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Soul Guidance with Carol Mary

Here you will find all the information you need on love, twin flame love and life

Fanning the Flames Volume 8.7

12/26/2017

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An Engagement Plus A Fun New Year’s Craft!

Hi All,

I hope you all had a good Christmas and that is was a happy and peaceful one. As always us Twin Flames are busy bees preparing for union yes?? I am so very happy to announce a Twin Flame engagement. Read all the way to the end to find out about that one!! 

Proud Twin Flame

Do you know why there are so little people out there that do not understand the true dynamic of a twin flame relationship, I am not just talking about the 5d aspect, your souls, I am talking about in the here and now?  Is this something that you are proud of, being a twin flame? Do you hide who you truly feel you are from others?

When I asked that question to a group of Twin Flames, many felt that they were embarrassed to tell people that they were a Twin Flame as they felt that people just would not understand and some said that when they try to describe their feeling towards their beloved, they were told to let that person go because it was unhealthy. Very few said that they would talk to others about it but the ones that did only some said that there was little support for them. However, how do you explain something to others that you do not even fully understand yourself. The first step is of course to accept who you are and know that not everyone believes in a love like this, so pick your battles wisely.

I do know that one day Twin Flames will become more mainstream but for now I saw that many of you valued the privacy and hoped that it would not be in the media ever, I do agree with that somewhat but the world is more accepting than we give it credit for. Try to fully understand who you are, accept yourself and choose your happiness, the rest will fall into place for you. Hopefully one day people will be less quick to judge and become more understanding and that will only come with education. Having said that be wary of some of the information you are seeing not always what it seems.

First Mention

I remember back to when I first mention Twin Flames to mine, he said what are you talking about, so I explained to him how I felt that we were connected at a soul level as I felt some of what he was feeling etc, he laughed and said “I do not believe in that”. Well he does now (laughs). He eventually admitted that he felt the same way I did, saw many signs and knew there was no possible way there was not a higher reason we met and are now in union. Be very careful on the time to choose to tell your Twin Flame who he or she are to you. I have known some to head for the hills, thinking you have lost it.


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Insecure or No?

Insecure people have no place in your life right now.  Whether that is your friends, co-workers or even your spouse. If you have feelings of insecurity and lacking confidence in building trusting relationships I can help with that.  This is a good thing because even with insecurities either from others or from within you,  the moon’s energy carries in it that of deal with issues and move forward.  You may even have an ability to be somewhat persuasive too, getting others to doing things for you (without asking or telling them, though you might like to but please please do not be bossy!)  If this insecurity relates to your twin flame, then it is time to get to work on this, as the work you do will affect your Twin Flame and help them to grow also.

You need to be courageous and self confident, daring and independent but also patient and willing now and you’ll win people over with that, not in an egotistical way but showing them you just have a knack for being good with people.  If you’re uncomfortable in your career or with your current job position, this moon energy bodes well for considering change. Don’t leap with spontaneity but plan accordingly and it can work out very well for you.  

Craft time -  A wish/dream box for 2018

Rather than New Year's’ resolutions which we all tend to break or not even bother with why not create a beautiful and motivational tool that can remind you of what you wish to create for yourself and your life next year. Get yourself something like a sturdy cardboard box (like a photo or memory box) and your craft tools (paints, glitter glue, glitter, ribbon, foam stickers etc) make something that you can use over and over again every year.

Decorate the box with positive words about your goals and dreams. Gather items/tokens that relate to the goals you wish to create and have come true. Example - a fork if you want to cook more or eat better, a bookmark if you want to read more, things meaningful to you about your twin flame and what union means for you and so on. Fill the box up with that and also use a small jar with small pieces of paper that have specific wishes and dreams related to that goal or goals if you have multiple dreams you’re looking to create for 2019.  Now make sure you can open the box as you may wish to add things for the first couple of months when they come to you.

Then set it somewhere you’ll see it to remind you of those things,  At the end of 2018 you can go through the jar over the Christmas to New Year break and see what did come true - that you can set aside and maybe make a memory book (using a photo album) to help you relive the events and feel joy and happiness.  The things that didn’t happen, put back in the jar and come up with strategies to approach making them happen in 2019 that were and are different than you chose to do in 2018.  

 ****Also I would like for you to keep a list of the wishes and dreams you put in the jar and read them to yourself in the morning and at night in the way I mentioned in the blog where we discussed doing gratitude in a new way: 

Take 1 of those desires on your list and use it as a gratitude journal entry as described in the blog link and do it for 30 days until it becomes such a part of your mindset that it already feels real. By the way your mind doesn’t know the difference between the real and imagined so basically this is a matter of thinking called BELIEVE IT SO NOW I CAN SEE IT!   Essentially you’re creating the mindset that you already living it so the universe has no choice but to bring it to you.  This is the law of attraction in action because as you practice this you’ll raise your vibration and begin to attract the things/people etc you need to make that happen.  Learn to trust the process and have ultimate faith the universe.   Trust begins within you. Faith in knowing that what you’re asking for will happen come from repetition because that changes how your brain thinks, which changes how your emotions work as well.

Remember having negative things come up doesn’t make you a bad person nor does it make your life bad, it simply means you’re being shown it’s time to change how you think and how you do things. Knowing there are steps to take to make things happen is also good. If you can’t figure out those things, confide in a friend who supports you in the changes you wish to make and the new world you desire to create for yourself. Be sure they are a trustworthy friend.

The Kind Of News I Love Hearing!!

Some good news for you all and some that should uplift those of you who are in separation, you can get to union, you can do this, today I learnt that one of my very first clients is now engaged. Loretta began working with me about 3 years ago now,  we have since become great friends and I guide her through her hard times, as she does for me. It was so exciting for me to hear that they were finally engaged and ready to take that next step towards a happier life together. When I think back at where they both were when we first began work, there was a mountain but within a year they were living together. Hard work on the right things does pay off. Neither of them have had an easy road of it but at long last happy times for this wonderful couple, congratulations to Loretta and Shawn.

You can read their story here!


You too can get to this point, contact me today to find out how and what you need to do!!

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox.


Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary


Much Love


​Carol Mary xx

©Carol Mary 2017. ©Reuniting comes from within  All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner



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Fanning the Flames ~ Volume 8.6

12/16/2017

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The Dead-Air Between You
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Hi All,

A week away until Christmas, this can be a magical time or a hard time for twin flames depending on the situation. I know that if you are in separation that you will be missing your twin flame but this is not want the universe wants you to do, you are being told to pick yourself, dust yourself off, show that you are independant and that you have got this. Sitting and wallowing does not a union make.

While I get that is hard, I have been there for 4 Christmases to be exact, none of them were easy, but did I learn something, yes, I learnt the true value of our love and how hard I needed to work and grow in order to get to union, each one brought a different lesson with it.  

Our first year we were in union was great but it gets better and better each year and you can have that too. I am always asked how long did it take?, what did I do?, When my book comes out next year you will all be able to read the nitty gritty details, but for now I will advise on different topics, if you have a question you would like to see featured in the weekly blog, feel free to email me at [email protected].

How To Cope With The Christmas Blues!

  • Stop saying no, if you are invited to a party, a meal out or just to go shopping or see a movie, say yes go out, have some fun.

  • How about volunteering, that will allow you to feel good and it will bring you good karma.

  • Gratitude, Christmas is the perfect day to take the time to appreciate what you have in life, be it good health, a place to live, or food on the table.

  • Mind over matter, allow yourself to know that you can cope, that you have got this and that will in turn help your twin flame who most likely will be feeling this way too.

  • Invite people in your life over, hang out and have some fun, board games are always great fun.

  • Lastly, at times we need a rest from society so perhaps use this time to find your inner peace or forward plan.

Please also remember, that if things get too much for you reach out, email me, I promise to answer as soon as I can and help you! Know that your life is more important than the temporary pain that you are in on this journey!!
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Radio Silence

A period during which one hears nothing from a normally communicative person or group!

So things have been getting better with your Twin Flame, you are hearing from them more frequently, you have even met up one or two times and you feel like finally you are both going to get it together. Then boom, nothing, total silence, in 3d and in 5d. I like to call this radio silence.

What has caused this?

Things they’ve experienced in dreams and soul work, they’re starting to experience things in 3D and need time to accept it and learn from it, in order to move forward and yes into communication with you and eventually into union.

They are experiencing shifts in their lives but it’s knocked them for a loop and they need some time to realize it’s related to you and them being together.  

They are in fact going through a healing phase and it’s affected them at the higher self level as well as in their physical and mental bodies.

They have in fact taken a step back from soul contact to allow you to do what you need to do for yourself and your life so that you can become who you need to be in order to be with them. So do it!

What Now!

If you only get an “I love you” or a touch or kiss you feel energywise, please just understand it’s not that they’re avoiding you, you are as much on their mind and their heart as they are in yours. They just need space. Let them breathe and go through itt, they need this time to become more who they are meant to be for when they can be with you. Please don’t panic and think it’s over or something far from it and continue to do your work!!!

This means your twin flame dynamic is shifting! Remain calm. Just relax and allow. Don’t get overly concerned if you stop dreaming about them or getting messages from them in your dreams or your sleep. They have not been cut off from you.

Do you get to decide?

Yes and no, yes as if you have been putting in the work, there will be no blame game to play (Read about that here). Simply put.

No,  if you have been sitting on your laurels thinking, I am perfect, there is nothing I need to do, of course my Twin Flame is just going to come to me and unite because well, I am full of ego, I know better than everyone else, sure haven’t I worked so hard, sitting here looking pretty!!

Or you could go ahead and do the following!

Realizing that although winter approaches it is time to nurture yourself and work on creating a new version of yourself. Plant seeds of good action and good thoughts and ways to develop good energy and positive habits.

Nurture them over the winter season for them to truly begin to blossom in spring. Like spring bulbs you plant in winter so they bloom in the spring, think of yourself in the physical and mental sense as a garden. What do you wish to grow in your life.

Prepare the soil - (your mind and spirit) tend to it - (practice self - care, and nurturing your soul, developing your goals) and in the spring you shall see a transformation. Think of yourself like the animals that hibernate in the winter to rest and regain their energy. This is the time now to turn within and work on you and what you wish to change and create for the new year in 2018.

We are always a work in progress of course so what you’ve already started, or have done, find ways to continue with it.

Your Questions Answered

In case you missed last week’s 2nd blog, here it is for you again in a video!! Enjoy!! If you would like to see more practical advice videos like this please be sure to let me know!!

Until Next Week


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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox.


Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary


Much Love


​Carol Mary xx

©Carol Mary 2017. ©Reuniting comes from within  All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner

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Fanning The Flames ~ Volume 8.5

12/9/2017

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A New Way, Moon Musings
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& Twin Flame Sex Part 2

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Hi All,

These energetic highs and lows that we have to deal with in life can be so taxing on the mind and body that is for sure, what else is sure is that it can be frustrating. So how do you deal with this, is there a way you can change how you feel and embrace this?

Gratitude - A New Viewpoint

Let’s talk once more about being grateful for things in your day, your life and for the people around you.  The first thing I suggest you do is try to release any of the negative you are feeling. Taking a look at things in a different light is very much so in keeping with being a twin flame, we are leaders to others and we should be grateful for that instead of all of the whining and complaining I am seeing and hearing. If you’re constantly living your life negatively, you’ll end up bringing more of that into your life. It’s a very delicate balance and it needs to be kept in check if you’re going to achieve your dream of uniting with your twin flame.

Gratitude is a FEELING it is an ENERGY and a VIBRATION and once you are in that mode that is when things albeit small at first do start to change when you focus and commit to doing it.  

As with all work on changing yourself. It is not just an interest it requires commitment. To achieve your goal of union you must be focused and loyal to that path. I can not express this more seriously to you! Quit who you are today and choose to be more positive, a shining example to others no matter what you are facing.

I know at times it is not easy because you feel like a failure, but you should never allow that to take over and hold you back. You are better than this. Each day wake up and look for the things that add value to your life and be grateful for them.

Note also that it is not just about the destination, it can be even more so about the journey. Being positive and thankful for things will for sure help with this.

So here is how we’re going to do it differently. First this is something you shall do either upon waking or before bed.

  • Set aside 30 minutes to an hour each day if possible.  
  • Put on some nice music that makes you feel happy, Click here for some music that might help you out!
  • Think of a scenario that happened today that was positive or one that you would like to have happen and FEEL the FEELINGS, the joy, the happiness, the whatever it is, not only how you feel but if there are others involved, their feelings, emotions etc.  FEEL it with your heart, sense it with your emotions and hear it, smell the smells, use your senses.
  • Now that you’ve got that going.  Move it into your heart space and your mind and write it out with something like: I am so happy and thankful that:  then describe the situation in detail. If it takes up a whole page so be it.
  • Once you have it written, read it out loud if possible, and otherwise read it over. Don’t scan it for mistakes. Read it as if you’re reading a story in a book  and FEEL the emotions and so on as if it you’re watching it happen, use your IMAGINATION.  
  • This is something that you can do everyday to lift your spirits.  
  • Being in the heart space and head space of the energy and vibration of gratitude now you can write out the other things that day you are grateful for, therefore empowering and enhancing the energy so you can create an ongoing vibration.  

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Sex

I asked my group 6 questions, these questions were about sex in the physical with their twin flame, how it made them feel and how much it has affected in their life. The answers were fantastic and for me they have confirmed much of what I have felt on my own journey.

Everyone unanimously felt that making love to their twin flame was so very different to anything they have ever experienced in their life. Comfortable, perfect, nothing better, home, incredible intensity, deep long climaxes and soul energy enhancing were used to describe this. This is such an intense connection of course you feel it with every fiber of your being on every level of you.

65% of you felt an outer body experience, typically feeling like they were floating outside of their body. So no you are not crazy this is perfectly possible when you are a very much so awakened twin flame.

It is like nothing you will have ever felt, when you are around your twin flame you can be aroused just by looking at them, is that possible when they are not with you, yes as I showed you in last weeks blog.

When I asked the question if some of you have a hard time looking in your twin flame’s eyes a whopping 87% of you said yes, why is this you may ask, well because the feelings can be so intense, you are looking into the mirror of your own soul, that alone is incredible. That is what ignites the greatest love of all inside of you. When you can’t look into your true love's eyes this can mean that there are issues in your way, things that need to be resolved so that you can be as one on every level.

Surprisingly many did not know what the question “Do you ever connect to each other forehead to forehead? meant. What I meant by that was do you touch foreheads a lot, like connect to one another in this way. I know that I do with my twin flame every day. Some say this is the connecting of the third eye which yes can be true but in my opinion it is deeper,  your soul’s connecting as you soul is right behind that third eye.

My advice to you if you are nervous or scared in anyway of being with your twin flame in a sexual way, do not be, it is the greatest experience you will ever have in your life and that is exactly why so many can not be with anyone else in this way after they have been with their twin flame.

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Contact me at: [email protected]
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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox.


Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary


Much Love


​Carol Mary xx

©Carol Mary 2017. ©Reuniting comes from within  All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner




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Why Your Sleeper Does What They Do!

12/3/2017

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You asked ~ I along with the help of sleepers answered!

Hi All,

So two weeks ago I was asked if I would do a question and answer session from the sleepers point of view, of course this was a really great idea and I am happy to help. Here are all of the questions group members came up with! Many things the sleeper does are nonsensical, we struggle to understand why they do what they do, so I hope that this blog will help you to understand better what is going on.


Why won't he give me any signs here in the 3d other than screw you I would rather have her?

This is a very interesting question, I am feeling that he has not physically said that to you, however his actions are telling you that he is not ready for union, it may not be that he would rather be with her, but she is a lesson for him, preparing for union with you!

Why do they fall out of love?

Your sleeper (runner) twin flame does not ever fall out of love with you although it may seem as though they do because of their words and or actions. You must remember at all times that this is a learning process and while in separation we are always learning and growing to become the best version of ourselves so yes at times it may look as though they do not love you because of lack of communication or being in a relationship with another but that is never the case.

Why would he work to push me away?

Your twin flame is not working to push you away, he is in fact scared, scared of the intensity of the relationship. It can feel as though he is doing all he can to get away from you when in fact he is trying to work out exactly what your relationship to him is because a connection like this will fill the strongest person with fear nevermind a sleeper who has no clue why he feels what he does.

I spoke to a sleeper twin flame about this and they said “ When I first met lady a, she was the best thing that ever happened to me, I was so happy I felt like I could burst, then all of a sudden things started to get serious and the intensity was so extreme, I started to have feelings like I was not good enough for her, she deserved better than me so I left her and I did not come back until I realized that I would never experience love like this again and that she was the only woman for me! That realization took me 2 years”

Why does the runner hit and run text you, forget how to talk or make plans then never pull through?

The hit and run texts are simply because while they are a bundle of fear, full of self esteem issues and perhaps working on let’s just say trust, they have to know that you are ok, so they text, find out how you are doing, perhaps even go as far as making plans and then run. The most common thing is is checking in with you and making sure that you will still talk to them or met them, no matter what they have done.

Why does he keep contacting me even though he’s with someone?

When you think about the twin flame connection, you think of two souls joined as one, he is not with the right one so he will need to reach out to you more and more so that he can feel fulfilled in life, this is something that he only gets from you so he will continue to check in with you. Embrace it and show him the way!!

Why do they run judging you based on how much money you have, what others say, What their friends think???

Sleeper twin flames are not on the same level as us, they do not have unconditional love or the values that they need to possess to be in this type of relationship, that is why we/they have such harsh lessons to get them to where they will not judge you on anything and not care what others think of their relationship with you!

Why do we have the most amazing time and then nothing....doesn’t call or anything?

This is a tough one to answer because you would really have to be inside the head of your sleeper to get this answer, but it is a very great question, I posed this one to a sleeper that is now fully awakened and this is what they said:

“I have had the most amazing and magical times with my twin flame and then I would leave and go back to my normal life, I say normal because there was nothing normal about being with her, she would bring out feelings that were out of this world. The whole relationship I had with her felt way too good to be true, so in order to protect myself I would tell myself that it was not real, therefore when she left me and realized I was nothing special it would hurt me less, so I would keep my distance.”

I also feel that it can be a learning curve for them, come together, learn a lesson then pulled apart again once more to go about becoming the best version of oneself.

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What is with the nonchalant attitude like they despise and hate you in 3D and you are a nuisance?

This is simply to push you away. The sleeper has so many issues to work through they can get overwhelmed but instead of asking you for the help they need to deal they push you away, act like you do not exist or they can be very hurtful in their words or actions, it is a lesson for you in unconditional love. A harsh one I know but the universe is testing you!!

How you deal with that test is up to you, it can go one of two ways, you can forgive them for this behavior or you can allow it to continue and show unconditional love which I know goes against all beliefs. It is a hard road.

Is it possible my twin is not running, but simply just moved on with his life and it’s my ego that is bruised?
I put this question to an awakened sleeper twin flame and this is what he had to say:

“Your ego is bruised but your twin flame is running as hard and as fast as he can go, all because he fell in love with you more than his mind could cope with it. They do somewhat move on with their life it is easier for them in the beginning as they are obvlious but soon enough, as they learn and grow they will see that they have made a huge mistake, I for sure know that I did.”

Why is my runner OK with never talking to me again? Although he wants to talk to me.  The effort is non existent. And it makes little sense. Because I hold him to the standard to be as strong as I am. When talking could solve like years of bs and wasted like. Heck an hour convo would work! Instead of wasting more time.

Two things here, you have answered your first question within the question, and you have made a mistake holding your twin flame to be as strong as you are.

The answer was he is not ok with never talking to again as you figured out yourself when you said although he wants to talk to me.

Holding your sleeper to be as strong as you is not wise because you have to remember that on this journey they are more than a few miles behind you, they have to still learn to become as strong as you!!

Do the runners run even during a separation?

Yes, they run from their feelings and they run from the connection.

Why does the runner not seem to care at all about the pain they are causing, like they think it's okay to bounce in and out of your life whenever THEY want, knowing that you are always going to be available to them?

This is a very good question and I put it to my twin flame as he used to do this to me and this was how he answered:

“This was something that I did quite a lot, I did not ever want to hurt Carol Mary but I know I did cause her great pain, I did not do that knowingly, I was dealing with my own crap and while doing that I forgot about how much she helped me, I would go be by myself for days or weeks and all the while wonder how she was doing. When I realized what I was doing it was too late, she had left me and she did stay gone for 9 months, she said that it was for the best as she could not take anymore hurt from me, that was a huge wake up call because it was then I knew that she would not always be available to me and when I grew the most as a person and a twin flame.”

Where or when can we separate twin flame reactions with personality?

This question got me thinking because I was wondering why it was asked because it seems to me that we all have our own personalities then I realized that you were asking how can we separate their feelings that we feel from our own personality.

The answer to this is you will know when it is your own feelings because you can fully work out what is going on. When things seem a little hazy and you can not quite put your finger on it at first you will know that this is your twin flame. Take a moment concentrate on what you are feeling, see if you can figure out what the issue is, it will come to you if you sit in silence. Then you can send the energies needed and you should note the feelings dissipating.

Does runner have also those intense fears of losing you, that he has to face in certain situations?

Oh yes, the sleeper has serious fears about losing you that most often they protect their own heart by leaving first, again makes no sense, they do end up being put in certain situations so that they can learn and see that it is ok to give someone all of their heart.

How can the runner cope with the idea not to be with twin ?

It depends on what part of their journey they are on, if it is early days they cope and put it down to a very intense encounter. However when it is later on and the relationship has progressed they are just as hurt as you, they can just hide it better, so the answer really is that they do not cope with it.

Why do you wait last minute or have trouble communicating with us?
It is not so much trouble communicating as if I text or call late it will not hurt me so much if they say no. All of this is a way of coping.

Why does it feel and look like we never will happen...that he is in ignoring.. silence.. that it looks he does not love and does not want me ever?

This can mean that he is in total denial about the relationship, it does not mean he does not love you, he does not care for you, it means that he has a block when it comes to being with you. That can be a lesson that he refuses to face or someone who stands in your way. Either way it will be resolved but I do understand it is very hard to keep the faith when it looks like it is never going to happen. That will teach you true strength and patience.

Do they get the signs like we do? The reminders of the connection?

Yes but they may not see as many as you do because they are not as aware and awakened as you. It can be in the form of music or seeing your name, I do know that many sleepers have told me the numbers, 8, 7 and 11 were commonplace.

Why does the runner start a fight or attacks when everything is going great in the relationship?

This is usually a reaction to a trigger that day that pushes them back to a time when they would run out of fear. Instead of talking to you about what is going on they will start an argument as a test of your love, if you stay you pass, if you leave well then they will think that you never truly loved them like you said you did. It is a form of self sabotage also.


Why does My TF go from hot to cold, and mostly distant?

This comes with all the ups and downs of what the universe is throwing at you, when things are hot, it means that they are comfortable in their skin around you, they are secure and know that everything will be ok. When cold and distant  it means that there was something thrown in their path that has once again made them question everything about the connection. All you can do when this is going on is be as supportive as they can and in a way ignore some of their wishes not to talk to you.

What do you think happens to the runner that makes them realize that their twin is the one? Signs from the universe? A dream? Something in their Cracker Jacks? I believe I've been both the runner & chaser. Not sure what I am now?

You did answer the question within the question. Yes it can be signs from the universe, a dream that they have. The most common answer I get is that everything was leading me to this person so I knew there was just no way I could live my life without them, that was the realization that changed their life and for the better.

It is very possible to be both the sleeper and the leader. I know that many struggle with this as at times they just want to stop, stop feeling like they are in love with someone who does not show the same love back, so they try to distance themself from the relationship but what you must remember no matter what your twin flame is always with you, in your heart and soul, they never truly leave you!!

I do hope that this answers your questions if you have any further questions or would like to see more information like this please do not hesitate to contact me.  

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