Fanning The Flames Volume 7.4

Conflicts, Challenges, Changes & Continue On!

Hi All!  

How has your week been? It has been challenging here for sure. Dealing with sins of the ex sucks but we all have to go through it? Has this happened to you?

As twin flames we have to go through many life challenges, one of them is dealing with the sins of your twin flames ex, this can be you treating your twin flame this way or vice versa. Such problems like trust, self confidence, self loathing, lying, laying blame, alcoholism, addiction and not feeling that they love you. This is you blaming your twin flame for something that they would not do just because your ex did it.

Examples

How about an example, you are conscious of your body, you perhaps have put on a pounds, your ex used to tell you that you were fat, so when your twin flame tells you he loves your curves you take offence to it and think that they are making fun of you or perhaps your ex cheated on you, so you think that your twin flame will do this to you also.

How do you deal with it?

Well there is no easy answer, this is your hang up, how you deal with it, depends on how strong of a person you are. The thing I feel that is best to do is to forgive, but how do you forgive someone who is not sorry for hurting you?

Watch this video to find out how: ​

Let me know if that helps you!!

I have decided to change things up a bit this week, so that you all will not get bored! I do know for sure that I have a hard time reading some of the blogs out there, I find myself getting past the first two paragraphs and scanning over the rest as it is too long winded, that however is just my opinion, and of course not putting anyone down.


Changes

There is quite a flux in the celestial energies,  I have compiled them all together so it’s easier to understand.  You may or may not find this affecting you in any way whatsoever.

The New Moon on September 20th will  have the amplified, which is all about planning, practical duties, all work/no play and also the emotional connections to those that matter (including shyness around sexuality and having those feelings/urges) What we’re really talking about here is a blending of the conscious and subconscious and how your emotional strengths and weaknesses help you deal with challenges or changes. This may include how you deal with your relationships toward women, this could be about love but also any relationship involving how you are connected to the women in your life be it your mom, sister, aunt, coworkers.

There is going to be some pretty major adjustments or diversions to be made or taken, or possible redirection in your life in some areas, in order to reach a certain set of goals you’ve recently or potentially have laid out for yourself this year. You may find things feel as if they have had a wrench thrown into the works and are at a standstill. Your goal is to find the ways around it, even if it is small steps that to you might look like an entirely different direction, it’s just a fork in the road leading to the same destination really. It may be a tense or anxious time for you but you’ll ride it out just fine if you keep your head.

Conflicts & Challenges

Whether you are a twin flame in union or not or not even it seems that either you or your partner if you’re in a relationship, one or both of you will see the rise of a karmic wound, not with a karmic partner but something of personal karma coming up to haunt you to stir the pot,  possibly affecting your thoughts as to how you’re living right now within this relationship or how you and your partner are handling things together.  

Are you being supportive of each other,  are you able to love them unconditionally even if you can’t help them with whatever seems to be the issue between you?   Don’t fight or argue. Be gentle with your words and talk it out.  There may be issues of depression, feeling unworthy, feeling like all one can do is fail, also feeling inferior and losing confidence.

There may also be the idea that somehow you’re losing yourself or your independence in the relationship, or your partner may feel that way.  This typically happens in conditional romantic relationships, what I mean by that is, conditions on your love, so if you do this or that I’ll love you or if you change for me to be how I wish you to be then I’ll love you,  twin flames especially,  need to learn how to be above that and I think I’ve given you some information here to show you how we are different. If you have any questions on this , how you both can be unconditional with your partner please ask me I can help you understand.

This is one of your opportunities  to prove the strength of your love for them & each other!
 
CALLING ON THE LEADER TWIN FLAMES HERE!!!

Be willing to  # 1. Let them heal and go through this but give them support, no blame or berating them or such. # 2. Be gentle, and if they are truly a loving partner they may see this stuff in you if it isn’t happening to them and I hope they can (& should!) be this for you. I can help you if that isn’t the case by the way.. All you have to do is ask!

There are also issues coming up about weakened immune issues and so I’m asking you to please again, as I’ve mentioned this in recent report. During the solar eclipse I believe, that take care of yourself, make healthy changes, take your vitamins and supplements, get plenty of rest, drink clean water and avoid the things you know make you feel unwell.   You are worthy so do what’s good for you.. Besides it also keeps up your energetic vibration to do the right things for your health, mind and body.

Continue On!

The energies of the solar eclipse from August 21st which also was a new moon as well,  is still here carrying you forward into continuing to do what you’ve been working on to make long term life changes. This particular new moon tonight September 20th 2017, is also a time for you to watch out for playing the victim/martyr & actually instead shed what is keeping you hooked into these negative behaviours and  learn to thrive instead. Too many of you especially in the twin flame journey or on the spiritual growth journey, think you have to suffer so deeply to get what you want and desire.

Thinking positively rather than always holding on to what is going wrong will definitely serve you best this week.

We have 2 other special days this week..   

September 21st is a good day to begin new projects or plan to as September 22nd is a twin flame master number day - which is about the master planner and builder of taking on new things or making new changes to existing situations.

My advice to you is just to set yourself one challenge this month, the one I think is particularly right for September is, forgiving someone who has hurt you. Let what they did go and become a happier you!

On beginning a new project, make that project a new and better you, because reuniting does truly come from within!

On that note I will leave you for this week!! Thank you for reading and I hope I did not bore you too much lol….

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. 

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

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Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary


Much Love


​Carol Mary xx

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