To do or not to do!
Twin flames really do wrestle with their conscious when it comes to doing the right thing by their family, as I mentioned last week. It is not just to stay or to go that they wrestle with though, it can go far deeper and it often leaves you with a feeling of wanting out of your own body. Have you ever felt like that? I believe that is because your whole being knows that what is happening is not right, your soul is looking for your answers for you!!
Life as we know it
Meeting your twin flame in itself can be quite life changing, that moment when you first lay your eyes on them and you have that knowing, this person is going to be one of the most important people in my life. Then the drama starts, the push and pull, the what if, ands or buts. Your whole life turned upside down. How can one person do this to you? Do you know the answer to this?
In my opinion the answer is as simple as, your twin flame meeting is your catalyst, to kick start your life, all along it seems to me you were waiting, because of course you knew there was something greater out there for you, but you were never sure what that was, until you met. Now it is time to become the best version of yourself so that you can unite.
Easier said than done because as humans we are perfectly imperfect. Where do you start? How do you begin your journey? Do you take one day at a time? Do you do nothing and wait for divine timing? Or do you proactively seek union? The choice is yours, but my advice is to go for it, work, learn and grown but never lose sight of the fact that you are strong enough to do this and that you are the leader twin flame.
There are so many different teachings out there, about how you are a higher divine human, that you are vibrating at a much greater level than others. Seriously, remember that you live in the real world and there are not many people who will understand who you are, I mean come on, it is not logical right!! Is it for this reason alone that we do not tell our family and friends, who this person is to us, hell many do not even tell their twin flame that is who you are to them. To do or not to do! That is the big question and the answer lies in who you surround yourself with!
Knowledge is Power
By a show of hands, how many of you can say you have had someone say to you, I have no idea why you are pursuing this relationship, it is not healthy, he/she are not good for you, he/she does not treat you right, they are not interested, you are just making a fool of yourself. I am pretty sure too, you have had someone stand in your way, or you have been referred to as crazy, stalker, or obsessed.
A twin flame is none of these things, you do not pursue the relationship like some think you do! It just is not that way and you will have to be a twin flame to understand fully!
Twin Flames generally educate and lead, not follow or chase as the term might have one believe.
Educate yourself, not everything is life is so black and white and everything is always more than it seems.
Not to mention the fact that you and your twin flame are most likely married or in a relationship, I mean how could you be interested in someone else, would you seriously commit adultery? We live in a world were adultery is committed everyday. In fact, recent studies have shown that some 63 per cent of men and 45 per cent of women reported having been unfaithful at least once. It is no secret and it is accepted that people do cheat, yes it hurts, it tears families apart. Do I promote for my clients to cheat, no I do not, I in fact tell them that they need to be honest. Has someone cheated on me, sure, did it teach me something, yes, it taught me about what I did not ever want from a relationship and that I would never do this to another person!! Do I accept that it is a fact of life that people cheat, yes, because we are only human and perfectly imperfect.
Anyway now that, that is out there, let’s look at tonight's full moon and what it has in store for us!
The energies of the full moon tonight has an aire of will you work with the universe and help create your destiny or are you just gonna leave it up to the chance things will work out as you hope? Like that good old term divine timing!!
So the strengths and weaknesses of you and others are highlighted in the full light of the moon. Things you’ve been working on are highlighted now and you may receive more inspiration to move forward on things, be able to reap what you’ve sown or perhaps be redirected on a different path to achieving the same goal.
To do or not to do, is always the question, I know as a leader twin flame I will be doing!
There will be passion and intensity to this energy and along with perhaps a need to communicate that is strong, especially for you or even for your twin flame. Beware of conflicts of course, as the energy may skew your thinking in the wrong direction, and this is not the time to bring up anyone’s bad behaviour. Working on bringing you together not drive you further apart. Perhaps forgiveness is in order if you can not look past something your twin flame has done!
If you happen to be in contact with them, please be positive and talk about what you love, respect and appreciate in each other, don’t point out flaws, faults or play the blame game here.. (EGO) don’t let this energy send you into wonky negative thinking especially about yourself or your beloved now.
You may also feel the need for some alone time. A time to reflect on who you are, where you are going. It may also be used to discover new depths to yourself. I for one know that I have been leaning towards doing more creative things for the past few days and I do not feel it will change for the rest of this week, going into the weekend! This can help us clear up our pain and hurt, as well as lift us up to give us the insight and incentive to keep going.
The full moon is also definitely a high emotion time, so watch for peaks and valleys in those emotions, harness and learn to balance the yourself as much as possible. Now is the time to learn to put feeling and emotion into your goals.
This month we have the opportunity for huge growth on our journey, this energy starts on the 4th and does not end until the 30th. Some of you will be feeling this already. I am very excited for this opportunity and hope to work with many of you on this. This energy will be somewhat unique and it must not be wasted. Want to grow further, move further, get closer to union, this is not one to be missed!!
Wait there is more!
Did you ever hear that old saying “ A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush”? Well this week you are being asked to remember to be grateful for what you have. All too often people can fall into a keeping up with the Joneses lifestyle, this is not how to do things, you have your own life to lead and copying what others are doing will not make you become the unique and great person that you have the potential to be. There is a time when you will out grow these people and leave them behind anyway!
I often get heat for my blogs, how dare I say certain things, that is not of the light, well I keep it real, practical advice as most of us live in 3d not 5d. The world is a very diverse place where some will try to restrict your voice, never allow them to do this, you keep speaking your own truth. Those who follow the crowd will never get to where they need to be. Until next week when we will chat about lying and how it impacts your twin flame journey!
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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.
“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary
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Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary
Carol Mary xx
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