When I first came across the term twin flame, my mind was filled with confusion, so much that I was reading made no real sense to me, words like ascension, divine masculine etc, blew my mind. I had no idea what anyone was talking about, that day I said I was never going to read another person’s explanation of it ever again. Plus I partly did not believe that the symptoms of a twin flame relationship were even true although some did fit for this person I met 6 months before.
Up to the point I met him my life was not great, my husband at the time was and still is an alcoholic, who when drinking was the nastiest person you could ever come across. I often fantasized about a man coming to save me. Take me away from this life of hurt that I lead but that was not going to happen really, I had to become strong and save myself, this was one of the first things I learnt as a twin flame.
Of course I was not confident in my gifts at that time so I shrugged most of what I was feeling off, I did however go to see a psychic, a man who lived about 25 miles away from my home, I did it for a laugh to be honest because I never really believed in things like that, oh boy how my mind has changed over the past 7 years. I was there with two of my friends and the first thing he said to me was “Your whole life is about to change, you are in for one heck of a ride and also you are not as innocent as you like people to believe you are. He then told me that I was going to met someone in the most unusual place, this person was going to be the next man I was going to marry, my one and only true love. He talked about some other things too that shocked me, like my fear I would not be able to have a baby after a miscarriage. He told me I would always suffer with back pain and to take care of my kidney area and lastly what stands out in my mind is that he said I would never be rich but I would be well known. I fobbed most of it off!
Then I look back to my childhood, I was never settled and was always searching for something new, someone I had not met yet. Always kicking myself for not saying something that I felt or saw to another. To be honest up until the 11th July 2010 there was always a missing piece. The 11th of July was the day we first spoke and I knew that he was going to be very important in my life, I felt like we had met before and I started to see my future spread out before me.
By this stage my gifts started to intensify, I was seeing more and more as I met people, all these words and things that would happen would start to jump out at me, I could see what I learnt later was their soul, I had dreams so clear I felt it was actually happening to me at the time, so in hindsight meeting my twin flame was a catalyst, so my journey of learning and discovery had begun.
Now I am going to impart the information to you that I have not shared with others before….
What and Who is your Twin Flame.
This has become a very hot topic, everyone wants a slice of the action so much so that there are people claiming they are twin flames when they are not, there is a very mixed perception of what a twin flame is and how you know you have found yours and there is a very common misconception that your twin flame will come into your life and everything will fall into place and be perfect. That is just not true on any level.
You will get to that level of perfection that I know as a united twin flame, but it is damn hard work getting to that position and anyone who tells you otherwise is either not a twin flame or has met their soul mate. There are huge differences.
In my opinion at the very beginning of your existence, the ones who guide us and our angels were there at our creation, we were made as one soul, this soul was then split in half and you were sent out into the world to make your soul one again and to fulfill a mission that was set forth. Sounds easy to do right?
It is important to remember that twin flames were a rarity before, as we did not have the technology back then that we do now. So therefore social media, better travel systems and a total different set of values have brought much more twin flames together!!
So they are not as rare as others try to make out they are.
The other half of your soul will mirror you, so they will bring every single flaw, emotion, wrongdoing and belief you have ever had to the surface and make you become the best version of yourself whether you like it or not. This person will come into your world and turn it upside down and you will become a person you did not know you could be. When you look into your twin flame's eyes, what do you see? Make a list, because that is what you have to work on.
When we look at levels of relationships we will see that twin flames are on the highest level possible, so I often refer to it as the ultimate love. Then soul mates come behind them along with karmic relationships, we will look at all of these later on.
We all know that a twin flame can not be a sibling, parent or related to you in any way by blood for want of a better word! They are not always romantic relationships, it is ok to be just friends with your twin flame, carry out your mission and support one another. You will know which type of relationship that you are meant to him with them.
When you first meet your twin flame, you will have the feeling that this person is familiar to you, that is of course if this is not the first time you have incarnated together, if that is the case you will mostly just feel an unexplainable connection with them. Many say that they have dreamt about their twin flame, realizing it when they meet them for the first time.
The likelihood of it is you will come from different cultures, have totally different beliefs, age gaps are common, different backgrounds and can be the same or the opposite sex, you will however have had similar happenings in your life, like take for instance my twin flame and I, I am older by 3 years, but both of our grandfathers died at the same time, same day in fact, so as you get to know one another these things will become more apparent!
Numbers and signs will become very important to you, they will give you messages on how to move forward. Pay close attention to your dreams as you will also be shown the way as your dreams are accessed by you higher self.
More often than not you will meet your twin flame when one or both of you were in other relationships and not available. It’s likely that you met when you were not even looking to find someone. It hits you like a bolt out of the blue.
One of you will be more awakened than the other, what this means is that you will have a better understanding of who you are to each other. I have discovered that one of you is the leader and the other is the sleeper, the runner and chaser as it is more commonly known.
Why I prefer Leader and Sleeper
Leader ~ Well it seems to me that when you think about the word chaser, it means to run after or some might even say stalk, that is not truly what we do, we lead, we show our twin flame the way. We do not run after him/her so I felt the word leader was more appropriate here.
Sleeper ~ This one is pretty simple, it just means that your twin flame is not awakened yet so he/she is sleeping!
This relationship or connection will wax and wane, push and pull and you will experience extreme highs and super lows. No one in your life be that family or friends will understand this and you will be told that you are crazy for pursuing this person, and almost always be told to move on to someone more suitable.
You will have an unconditional love for your partner that is unrivaled!! Your partner may also do things that would be a deal breaker with anyone else but somehow you find a way to forgive or understand the reasoning behind this behavior or bad habits.
These are all lessons you will learn, this can for sure be a harsh awakening process, with many twists and turns. Ultimately you will have a longing to be with this person no matter what! You will not feel complete without them in your life.
Then of course the universe asks you to be independent from them and show how you can live without them and do not need to rely on them, so you would almost need a degree in twin flames to figure out some of what is thrown at you!
It is my belief that there are not particular stages to this relationship, like bubble love, ascension, personally I think that is bullshit, that is for people who live in 5d not 3d. One of the main reasons why I want to help others navigate through this journey is because of the ridiculous things I see on the internet. What I do believe however is that there are phases, like when you meet, when you separate, when you search, when you want to give up and when you reunite. So much easier to understand this way.
Relationships like this are hard to understand so I hope that I can make is easier for you and of course help you get to union because that along with learning about who we are and who we need to be is the aim, but always remember that reuniting comes from within.
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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.
“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary
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Fanning The Flames Vol. 9.1
Carol Mary's thoughts on love and this journey we call life!