A New Way, Moon Musings & Twin Flame Sex Part 2
It has been a very interesting week, there was that very powerful energy of the Super Moon and the lull that followed. These energetic highs and lows can be so taxing on the mind and body that is for sure, what else is sure is that it can be frustrating. So how do you deal with this, is there a way you can change how you feel and embrace this?
What Else Is Happening?
Before we look at that let’s have a quick look at what is coming up this week, we have today the 9th of December, which is a great day to show yourself how far you have come on your journey, to be proud of the growth you have made in becoming the best version of yourself.
Then of course we have the 3rd quarter moon and the energy that that is going to bring us on the 10th.
The 11th as always promises to be special as it is going to bring with it rising energies so be prepared for that one.
Lastly we have 12/12 which begins the transition energies to the new year and a new you. It is going to help push forward those who are stuck, allowing you to leave some of those past hurts behind and to help you become a happier, peaceful and more grounded you.
Gratitude - A New Viewpoint
Let’s talk once more about being grateful for things in your day, your life and for the people around you. The first thing I suggest you do is try to release any of the negative you are feeling. Taking a look at things in a different light is very much so in keeping with being a twin flame, we are leaders to others and we should be grateful for that instead of all of the whining and complaining I am seeing and hearing. If you’re constantly living your life negatively, you’ll end up bringing more of that into your life. It’s a very delicate balance and it needs to be kept in check if you’re going to achieve your dream of uniting with your twin flame.
Gratitude is a FEELING it is an ENERGY and a VIBRATION and once you are in that mode that is when things albeit small at first do start to change when you focus and commit to doing it.
As with all work on changing yourself. It is not just an interest it requires commitment. To achieve your goal of union you must be focused and loyal to that path. I can not express this more seriously to you! Quit who you are today and choose to be more positive, a shining example to others no matter what you are facing.
I know at times it is not easy because you feel like a failure, but you should never allow that to take over and hold you back. You are better than this. Each day wake up and look for the things that add value to your life and be grateful for them.
Note also that it is not just about the destination, it can be even more so about the journey. Being positive and thankful for things will for sure help with this.
So here is how we’re going to do it differently. First this is something you shall do either upon waking or before bed.
Set aside 30 minutes to an hour each day if possible.
Think of a scenario that happened today that was positive or one that you would like to have happen and FEEL the FEELINGS, the joy, the happiness, the whatever it is, not only how you feel but if there are others involved, their feelings, emotions etc. FEEL it with your heart, sense it with your emotions and hear it, smell the smells, use your senses.
Now that you’ve got that going. Move it into your heart space and your mind and write it out with something like:I am so happy and thankful that: then describe the situation in detail. If it takes up a whole page so be it.
Once you have it written, read it out loud if possible, and otherwise read it over. Don’t scan it for mistakes. Read it as if you’re reading a story in a book and FEEL the emotions and so on as if it you’re watching it happen, use your IMAGINATION.
This is something that you can do everyday to lift your spirits.
Being in the heart space and head space of the energy and vibration of gratitude now you can write out the other things that day you are grateful for, therefore empowering and enhancing the energy so you can create an ongoing vibration.
Last quarter/third quarter phase is more about internal challenges - energy rather than physical challenges from 3D life like with the 1st quarter moon phase, this is about internal stuff, what’s going on in your mind, heart and psyche (spiritual energy) The energy of this moon is about not only figuring out where you are but what you can do to change it and be more efficient where possible but not to let yourself get frustrated with the process.
Don’t be too rigid with yourself or others right now. Logic is fine but use your emotions to guide your logic at this time. Have some quiet time, using your intuition combined with your intellect and have patience things will work out well for you.
You also have understanding, exploration involved, be loving to yourself about your health and maybe consider some changes to your eating and health habits at this time as well as other areas in your life too. Where can you commit to changing? Let me know in the comments.
December 12th ~ 12/12
As I mentioned above at the beginning of this blog, we have 12/12, which is going to bring with it transitional energies. Transition means change, this is a very great thing for us. Where will those changes, make a difference in your life.
This is going to help you to feel more hopeful as it is going to push forward those of you who have been feeling stuck, while you were feeling this way your twin flame was awakening further and beginning to make changes to his/her life, a lot of this is going to become more apparent to you.
You will also finally be able to forgive those hurts from perhaps the blame game or the searching phase.
That is the good news but for even better news these transitional energies are going to help us more when we are sleeping. Why and how I hear you ask? So when you sleep our subconscious can go to another lifetime that you lived and bring forward things to you that you need to deal with through your dreams, if this has been happening to you, sit up, take note you are being given messages on what you need to work on so that you can continue on your road to reunion. Those dreams make more sense now? Do not see this as a bad thing, and if all else fails contact me, I can help.
I asked my group 6 questions, these questions were about sex in the physical with their twin flame, how it made them feel and how much it has affected in their life. The answers were fantastic and for me they have confirmed much of what I have felt on my own journey.
Everyone unanimously felt that making love to their twin flame was so very different to anything they have ever experienced in their life. Comfortable, perfect, nothing better, home, incredible intensity, deep long climaxes and soul energy enhancing were used to describe this. This is such an intense connection of course you feel it with every fiber of your being on every level of you.
65% of you felt an outer body experience, typically feeling like they were floating outside of their body. So no you are not crazy this is perfectly possible when you are a very much so awakened twin flame.
It is like nothing you will have ever felt, when you are around your twin flame you can be aroused just by looking at them, is that possible when they are not with you, yes as I showed you in last weeks blog.
When I asked the question if some of you have a hard time looking in your twin flame’s eyes a whopping 87% of you said yes, why is this you may ask, well because the feelings can be so intense, you are looking into the mirror of your own soul, that alone is incredible. That is what ignites the greatest love of all inside of you. When you can’t look into your true love's eyes this can mean that there are issues in your way, things that need to be resolved so that you can be as one on every level.
Surprisingly many did not know what the question “Do you ever connect to each other forehead to forehead? meant. What I meant by that was do you touch foreheads a lot, like connect to one another in this way. I know that I do with my twin flame every day. Some say this is the connecting of the third eye which yes can be true but in my opinion it is deeper, your soul’s connecting as you soul is right behind that third eye.
My advice to you if you are nervous or scared in anyway of being with your twin flame in a sexual way, do not be, it is the greatest experience you will ever have in your life and that is exactly why so many can not be with anyone else in this way after they have been with their twin flame.
You asked ~ I along with the help of sleepers answered!
So two weeks ago I was asked if I would do a question and answer session from the sleepers point of view, of course this was a really great idea and I am happy to help. Here are all of the questions group members came up with! Many things the sleeper does are nonsensical, we struggle to understand why they do what they do, so I hope that this blog will help you to understand better what is going on.
Why won't he give me any signs here in the 3d other than screw you I would rather have her?
This is a very interesting question, I am feeling that he has not physically said that to you, however his actions are telling you that he is not ready for union, it may not be that he would rather be with her, but she is a lesson for him, preparing for union with you!
Why do they fall out of love?
Your sleeper (runner) twin flame does not ever fall out of love with you although it may seem as though they do because of their words and or actions. You must remember at all times that this is a learning process and while in separation we are always learning and growing to become the best version of ourselves so yes at times it may look as though they do not love you because of lack of communication or being in a relationship with another but that is never the case.
Why would he work to push me away?
Your twin flame is not working to push you away, he is in fact scared, scared of the intensity of the relationship. It can feel as though he is doing all he can to get away from you when in fact he is trying to work out exactly what your relationship to him is because a connection like this will fill the strongest person with fear nevermind a sleeper who has no clue why he feels what he does.
I spoke to a sleeper twin flame about this and they said “ When I first met lady a, she was the best thing that ever happened to me, I was so happy I felt like I could burst, then all of a sudden things started to get serious and the intensity was so extreme, I started to have feelings like I was not good enough for her, she deserved better than me so I left her and I did not come back until I realized that I would never experience love like this again and that she was the only woman for me! That realization took me 2 years”
Why does the runner hit and run text you, forget how to talk or make plans then never pull through?
The hit and run texts are simply because while they are a bundle of fear, full of self esteem issues and perhaps working on let’s just say trust, they have to know that you are ok, so they text, find out how you are doing, perhaps even go as far as making plans and then run. The most common thing is is checking in with you and making sure that you will still talk to them or met them, no matter what they have done.
Why does he keep contacting me even though he’s with someone?
When you think about the twin flame connection, you think of two souls joined as one, he is not with the right one so he will need to reach out to you more and more so that he can feel fulfilled in life, this is something that he only gets from you so he will continue to check in with you. Embrace it and show him the way!!
Why do they run judging you based on how much money you have, what others say, What their friends think???
Sleeper twin flames are not on the same level as us, they do not have unconditional love or the values that they need to possess to be in this type of relationship, that is why we/they have such harsh lessons to get them to where they will not judge you on anything and not care what others think of their relationship with you!
Why do we have the most amazing time and then nothing....doesn’t call or anything?
This is a tough one to answer because you would really have to be inside the head of your sleeper to get this answer, but it is a very great question, I posed this one to a sleeper that is now fully awakened and this is what they said:
“I have had the most amazing and magical times with my twin flame and then I would leave and go back to my normal life, I say normal because there was nothing normal about being with her, she would bring out feelings that were out of this world. The whole relationship I had with her felt way too good to be true, so in order to protect myself I would tell myself that it was not real, therefore when she left me and realized I was nothing special it would hurt me less, so I would keep my distance.”
I also feel that it can be a learning curve for them, come together, learn a lesson then pulled apart again once more to go about becoming the best version of oneself.
What is with the nonchalant attitude like they despise and hate you in 3D and you are a nuisance? This is simply to push you away. The sleeper has so many issues to work through they can get overwhelmed but instead of asking you for the help they need to deal they push you away, act like you do not exist or they can be very hurtful in their words or actions, it is a lesson for you in unconditional love. A harsh one I know but the universe is testing you!!
How you deal with that test is up to you, it can go one of two ways, you can forgive them for this behavior or you can allow it to continue and show unconditional love which I know goes against all beliefs. It is a hard road.
Is it possible my twin is not running, but simply just moved on with his life and it’s my ego that is bruised? I put this question to an awakened sleeper twin flame and this is what he had to say:
“Your ego is bruised but your twin flame is running as hard and as fast as he can go, all because he fell in love with you more than his mind could cope with it. They do somewhat move on with their life it is easier for them in the beginning as they are obvlious but soon enough, as they learn and grow they will see that they have made a huge mistake, I for sure know that I did.”
Why is my runner OK with never talking to me again? Although he wants to talk to me. The effort is non existent. And it makes little sense. Because I hold him to the standard to be as strong as I am. When talking could solve like years of bs and wasted like. Heck an hour convo would work! Instead of wasting more time.
Two things here, you have answered your first question within the question, and you have made a mistake holding your twin flame to be as strong as you are.
The answer was he is not ok with never talking to again as you figured out yourself when you said although he wants to talk to me.
Holding your sleeper to be as strong as you is not wise because you have to remember that on this journey they are more than a few miles behind you, they have to still learn to become as strong as you!!
Do the runners run even during a separation?
Yes, they run from their feelings and they run from the connection.
Why does the runner not seem to care at all about the pain they are causing, like they think it's okay to bounce in and out of your life whenever THEY want, knowing that you are always going to be available to them?
This is a very good question and I put it to my twin flame as he used to do this to me and this was how he answered:
“This was something that I did quite a lot, I did not ever want to hurt Carol Mary but I know I did cause her great pain, I did not do that knowingly, I was dealing with my own crap and while doing that I forgot about how much she helped me, I would go be by myself for days or weeks and all the while wonder how she was doing. When I realized what I was doing it was too late, she had left me and she did stay gone for 9 months, she said that it was for the best as she could not take anymore hurt from me, that was a huge wake up call because it was then I knew that she would not always be available to me and when I grew the most as a person and a twin flame.”
Where or when can we separate twin flame reactions with personality?
This question got me thinking because I was wondering why it was asked because it seems to me that we all have our own personalities then I realized that you were asking how can we separate their feelings that we feel from our own personality.
The answer to this is you will know when it is your own feelings because you can fully work out what is going on. When things seem a little hazy and you can not quite put your finger on it at first you will know that this is your twin flame. Take a moment concentrate on what you are feeling, see if you can figure out what the issue is, it will come to you if you sit in silence. Then you can send the energies needed and you should note the feelings dissipating.
Does runner have also those intense fears of losing you, that he has to face in certain situations?
Oh yes, the sleeper has serious fears about losing you that most often they protect their own heart by leaving first, again makes no sense, they do end up being put in certain situations so that they can learn and see that it is ok to give someone all of their heart.
How can the runner cope with the idea not to be with twin ?
It depends on what part of their journey they are on, if it is early days they cope and put it down to a very intense encounter. However when it is later on and the relationship has progressed they are just as hurt as you, they can just hide it better, so the answer really is that they do not cope with it.
Why do you wait last minute or have trouble communicating with us? It is not so much trouble communicating as if I text or call late it will not hurt me so much if they say no. All of this is a way of coping.
Why does it feel and look like we never will happen...that he is in ignoring.. silence.. that it looks he does not love and does not want me ever?
This can mean that he is in total denial about the relationship, it does not mean he does not love you, he does not care for you, it means that he has a block when it comes to being with you. That can be a lesson that he refuses to face or someone who stands in your way. Either way it will be resolved but I do understand it is very hard to keep the faith when it looks like it is never going to happen. That will teach you true strength and patience.
Do they get the signs like we do? The reminders of the connection?
Yes but they may not see as many as you do because they are not as aware and awakened as you. It can be in the form of music or seeing your name, I do know that many sleepers have told me the numbers, 8, 7 and 11 were commonplace.
Why does the runner start a fight or attacks when everything is going great in the relationship?
This is usually a reaction to a trigger that day that pushes them back to a time when they would run out of fear. Instead of talking to you about what is going on they will start an argument as a test of your love, if you stay you pass, if you leave well then they will think that you never truly loved them like you said you did. It is a form of self sabotage also.
Why does My TF go from hot to cold, and mostly distant?
This comes with all the ups and downs of what the universe is throwing at you, when things are hot, it means that they are comfortable in their skin around you, they are secure and know that everything will be ok. When cold and distant it means that there was something thrown in their path that has once again made them question everything about the connection. All you can do when this is going on is be as supportive as they can and in a way ignore some of their wishes not to talk to you.
What do you think happens to the runner that makes them realize that their twin is the one? Signs from the universe? A dream? Something in their Cracker Jacks? I believe I've been both the runner & chaser. Not sure what I am now?
You did answer the question within the question. Yes it can be signs from the universe, a dream that they have. The most common answer I get is that everything was leading me to this person so I knew there was just no way I could live my life without them, that was the realization that changed their life and for the better.
It is very possible to be both the sleeper and the leader. I know that many struggle with this as at times they just want to stop, stop feeling like they are in love with someone who does not show the same love back, so they try to distance themself from the relationship but what you must remember no matter what your twin flame is always with you, in your heart and soul, they never truly leave you!!
I do hope that this answers your questions if you have any further questions or would like to see more information like this please do not hesitate to contact me.
I have a double blog feature for you this week, of course I am covering the super moon that is heading our way, mercury retrograde and lastly from the sleepers perspective, the group I run that of course you should be joined have been asking many questions and I have been working on the answers for the past week with of course input from awakened sleepers. I hope that you will find them all interesting.
I am sure you have read the title and have seen that I am also going to talk about Twin Flame sex, I mean they say it is the best you will ever have and some have even gone so far as to say they have had an out of body experience but that is of course in 3d, now what about 5d, do you know if what your feeling is real or do you think that you are losing it? Let’s find out about that a little further down, I know you are excited but don’t scroll past the more important news of the day (chuckles)
It’s been a pretty odd week so far, with many of you reporting feeling tired, just so physically tired or your body is hurting, why is this? Is it the energies this super moon is going to bring with it or do you just need a good rest because many of us burn the candle at both ends as the holiday season is upon us.
I was driving home last night from food shopping and my son was sitting in the back of the car and he kept marveling over the moon, telling me how it was a full moon and how great and big it looked, I said to him wait until you see it on Sunday night, it is going to be a super moon. He asked me what that was so I explained to him that the moon was going to be closer to the earth so the energies are more strongly felt and of course he would see it more clearly. That it would look as though it was 14% larger and of course much brighter than normal, his response was “Wow I can not wait to see that”. It brought me back to when I was a child and I used to marvel at the night sky, trying to count the endless stars and just staring at the wonder of the moon. What are your first memories of a night sky??
Honesty and Happiness or Dishonesty and Sorrow.
As with all full moon phases, the spiritual energies are opposing. This one is no exception and these energies are already rising and affecting some of us very deeply. This phase brings to light both sides and allows you to clearly be aware of both that you need to work on. Increasing the good, releasing the negative. What is that.. ?
I have it on good authority that right now in all of your dealings but more so with your twin flame, that honesty is the best policy. I mean come on we all tell a fib from time to time but what if that fib was to come back and bite you on the ass, in the coming weeks beginning on December 3rd, you are being asked to be honest in everything that you do because those of you who are not will suffer the consequences. To sum this up, happy life comes from truth, being honest with yourself and those around you but there is a grave warning, karma is and will come back to those of you who lie.
Are you independent?
We will see energies bring about a shift in your independence and freedom and change your enthusiastic, exploring options, being charitable and helpful however the other energy this may bring a restless and rather erratic energy, combined with the energy of warm-hearted sympathy and that of progression and ingenious nature there is also possible cause for reserve and issues in domestic and personal life issues. So much being thrown at you, such opposing energies. Learning to cope with this is key, need help, hit me up.
Are you independant? That is a loaded question because the universe has called upon you, sent you tests and showed you lessons, can you get through all of this and carry out your daily tasks without asking the help of your twin flame, if yes then you are independent, if no they there is much work to do!
So relationships could be thrown for a bit of a curve if you don’t do your best to stay open and allow for healthy open communication and being willing to speak from your heart while watching you don’t step on anyone’s toes including your own (putting foot in mouth) - think before you speak is well heeded advice right now. Also now is a good time over the next couple of weeks to harness this energy and look at what you wish to accomplish in 2018. Improving your intellect, or fitness something mental and physical is well advised to plan for now to take into next year.
This being said. The energy of every full moon brings with it romance energy, energy to bring fulfillment of dreams, wishes, desires and also that of letting go of that which no longer serves you.
Here we go Mercury
Mercury is entering retrograde at this time, having been in a shadow period for two weeks which many always feel affects communication. They say that Mercury governs communication but not always as negatively as one is lead to believe. However I feel this one is going to be much softer and it can be used to your benefit. For every action there is an equal but opposite reaction. Think about that!!
How about you take a second look at decisions you have made. Sometimes we make choices that are not for our greater good. Have you made a bad choice?? How can you rectify this.
Now is an wonderful time to review the way you have communicated and the self-sabotage that didn't support your highest and best good. You may find a shake up in your relationship and a return to something from long ago. That will help you to move forward on your road to reunion.
It goes direct just before Christmas, on December 22nd so a shorter lived retrograde than the one over the summer in August.
Let’s talk about Twin Flame Sex
5D Twin Flame Sex
You’ve been waiting for this I know! Have you ever felt aroused and not sure why? Feel like someone has touched you and thought that you were losing it? Well let me tell you, you are not alone. Those of us who are in tune with our bodies and the energies of our twin flame will from time to time feel when they are thinking about us in a sexual way. Some mistake this with their twin flame being with another. Generally it is not and you will be able to tell the difference.
You hear other twin flames talk about it but they don’t really “talk” about it. They give you a brief overview of what you might expect or possibly hope to happen. So let me give you the lowdown on 5d today and we will look at 3d perhaps next week. I do not want to overload you with information.
In the case of twin flames we are more than a mere human connection. What you have with your twin began at the soul level because we aren’t just human. Our bodies merely carry our soul energy but we are soul beings not just flesh, blood, bone and intellect. We are spirit too. And that is where the two of you originated. Your energies resonated with each other and connected there long before you came here. Your atoms and their atoms were close together somewhere out there and agreed to come here to find each other.
Twin flame sex in 5D can happen any time, even while you are unaware it is happening and you can also dream it into happening. Twin flames sexual energy is beyond mere human connection, it isn’t body parts connecting in fact many times it may not even be felt by you as a sexual connection but an energy that floods your whole body and energy field and you’ve never felt closer to anyone in your life and they aren’t even in the room!!!! What is happening is your souls are connecting.
In 5D there are no body partsthough sometimes you may feel tingles in your nether regions but it is MORE than that. It’s like yourheart, mind, soul & EVERYTHING you are in your energy fields are wrapped up with them, as they are same with you and the love is so strong and everything is so warm and vibrating so strong. This means your chakras are connecting basically this is a merging of you two together to create a deeper soul bond than what you’ve had before. Accept it. Your body will tingle, you may lose your clarity and feel a bit foggy. You may sense or have sexual thoughts, do not be ashamed of that, it’s normal and it’s you and them working at bonding more. Which is what we want. In order to move into union in 3D you need to have this close bonding in 5D at a such a strong level. (By the way this DOES NOT mean they are actually having sex with someone in 3D it means they are thinking of you and being with you!!!!)
It isn’t just about sex for the sake of sex but what this is doing is allowing you to share an unconditional, unbreakable bond between you. It doesn’t matter at all if you or they are with someone in 3D because that doesn’t happen in 5D, meaning 3D human commitments do not exist on that 5D level, it is you and them and your love that is all.
Now I mentioned you can dream it into happening and you can. You can program your thoughts to be with them this way. It doesn’t have to be full on making love, it can be kissing, cuddling and talking, all you want to do is be able to meld your energies together. Use your heart chakra and your higher heart chakra (thymus chakra- unconditional love resides there) and move the energy through those chakras into your mind before you lay down to sleep at night. Picture being with them in your mind and how you wish to be with them. The more you do this the more you two will bond at this level making it easier to bond in 3D when it is time. It is ok to love them and for them to love you like this.
No one makes love like twin flames.
I remember the first time I felt my twin flame in 5d touching my face, I was frozen to the spot thinking do not ever leave me, I was laying on my couch crying because my grandmother had just passed away, he was right there beside me, helping me get through it, years later we talked about this and discovered that he was dreaming that he was holding me and touching my face. So when you feel things like that know your twin flame feels it too.
As I mentioned earlier about them having sex with someone else, you may feel this but you will feel very detached from it. Sadly some of us have experienced this, do not let this distract you from your dream of union however. If you have any questions on this please feel free to ask me, I love getting questions from readers.
So lots for you to think about, I for one am very excited about these energies, if you are serious about uniting with your twin flame, you will heed the warnings and know that you can always talk to Carol Mary!!!