flames are most often in separation and we feel helpless to know what to do to reach union. Everything seems set against you, what could be better than knowing what makes your Twin Flame tick when it comes to love. What they prefer and how you can get your love across to them in a more confident manner. This love language was test developed with only Twin Flames in mind because as you know this relationship is like no other and has massive differences to the conditioned beliefs many are used to in life.This is a must have for a Twin Flame who wants to learn how to move on in the best way and with unconditional love in mind.
I also believe it will help with your growth as to strive to become the best version of yourself.
I have three different options available to you, prices include, the test and analysis of the results.
Book yours today. It really is a wonderful tool and as I said above, knowledge is power!
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