Fanning The Flames Volume 7.4

Conflicts, Challenges, Changes & Continue On!

Hi All!  

How has your week been? It has been challenging here for sure. Dealing with sins of the ex sucks but we all have to go through it? Has this happened to you?

As twin flames we have to go through many life challenges, one of them is dealing with the sins of your twin flames ex, this can be you treating your twin flame this way or vice versa. Such problems like trust, self confidence, self loathing, lying, laying blame, alcoholism, addiction and not feeling that they love you. This is you blaming your twin flame for something that they would not do just because your ex did it.

Examples

How about an example, you are conscious of your body, you perhaps have put on a pounds, your ex used to tell you that you were fat, so when your twin flame tells you he loves your curves you take offence to it and think that they are making fun of you or perhaps your ex cheated on you, so you think that your twin flame will do this to you also.

How do you deal with it?

Well there is no easy answer, this is your hang up, how you deal with it, depends on how strong of a person you are. The thing I feel that is best to do is to forgive, but how do you forgive someone who is not sorry for hurting you?

Watch this video to find out how: ​

Let me know if that helps you!!

I have decided to change things up a bit this week, so that you all will not get bored! I do know for sure that I have a hard time reading some of the blogs out there, I find myself getting past the first two paragraphs and scanning over the rest as it is too long winded, that however is just my opinion, and of course not putting anyone down.

Conflicts & Challenges

Whether you are a twin flame in union or not or not even it seems that either you or your partner if you’re in a relationship, one or both of you will see the rise of a karmic wound, not with a karmic partner but something of personal karma coming up to haunt you to stir the pot,  possibly affecting your thoughts as to how you’re living right now within this relationship or how you and your partner are handling things together.  

Are you being supportive of each other,  are you able to love them unconditionally even if you can’t help them with whatever seems to be the issue between you?   Don’t fight or argue. Be gentle with your words and talk it out.  There may be issues of depression, feeling unworthy, feeling like all one can do is fail, also feeling inferior and losing confidence.

There may also be the idea that somehow you’re losing yourself or your independence in the relationship, or your partner may feel that way.  This typically happens in conditional romantic relationships, what I mean by that is, conditions on your love, so if you do this or that I’ll love you or if you change for me to be how I wish you to be then I’ll love you,  twin flames especially,  need to learn how to be above that and I think I’ve given you some information here to show you how we are different. If you have any questions on this , how you both can be unconditional with your partner please ask me I can help you understand.

This is one of your opportunities  to prove the strength of your love for them & each other!
 
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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. 

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

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Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary


Much Love


​Carol Mary xx

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