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Who or What is a Twin Flame ~ Revisited

1/30/2018

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When I first came across the term twin flame, my mind was filled with confusion, so much that I was reading made no real sense to me, words like ascension, divine masculine etc, blew my mind. I had no idea what anyone was talking about, that day I said I was never going to read another person’s explanation of it ever again. Plus I partly did not believe that the symptoms of a twin flame relationship were even true although some did fit for this person I met 6 months before.

Up to the point I met him my life was not great, my husband at the time was and still is an alcoholic, who when drinking was the nastiest person you could ever come across. I often fantasized about a man coming to save me. Take me away from this life of hurt that I lead but that was not going to happen really, I had to become strong and save myself, this was one of the first things I learnt as a twin flame.

Of course I was not confident in my gifts at that time so I shrugged most of what I was feeling off, I did however go to see a psychic, a man who lived about 25 miles away from my home, I did it for a laugh to be honest because I never really believed in things like that, oh boy how my mind has changed over the past 7 years. I was there with two of my friends and the first thing he said to me was “Your whole life is about to change, you are in for one heck of a ride and also you are not as innocent as you like people to believe you are. He then told me that I was going to met someone in the most unusual place, this person was going to be the next man I was going to marry, my one and only true love. He talked about some other things too that shocked me, like my fear I would not be able to have a baby after a miscarriage. He told me I would always suffer with back pain and to take care of my kidney area and lastly what stands out in my mind is that he said I would never be rich but I would be well known. I fobbed most of it off!

Then I look back to my childhood, I was never settled and was always searching for something new, someone I had not met yet. Always kicking myself for not saying something that I felt or saw to another. To be honest up until the 11th July 2010 there was always a missing piece. The 11th of July was the day we first spoke and I knew that he was going to be very important in my life, I felt like we had met before and I started to see my future spread out before me.

By this stage my gifts started to intensify, I was seeing more and more as I met people, all these words and things that would happen would start to jump out at me, I could see what I learnt later was their soul, I had dreams so clear I felt it was actually happening to me at the time, so in hindsight meeting my twin flame was a catalyst, so my journey of learning and discovery had begun.
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Now I am going to impart the information to you that I have not shared with others before….



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​What and Who is your Twin Flame.


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Truth Time

This has become a very hot topic, everyone wants a slice of the action so much so that there are people claiming they are twin flames when they are not, there is a very mixed perception of what a twin flame is and how you know you have found yours and there is a very common misconception that your twin flame will come into your life and everything will fall into place and be perfect. That is just not true on any level.

You will get to that level of perfection that I know as a united twin flame, but it is damn hard work getting to that position and anyone who tells you otherwise is either not a twin flame or has met their soul mate. There are huge differences.

In my opinion at the very beginning of your existence, the ones who guide us and our angels were there at our creation, we were made as one soul, this soul was then split in half and you were sent out into the world to make your soul one again and to fulfill a mission that was set forth. Sounds easy to do right?

It is important to remember that twin flames were a rarity before, as we did not have the technology back then that we do now. So therefore social media, better travel systems and a total different set of values have brought much more twin flames together!!

So they are not as rare as others try to make out they are.

The other half of your soul will mirror you, so they will bring every single flaw, emotion, wrongdoing and belief you have ever had to the surface and make you become the best version of yourself whether you like it or not. This person will come into your world and turn it upside down and you will become a person you did not know you could be. When you look into your twin flame's eyes, what do you see? Make a list, because that is what you have to work on. 

When we look at levels of relationships we will see that twin flames are on the highest level possible, so I often refer to it as the ultimate love. Then soul mates come behind them along with karmic relationships, we will look at all of these later on.

We all know that a twin flame can not be a sibling, parent or related to you in any way by blood for want of a better word! They are not always romantic relationships, it is ok to be just friends with your twin flame, carry out your mission and support one another. You will know which type of relationship that you are meant to him with them.

When you first meet your twin flame, you will have the feeling that this person is familiar to you, that is of course if this is not the first time you have incarnated together, if that is the case you will mostly just feel an unexplainable connection with them. Many say that they have dreamt about their twin flame, realizing it when they meet them for the first time.

The likelihood of it is you will come from different cultures, have totally different beliefs, age gaps are common, different backgrounds and can be the same or the opposite sex, you will however have had similar happenings in your life, like take for instance my twin flame and I, I am older by 3 years, but both of our grandfathers died at the same time, same day in fact, so as you get to know one another these things will become more apparent!

Numbers and signs will become very important to you, they will give you messages on how to move forward. Pay close attention to your dreams as you will also be shown the way as your dreams are accessed by you higher self.

More often than not you will meet your twin flame when one or both of you were in other relationships and not available. It’s likely that you met when you were not even looking to find someone. It hits you like a bolt out of the blue.

One of you will be more awakened than the other, what this means is that you will have a better understanding of who you are to each other. I have discovered that one of you is the leader and the other is the sleeper, the runner and chaser as it is more commonly known. 

Why I prefer Leader and Sleeper

Leader ~ Well it seems to me that when you think about the word chaser, it means to run after or some might even say stalk, that is not truly what we do, we lead, we show our twin flame the way. We do not run after him/her so I felt the word leader was more appropriate here.

Sleeper ~ This one is pretty simple, it just means that your twin flame is not awakened yet so he/she is sleeping!


This relationship or connection will wax and wane, push and pull and you will experience extreme highs and super lows. No one in your life be that family or friends will understand this and you will be told that you are crazy for pursuing this person, and almost always be told to move on to someone more suitable.

You will have an unconditional love for your partner that is unrivaled!! Your partner may also do things that would be a deal breaker with anyone else but somehow you find a way to forgive or understand the reasoning behind this behavior or bad habits.

These are all lessons you will learn, this can for sure be a harsh awakening process, with many twists and turns. Ultimately you will have a longing to be with this person no matter what! You will not feel complete without them in your life.

Then of course the universe asks you to be independent from them and show how you can live without them and do not need to rely on them, so you would almost need a degree in twin flames to figure out some of what is thrown at you!

It is my belief that there are not particular stages to this relationship, like bubble love, ascension, personally I think that is bullshit, that is for people who live in 5d not 3d. One of the main reasons why I want to help others navigate through this journey is because of the ridiculous things I see on the internet. What I do believe however is that there are phases, like when you meet, when you separate, when you search, when you want to give up and when you reunite. So much easier to understand this way.

Relationships like this are hard to understand so I hope that I can make is easier for you and of course help you get to union because that along with learning about who we are and who we need to be is the aim, but always remember that reuniting comes from within.




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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. 

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox.


Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary


©Carol Mary 2018. ©Reuniting comes from within  All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner

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Fanning The Flames 9.2

1/28/2018

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Powerful Moon Energy
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​(Super Moon with Eclipse/Blue Moon)

Hi All,

I hope this blog finds you all well, if not well let’s turn that around with these exciting energies that are incoming these week. We will be leaving that heavy accusatory energy behind and coming to a more peaceful time. This will give you the chance you need to make the changes to move forward on your journey.

Life is forever moving, there is no time to stand still and this week is no exception to this. Let’s see what is in store for you! I know that many of you have been waiting all month and it for sure is an energy not to be missed. Time for those clouds to begin clearing!

Moon Musings

January 31st brings an extremely amazing energy for it is the 2nd full moon of the month - known as a Blue moon but we also have it as a SUPERMOON! Plus there is also a lunar eclipse to boot.  MAJOR amplified energy right now and some of you may begin to feel it today and will most likely feel it a few days to a couple weeks after. We know the full moon enlightens and enhances all that you’ve been working on since the last full moon through to the past new moon on January 16th. A full cycle has come and is passing by and so where are you at? Are you forming new goals and plans or are you just doing same old stuff different day!?

This lunar cycle is going to highlight some pretty intense things for us all. First off the “blue” moon. Blue is the colour related to the throat chakra, this is the time to think about how you’re communicating with yourself, and with others right now. Authenticity is key and being honorable and truthful for sure. Also what is the reasoning behind how you say what you say, to yourself and others?  Think (from the heart) before you speak especially right now because the energies of this moon are also about trust and managing your responsibilities with respect and truth. This also includes communication in written form, so be sure to read emails and letters before sending them so they come across the right way and don’t set off the wrong situations, if you know what I mean?

This moon with it’s eclipse and it being a supermoon is the last of three in a recent triad portal which began with the one on December 3rd 2017, the next being on January 1st of 2018 and this one. It has caused an energy or vibrational shift in the spiritual energy of our planet and those who are most highly sensitive to it are probably feeling it most intensely now.  It has caused the vibratory field of our spiritual bodies to intensify, that which causes the ability for us to become like magnets to attract more of what we desire to increase.

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Strong Emotions and Other “symptoms”

The full moon with the  lunar eclipse and SUPERMOON and blue moon energy combined is going to intensify relationships also! Those of you on the twin flame journey or with a soulmate or a karmic partner are going to notice things will either get really REALLY good right now due to trust, truth and sincerity in your words or actions.

Also there is an energy simmering as well due to the case of lack of communication and especially with karmics it’s going to possibly go the complete opposite - fights, disagreements, misunderstandings etc.  This is because you aren’t being honest, authentic or truthful with them or with yourself about where the relationship is heading or not heading. The full moon brings to light what is hidden in the shadows so while you may wish to protect your heart, but your mind may jump ahead of you and you may very well speak before you’ve thought through what needs to be said.

This could possibly happen with your twin flame or soulmate so please please please I ask that you really watch your words to them and definitely watch your thoughts if you are not with them in 3D !  

You may also find that during this phase of intense energy that you may become more tired,  or even more forgetful, or the opposite, more energized, more organized and enthusiastic about life and what you’re doing.  

More sensitive to certain foods, artificial and natural daylight and also disrupted sleep patterns, and vivid dreams, wanting to be alone more,  feeling more gratitude and appreciation for life, and that’s just to name a few things you may or might not experience.

This portal is not the only one this year. We have 2 full moons in March and then one in April, while not supermoons, the energy is still going to be heightened with them due to no full moons in February.

Be sure to do your best to eat well- get your fruits and veggies in,  get plenty of rest and drink plenty of water and try not to have too much caffeine,  get away from your phone and computer for at least one day or a few hours in the week - no tv, no electronics and just enjoy the outdoors or sit in quiet. Many are scared to do that but it’s very calming, both the mind and body need it. When stressed or busy please take 1 to 3 minutes to just BREATHE - good for body mind and soul and YES YOU CAN do that trust me I have to remind myself to do it but I always feel better when I do.

Where my help comes in

It’s going to be an intense couple of weeks and I can help you through them. Not only your twin flame journey but your life personally. As it’s all about you and uniting from within yourself FIRST before union can even really begin to happen in 3D, then I can provide some guidance and services in 5D to help this along.  Send me a note via email with your current situation and let’s see what I can do for you. Now that you know what is to be expected, what are you going to do about it? I know I am looking forward to the calm after the moon!! 

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Contact me at: reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com
Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarolMary1111/
Twitter: www.twitter.com/CarolMary1111
Instagram: www.instagram.com/reunitingcomesfromwithintwinfl/
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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox.


Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary

©Carol Mary 2018. ©Reuniting comes from within  All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner

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Fanning The Flames Vol. 9.1

1/21/2018

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Another Twin Flame Power Day,

Moon Musings
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That Stubborn Ego!

Hi All,

Another week has passed and I am happy to say that many of you are doing great so far this year. So much positive work being done, how about you? Are you working towards your union?

When you pin your hopes solely on union, you put everything you have into it, do you then have the expectation that union will happen, I mean it is inevitable, right? Wrong, union is not inevitable, what is inevitable is that this journey will change your whole being, your whole outlook on life. Do you think that would be enough for you?

How will my union happen? When will it happen? How long do I have to wait? What do you think will change our outlook? So many questions but the answers are not out there for you to find, then you are told to follow your heart, it will not guide you far wrong, but what happens when that fails you? You have no idea where to go? You have no idea who to turn to?

I miss him/her so much! Why me? Why do I have to feel this way? It is hopeless, right? I am living in a dream world! I am losing it! I am crazy, I dreamt all of this up in my head? I think I am a stalker!

If I cut my twin flame off they will miss me and come back! If I sit and wait, they will come back! I do not need to do anything because you know it was predestined to happen!I could never leave my life now, it would cost me too much? How much is your happiness worth? Is there a price on that? I am in “surrender”! I give up. No wait I love my twin flame I can not give up!

It is a never ending cycle!!

Are you prepared to break that cycle? Are you ready, proactive and know how you will unite? If you answered yes and yes, contact me today because I will give you the answers, I will show you the way and I will not give you the bullshit others have. No I will not soften any blow, I will give it to you like it is! I will not fill your head with things that you do not understand! I will not talk about the divine masculine and divine feminine, there is no need to, you do not live in 5d you live in 3d and it is in 3d that the majority of us want to unite! Right? Yes damn straight, you want to unite here and in the nearest possible future!! Do you know how to bridge that gap?

Break that cycle!! Break it today! Change that negative into a positive!

Another Power Day for Twin Flames

January 22nd 2018  we have double master numbers to amplify the energy between you and also individually as well, it would be looked at from this perspective 1/22/11.

We know 11 is about the energy of spiritual messages - both to yourself (being receptive and understanding what they are for you) and what they mean for your twin flame and for others in your life and are you the messenger or is it someone else being the one to deliver as you have to be open to what you are being told.

This is a powerful energy of both working on becoming the best version of yourself because of the information you receive from the universe and take it seriously but it also one of potential self destruction. Meaning you are being asked to decide between the two spectrums. Use the info for your betterment or to your detriment by opting out and choosing to do nothing and think the world is against you including your own self by playing in the pity pool and beating yourself up.

The number 22 is about building and organizing your life based on those messages and being the LEADER twin flame but due to this energy also being VERY sensitive you need to practice balance between thought and action and also deciding to either say yes to things and no to others.
Self care and not being a people pleaser or trying to do too much thinking more is better. More is not better. It is a detriment to yourself and your twin flame as being the leader thinking you have to do it ALL to make your union happen.  

Moon Musings

The energies of this 1st quarter moon on January 24th are some of the best so far this year.  This is the perfect time to be trustworthy as well as warm and affectionate with your beloved. Building your intuitive heart and having empathy for yourself and them and non judgement is key. A very romantic feel to this moon because of the energies at this time. Also a great time to build new positive friendships and practical platonic connections with others - co-workers, or people you’re at school or class with at the gym or wherever. Like mindedness is a good thing at this time as a good quality to build these relationships now.

There is also possibility of stubborness and having a rather obstinate attitude as well, meaning to me you’ve closed yourself off to unconditional love for yourself and accepting it from others. This also could lead to judgement and rigidity in your beliefs about how things are to go with your twin flame.

Which is where I’m going to lead into our talk on that stubborn ego! Not a good time with this energy to force change or lay ultimatums (YOU NEVER DO THAT with your twin flame unless you want to push them away possibly forever) If however there are issues where this could be the case that it’s time to “force things” in some way we can find a gentler way to do it.. Not force a change or offer a this way or else but more create an understanding between you or however it is meant to play out.

Talk to me about it if you’re really struggling understanding why things are the way they are between you. It isn’t all you and it isn’t all them but we can look at the causes of any rift between you and why. Then work on making it better.

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That Stubborn Ego!

I’ve spoken about the ego briefly from time to time but I wanted to divulge more insight for you who may not understand how this gets in the way of your twin flame journey and your road to union. Many do not realize the damage this does and for some it’s hard to come back from deep dark depths when you realize what has gone on.

The ego is something that lives both in our conscious as well as our unconscious mind at the same time. While in some cases as it relates to being the thing that creates motivation and self esteem and helps with self worth and those are all positive things and we need those as well in terms of creating boundaries, what we do not need is when we allow for it to “make decisions for us” in relation to our twin flame and being on this journey with them.

It is the one dictating your judgement of them (and yourself - your worthiness or lack thereof) It is the one trying to dictate your control over what does or doesn’t happen - ultimatums, anger, worrying about timeframes and all the stuff going on or not going on in 3D between you. It is the one making you feel disappointed, overthinking and creating doubts and fear, plus worrying all the time about EVERYTHING on this journey with them. It is a controlling little annoyance for sure and it is creating all the “attachment to the outcome” of this journey as well.  It is the one trying to override your intuition and talk you out of believing it by throwing all kinds of negative at you and getting you to trust those who are not twin flames talking you out of this whole thing.  

So what are some things you can do? This will take some practice to learn to understand if it’s your ego but it’s pretty clear if it’s anything like the above I’ve mentioned and anything similar.

Firstly --  You tell your ego to shut up and let soul speak and you realize that you are always connected at the soul level.

Secondly -  You then get involved in your own life and find things to occupy yourself that are about you and creating the love, trust, faith and all of that good stuff within and that means unconditionally and total acceptance of the good and bad and the things you can and cannot change and you find what motivates you to become a better you and you let them do their thing their way and not think he has to do it your way.  It is ok to observe them at a distance, but hold no opinion on the right and wrong of it, for this is a judgement and that you are not to do with them or yourself.  They are their own person just as you are your own person put yourself in their shoes would you want him going through what you are even though they might very well be.  They are handling it differently from you and so must you handle it differently from them.

One thing that would be helpful in respect to working on your ego is having an accountability partner. Accountability means if you say you are going to do something then you have someone to be there to support you and check in with on your progress and provide guidance and/or support and you do it for them. I would love to be this for you,   

Further advice on dealing with the ego… from personal experience having gone through so much in my life forgiveness is key of yourself and of your twin flame. The ego has big issues with this and will fight you at every opportunity.

That’s all for this week!! Until next time!

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Contact me at: reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com
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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox.


Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary

©Carol Mary 2018. ©Reuniting comes from within  All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner

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