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What would you do?Hi All, Are you married? Is your twin flame still sleeping? Are you scared to make that leap of faith to end your marriage so that you can move forward into union? Is your twin flame telling you that they will leave their marriage and have not as yet? Are they telling you they are trying again? Are you struggling to decide what to do because you are scared of losing everything? This was one of the hardest decisions I had to make, to walk away from everything I knew, leave my home, my car, my job, essentially the life I had built myself. My marriage was a no brainer because that clearly did not work, that was the easy part.. It was scary, it took a lot of believe in my twin flame, faith that I was doing the right thing, blindly going forward to what I hoped was going to be a new and better life for my children and I. In the end I took that leap of faith and it paid off but I battled for months back and forth on what to do. Did it work out yes, so there was a whole bunch of circumstances leading up to this decision and I do feel that I was guided pretty well in the right direction but what do those of you who do not trust in your gut instinct. So much hangs in the balance right? Stone Method How do you decide? Let’s try what I call the stone method! Items Needed
Firstly you will need to gather some stones, they can be all different shapes or sizes this does not matter. Then name the stones and know what each one represents and what this person, place or thing means to you. You can mark each stone with a number or letter of the alphabet if you wish and write down who and what it means. Over the coming weeks you pick out a stone, think about what it means to you, is it important enough to keep, if yes, move on to the next one. If you can live without this person, place or thing go outside and throw that stone away, let it go, then once again move forward to the next one. You have to be ruthless, there is no room for sentiment. Once you have this done you will have a clearer picture and perhaps even know what to do. Remember that the likelihood is you will be making the right decision and you are just letting your fears take over. There is no right or wrong way to do this, but the longer you feel trapped in a life you do not want to be in the harder it is going to be on you to continue on your journey without feeling down and wanting to give up and stay stuck where you are! In the end I did let it all go, my home, my car, my job but now I have the most important people in my life, a new home, another car, I have to admit this is not my favorite, I miss my other one lol, and I am working on a career as opposed to a job! Making the ultimate sacrifice now will give you rewards far greater than you know. Are you ready to take that leap, lead your twin flame to a new life?? “If there is no risk, there is no reward.” ~ Christy Raedeke Moon Talk We are in the waxing moon phase & September 27th 2017, it enters the 1st quarter phase. From an astrology standpoint this typically is a time when issues in your life need to be addressed in some form or another, to either be settled or to be made complete, or to improve them - as in swap bad habits for better ones. Also you can put forth ideas for long term goals & plans to get there. It is when the Sun squares the Moon (the quarter phases - 1st & 3rd, are this aspect) Typically you will be dealing with energy around personal boundaries. I feel that these boundaries will be related to security. protection of your emotions, personal space and time, it’s “battle” with your personal will - meaning what you do in your life and/or how you act & show yourself to the others you’re dealing with. External Challenges inflicting on your Inner You, is typical issues for the 1st quarter phase. There will be challenges with balance, harmony, justice and honour too. It is also about planning for your own success while not really showing the world what you’re working on. Keeping it under wraps so to speak until the full thing can be put into motion. . What this means for you is that you may want to try to keep the peace & balance in everything while emotionally wanting to follow your dreams because they differ from your life as you have it now. What I will say to you is this. We’re looking at long term goals here so figure out where you are, & how you’re going to get to where you desire to be. Search your heart & be truthful to yourself. Fact or Myth I often sit and contemplate this journey we are on, I think that there are many out there who have ideals about what being a twin flame is and how the sleeper twin flame should act. You know we are human, we make mistakes and there is no one of us perfect. That is why I say you can become the best version of yourself, be the best you can be. The sleeper twin flame will do unspeakable things, things that will shock you, shake you to your very core, confuse you to the point that you think you are crazy, all of your friends and family will tell you that he is no good for you but yet you can not let him go! Actually some have even been accused of stalking. That is not love, right? That is surely not what a twin flame should do!! There is a common misconception that your twin flame is your perfect other half, they will complete you, will never hurt you, will always be there for you, support you in all you do, the perfect fit!! Why is this belief there? In my experience this is not the case, that comes from people who are with their soul mate. You will of course get to a state where you will both be perfectly happy with each other and have all of those things I mentioned above and a strength that knows no bounds. It does take a lot of hard work, heartache and pain to get to that point because what many do not tell you is that even when you do get to union there will be trials as you both set out on your missions! Last but by no means least September 29th (which is an 11 day!) and my father's birthday, is the perfect day to set intentions for what you wish to change, create, or manifest in the short term. These short term goals can definitely be related to long term goals that you are aiming to achieve. It is also time to think about preparing for 2018 which is a Master Number 11 year, but also carries the energy of the 2! As we get closer to 2018, some of the energies of this forth coming year will start to infuse into the end of 2017. A two year is about relationships, diplomacy, togetherness, teamwork, duality and companionship. As an 11 year there are the elements of destiny, wisdom & intuition, as well as spiritual growth which can also be shared with others. As twin flames you can see how this might be related to your journey & all of us on this path. I’m excited for 2018! I hope you are too! Rules for Reunion! Have you taken the time to watch my you tube video on Rules for Reunion Useful Links:
Contact me at: reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarolMary1111/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/CarolMary1111 Instagram: www.instagram.com/reunitingcomesfromwithintwinfl/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ1xAgZKyLOJ1fNEUtW69bg Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/carolmary11/ Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reunitingcomesfromwithin/ This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. “Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox. Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary Much Love Carol Mary xx ©Carol Mary 2017. ©Reuniting comes from within All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner
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Why I Will Never SurrenderFirst of all, I would like to say a big thank you to Carol for allowing me to share this with you. I appreciate it very much. I have been on my twin flame journey about 4 years now.. Started year 5 at the beginning of September 2017. A little background for you, I met my twin flame through Twitter, though at the time not having a clue about twin flames whatsoever, I had no idea why he felt special or important to me when our paths crossed in May of 2013, when his account began to follow mine. I eventually got my insight through Carol after experiencing things I didn’t understand. Now of course we never did get to discuss any of this, what we are to each other. Our 3D never really got beyond “chit chat”, and it was unfortunately due to someone else, out of spite or jealousy or complete misunderstanding of this dynamic, they decided to butt their nose in and tell him things. Which caused him to do the typical sleeper twin thing and freak out and then block me on Twitter and “disappear” in 3D. I have learned a lot since then. Both about myself and this journey with him and thanks to Carol learned more about him from his higher self, through her. This being said our soul connection/5D is VERY strong and with Carol’s help I KNOW this is changing and we’ll be in contact and on our way to union. I trust in her and in the energy and in the other work I’m doing to help myself and our union. Ok so let’s get down to the real reason I’m here talking with you all, what I feel a leader twin flame is! What I Feel A Leader Twin Flame Is! Now after all I have told you, you’re sitting there thinking.. WHAT?! She’s not surrendered, not let go, not given up or walked away from this whole thing considering how difficult it has been? I say no way.. Why ? I was made for this! There are many twin flame “gurus”/teachers who aren’t in union that constantly speak of these are things you’ve got to do in order to get to union, meaning surrender, let go etc… Otherwise supposedly it is ego stuff.. I call B.S.! Here is what I’ve discovered.. Back in the day when I read blogs from those not in union it never once sat well with me to surrender, or let go, or do anything like that. By definition I have thought surrender as far as twin flames meant that you say ok this is entirely out of my hands, I can’t do anything, I’ve done all I can, come what may and so be it and I’ll deal with it then. That felt so wrong to me… I couldn’t resonate with it. So I talked to Carol and she told me that means you aren’t supposed to do it, you’re not supposed to let go or surrender or any of that. Then she said that I was a leader twin flame. That did feel right to me. I realized that I am not to give up, I am not to let go, surrender, or walk away or even follow the path of other twin flames. What I am here to do is blaze my/our own trail to twin flame union. How is that you may wonder?
If you do not do that you’ll remain on that hamster wheel for twin flames of doom and gloom. I have learned all too well we do this to our own selves regardless of what is going on in 3D. That is the other thing. I had to force myself to change my view of a few things, including how I walk this journey. PLUS! I had to change how I view my twin flame/sacred partner, for he is doing what he needs to do and this isn’t easy for him, regardless of what the 3D world might look like or that I perceive it to be.. It isn’t real! You as a conscious being and that includes me, we don’t truly have a clue as to what is going on in 3D with them until they are willing to tell you. So accept what you intuitively pick up as truth because their higher self is their truest self. As a leader twin flame it is our job to be the strong one, and to love our sleeper twin regardless of what our logical minds perceive or sees going on. Meaning no blame, no judgement, they are as we are, only humans evolving at the soul level for the sake of our union. This is what unconditional love is… You need to go beyond mere belief and mere trust to having an emotional knowing in your heart and your entire being that your union is manifesting.. I don’t mean some pie in the sky feeling with rose coloured glasses. I mean deep down honest unshakeable at the core belief. I have never been there until now.. It took some work but honestly now.. I know it like I know my own breath. Carol has helped me get this far to where I am and where I am in my connection with my twin flame. I still had to do the work and am still doing work in order to stay in the leader zone. She and I agree that what I’ve been doing working with her and another twin flame teacher/healer that Carol knows I’ve been working with and how this all has brought me and our connection very far indeed. So she said keep doing it! I appreciate your taking some time to read my story. How My Twin Flame Changed My LifeImagine, being little. Just knowing that you're different. I remember (and still do it) living inside of my own head, figuring out the meaning of things. When I was little, I used to dream of love being so beautiful and romantic. When I was 8, I lost my grandma suddenly. As much as I missed her, that's when my gifts started. I started seeing the people who would come into my life. I even saw how many children I would have. It was when I was about 10/11 that I started to feel the magnetic pull of someone who was out there for me. At that age,I couldn't describe it other than we were similar and had the same background. It always stayed with me. As a teen, I tried to get into spirituality, but really just couldn't. I had a lot of problems as a teen. Deep down I had this longing. Again, I had this feeling that my other half was out there. I just needed to be patient. During this time, I had met one of my soul mates and upon meeting him, saw our future together. Everything came to pass. At 18/19,I did a lot of inner reflection and that whole other half thing? Yeah, I met him, but didn't know it was him at the time. I was too shy and insecure to do anything. Which led me to another soulmate. Fast forward, I had had my oldest son and his dad and I split. One day, I happened to be on MySpace. I saw this guy and my first thought was "he's mine!!!" Funny thing is, I'm not that kind of person. We became friends. I got back with my son's dad and got pregnant. 7 months pregnant and we had to move. Ended up moving to the town where my twin lived. I comforted myself by thinking, well, I'll get to know twin. A few years later we became friends on Facebook. I was still caught up in fear. I didn't think I was pretty enough, etc. Our conversations always flowed. Then one day, I started working out. Building my confidence. Posting my pictures that he ended up liking. And then it happened. It was surreal, us finally being together. All of my self doubts and insecurities melted away when I was in his arms. Everything led me to that moment and for that I wouldn't change a thing. Even it taking as long as it did to find out about twin flames. Here is how my twin has changed me. Self doubts and insecurities are ok, but don't let it control you,or you'll find yourself missing out on a lot. I learned it's ok not to rush into anything, timing is key. I made my twin wait two months before getting together with him. Trust in the Universe and trust your gut. I've opened up to my twin and he's done the same. By following my instinct. He's definitely gotten me out of my comfort zone, which has helped me (and him) to grow into better people. His faith in me is unwavering. He's always been and continues to be supportive of me and what I do. My twin has taught me how to not take everything in life so seriously. And unconditional love. How to love him and to love myself as well. A World Of ChangeFeb 1, 2010. This is the day my life changed for the better, the day my twin and I literally ran into each other while passing through a doorway. I knew of him prior to that day, but never really gave him a second glance. He sang at one of our local bars, and was friends with mutual friends of mine. My daughter was in the final running for a singing contest he was judging. Fast forward… I went through many times of him saying that he couldn't do it anymore, him running, me always asking why, neither one ever really understanding why it was so difficult to turn and walk away. Not until he came to me after being with him for 4 years, telling me he had feelings for another woman did it finally hit home. All the insecurities, all the “ what's wrong with me?” But still even though he was trying to build something with her, he couldn't walk away from me. This is when I got into crystals again and actually studied different ones and how they heal. Reiki was introduced to me, I learned it and became a level 2 practitioner. I learned to heal my “ hurt” through the energy of the divine. I also got the chance to try it on my twin. This started my more expansive spiritual journey. I was raised a Lutheran, but the only thing that resonated and stuck with me was unconditional love and my want to perfect it. I also had a fascination with the yin yang and together they go hand in hand. Something radically clicked and I wanted to use this energy healing, and since I would rub his neck and back, massage school called to me. This is my mission found through him 7 years later.. But how has he changed me? From each falling out we had I learned how to look inside myself first, to see what happened in my life that may cause me to feel the way I did. Vary rarely did I “ blame” him, but sought out information to try to understand. Twin flame wasn't even a thing for me till he took off with her. We always felt a special connection, something spiritual. He has taught me and shown me beauty in everything. A man with a keen eye who can see beauty in a mud puddle… his pictures are amazing, not only of things around him, but of me too. He has accepted in me things that I had troubles accepting, and that gave me a stronger sense of self, a push to be better, do better. He has shown me the meaning of gratitude. Never have I ever had a man thank me after having relations, and like clockwork every time I was thanked. I used to wonder why would anyone thank someone for something that was considered yours… It took me a long time to realize that nothing is truly “ ours” and thanking your partner shows how much you appreciate that they took time for you, they chose you, it's not a right, but a privilege and can be taken away at a moment's notice. I am a better woman from his generosity, this journey has prompted me to seek and further my spirituality. Has prompted me to open up to my true authentic self through love. Not to mention all the many relationship gurus I spent money on to learn how to speak from the heart and not from fear. This continues to be a work in progress. LOA (law of attraction) has also been important in learning my vibration, and recognizing those around me with a lower vibration, continuous complaining and gloomy outlook on things. I know with continued practice I can do it. My latest endeavor is learning imago therapy and praying to be able to implement it in the near future. Acceptance = no judgment = unconditional love = freedom. No matter what stage I or my twin is in. A Few Words From Carol MaryHi All,
Thank you so much for taking the time to read these stories, they are all true to life and written by some of the members in our Facebook group, Reuniting Comes From Within. This group is like a family, we share our hurts and our triumphs, there is no judgement here and no ego squabbles, we all have one common goal and that is to get to union and to stay in union! www.facebook.com/groups/reunitingcomesfromwithin/ click here if you would like to join but please answer the questions as you can not be accepted if this is not done! Would you like to share your story with others? You can of course do this anonymously. Part of our twin flame journey is learning from others, how did they get to union, how is their journey progressing, what can you gain from reading about what they have done! One thing I have noticed is that the best people to learn from are united twin flames, they got to union because they went through everything they needed to do so to get to union, I took all my advice from a united twin flame, sadly this person has passed away now but he was my rock on my road to reunion. Align yourself with united twin flames, learn and grow, listen, watch and heed what is going on and you will soon figure out what you need to do! If you have any questions for Kimberley, Brandi or Tara please use the comment section and I am sure they will be very happy to answer!! Always remember that Reuniting Comes From Within!! Useful Links: Contact me at: reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarolMary1111/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/CarolMary1111 Instagram: www.instagram.com/reunitingcomesfromwithintwinfl/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ1xAgZKyLOJ1fNEUtW69bg Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/carolmary11/ Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reunitingcomesfromwithin/ This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. “Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox. Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary Much Love Carol Mary xx ©Carol Mary 2017. ©Reuniting comes from within All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner Conflicts, Challenges, Changes & Continue On!Hi All! How has your week been? It has been challenging here for sure. Dealing with sins of the ex sucks but we all have to go through it? Has this happened to you? As twin flames we have to go through many life challenges, one of them is dealing with the sins of your twin flames ex, this can be you treating your twin flame this way or vice versa. Such problems like trust, self confidence, self loathing, lying, laying blame, alcoholism, addiction and not feeling that they love you. This is you blaming your twin flame for something that they would not do just because your ex did it. Examples How about an example, you are conscious of your body, you perhaps have put on a pounds, your ex used to tell you that you were fat, so when your twin flame tells you he loves your curves you take offence to it and think that they are making fun of you or perhaps your ex cheated on you, so you think that your twin flame will do this to you also. How do you deal with it? Well there is no easy answer, this is your hang up, how you deal with it, depends on how strong of a person you are. The thing I feel that is best to do is to forgive, but how do you forgive someone who is not sorry for hurting you? Watch this video to find out how: Let me know if that helps you!! I have decided to change things up a bit this week, so that you all will not get bored! I do know for sure that I have a hard time reading some of the blogs out there, I find myself getting past the first two paragraphs and scanning over the rest as it is too long winded, that however is just my opinion, and of course not putting anyone down. Changes There is quite a flux in the celestial energies, I have compiled them all together so it’s easier to understand. You may or may not find this affecting you in any way whatsoever. The New Moon on September 20th will have the amplified, which is all about planning, practical duties, all work/no play and also the emotional connections to those that matter (including shyness around sexuality and having those feelings/urges) What we’re really talking about here is a blending of the conscious and subconscious and how your emotional strengths and weaknesses help you deal with challenges or changes. This may include how you deal with your relationships toward women, this could be about love but also any relationship involving how you are connected to the women in your life be it your mom, sister, aunt, coworkers. There is going to be some pretty major adjustments or diversions to be made or taken, or possible redirection in your life in some areas, in order to reach a certain set of goals you’ve recently or potentially have laid out for yourself this year. You may find things feel as if they have had a wrench thrown into the works and are at a standstill. Your goal is to find the ways around it, even if it is small steps that to you might look like an entirely different direction, it’s just a fork in the road leading to the same destination really. It may be a tense or anxious time for you but you’ll ride it out just fine if you keep your head. Conflicts & Challenges Whether you are a twin flame in union or not or not even it seems that either you or your partner if you’re in a relationship, one or both of you will see the rise of a karmic wound, not with a karmic partner but something of personal karma coming up to haunt you to stir the pot, possibly affecting your thoughts as to how you’re living right now within this relationship or how you and your partner are handling things together. Are you being supportive of each other, are you able to love them unconditionally even if you can’t help them with whatever seems to be the issue between you? Don’t fight or argue. Be gentle with your words and talk it out. There may be issues of depression, feeling unworthy, feeling like all one can do is fail, also feeling inferior and losing confidence. There may also be the idea that somehow you’re losing yourself or your independence in the relationship, or your partner may feel that way. This typically happens in conditional romantic relationships, what I mean by that is, conditions on your love, so if you do this or that I’ll love you or if you change for me to be how I wish you to be then I’ll love you, twin flames especially, need to learn how to be above that and I think I’ve given you some information here to show you how we are different. If you have any questions on this , how you both can be unconditional with your partner please ask me I can help you understand. This is one of your opportunities to prove the strength of your love for them & each other! CALLING ON THE LEADER TWIN FLAMES HERE!!! Be willing to # 1. Let them heal and go through this but give them support, no blame or berating them or such. # 2. Be gentle, and if they are truly a loving partner they may see this stuff in you if it isn’t happening to them and I hope they can (& should!) be this for you. I can help you if that isn’t the case by the way.. All you have to do is ask! There are also issues coming up about weakened immune issues and so I’m asking you to please again, as I’ve mentioned this in recent report. During the solar eclipse I believe, that take care of yourself, make healthy changes, take your vitamins and supplements, get plenty of rest, drink clean water and avoid the things you know make you feel unwell. You are worthy so do what’s good for you.. Besides it also keeps up your energetic vibration to do the right things for your health, mind and body. Continue On! The energies of the solar eclipse from August 21st which also was a new moon as well, is still here carrying you forward into continuing to do what you’ve been working on to make long term life changes. This particular new moon tonight September 20th 2017, is also a time for you to watch out for playing the victim/martyr & actually instead shed what is keeping you hooked into these negative behaviours and learn to thrive instead. Too many of you especially in the twin flame journey or on the spiritual growth journey, think you have to suffer so deeply to get what you want and desire. Thinking positively rather than always holding on to what is going wrong will definitely serve you best this week. We have 2 other special days this week.. September 21st is a good day to begin new projects or plan to as September 22nd is a twin flame master number day - which is about the master planner and builder of taking on new things or making new changes to existing situations. My advice to you is just to set yourself one challenge this month, the one I think is particularly right for September is, forgiving someone who has hurt you. Let what they did go and become a happier you! On beginning a new project, make that project a new and better you, because reuniting does truly come from within! On that note I will leave you for this week!! Thank you for reading and I hope I did not bore you too much lol…. Useful Links: Contact me at: reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarolMary1111/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/CarolMary1111 Instagram: www.instagram.com/reunitingcomesfromwithintwinfl/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ1xAgZKyLOJ1fNEUtW69bg Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/carolmary11/ Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reunitingcomesfromwithin/ This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. “Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox. Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary Much Love Carol Mary xx ©Carol Mary 2017. ©Reuniting comes from within All Rights Reserved. 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