Reuniting Comes From Within

Fanning The Flames Volume 8.8

12/30/2017

A SUPER Wolf Moon

&

Did I Hear You Say Union?

Hi All,

So the new year is almost upon us and right now is the time to reflect on your growth, think back to January and look how far you have come. Many of you have been doing great and you have made great progress but some of you are still on that self pity train, wondering when it is going to be your turn, if you maintain that attitude it is not going to happen and I can not say that more clearly to you. For those of you that put in the work, pat yourself on the back for union will be yours as you have shown your strength.

For me this year has been full of ups and downs and for those of you who have been following my story, I have picked myself up after a rough one and continued on my path now even stronger than before. I have had such good news throughout the year, from many unions, to the birth of a twin flame baby to engagements and even 6 weddings. Will you be one of those lucky ones next year?

There is much to tell you, that is going to give you a lot to think about and start to work on this year, to change your life and that of your twin flame journey. So what is in store for you for the next year? I have written up my predictions for the year and they are ready for you to read by clicking here twin-flames.html

I would now like to take the time to wish you a happy new year! Welcome to 2018. I am ready for it, are you?

Thank you to all of you who continue to work with me and I am accepting new clients for 2018, coach your way to union!! I have all the tools you need!!

Now is the time to set yourself one goal for each month of the year, write them down and begin work, that is the most positive thing to do for sure.

Moon Musings ~ January A Month For
Super Moon’s

What a great way to kick the new year, with not one but two Super Moons, the first one on New Year’s Day, which is a wolf moon. The energies that come with this moon are dubbed to be the fiercest by far. You are being asked to keep the strong connection with your instincts, no matter what is thrown at you in the coming days.

Loyalty Again

There will be tests of loyalty. I am sure many of you will remember me mentioning before about being loyal to your twin flame in your thinking and talking about them, now is the time to stick firm with this. You may even want to succumb to the desire to be free of your Twin Flame relationship as some will feel even more so that it is a burden.

Communicate With Me

Communication with your twin flame is going to be highlighted, now this does not necessarily mean that you will hear from them, but the bar will be set for the year so a time to perhaps promote contact, set some goals and even think about the best ways for your to communicate with your Twin Flame weather that is in 3d or 5d. The energies of course are heightened in this phase, it will also show we are to be working along the lines of least resistance, meaning be open. Be open with yourself and others. Now is not the time for mistruths about your situation.

Trust In You

I am also sensing that this Super Moon will have some of you feeling threatened by others perhaps a karmic relationship or lack of trust in someone or in yourself. However this is something that I want you to shake off because you must trust in your own instincts. Teaching yourself to do this will stand in good stead to you on this journey, to trust in your heart and mind. So you know that you do have control over your own life.

There’s More

You may find yourself very sensitive and so watch your reactions, and rather than reacting do a check in with yourself and choose how to respond accordingly to what is going on around you.

At this time also you can not make quick and firm emotional attachments with your twin flame which is a great plus and something that is very much needed by many.

Some very mixed energies for sure. How you deal with them is of course up to you.

The second Super Moon will be on January 31st which is a full blue blood moon along with a total lunar eclipse, so that is going to bring some wonderful energies for us to use to our advantage.

2018 - Could This Be The Year For Your Twin Flame Union?

I am asking the question could this be the year for your Twin Flame union and the answer to that is a resounding YES. Why I hear you ask, well first of all this year is an 11 year. We all know the importance of the number 11 and the signs that it brings to us Twin Flames and for a whole 12 months we are going to be governed by this and the energies that it brings with it.

Not only that but the energies of the number 2 will be huge also. So what does that tell you? Well 2 to me represents twin, and 11 represents love and parallel lives. It is going to be a year of Twin Flame love and unions. Of course there will be conditions on you getting to union which is not in keeping with unconditional love that we all strive for.

Let’s not forget that 8 there at the end for infinity!

Where I get my numbers from:

2018 = 2 + 0 + 1 + 8 = 11

To get 2:

1 + 1 = 2

2018 the year of love.

Are you excited yet?? I know I am!

Parallel Lives

Well as Twin Flames we live parallel lives in which we will eventually cross paths. We will meet, then be pulled apart again to go and work on our issues so that when we do finally unite we can begin our mission.

You will have similar things happen, the leader being you will usually have it happen to you first and then your sleeper second.

This year is so important for those of you who have been working because of the great energies of 11, 2 and 8. When all of these are connected and protected by infinite love (as shown in the image below) you sure are in for one heck of a ride. Be ready. Talk to me today about how!

What Else Will You See?

When you think of union, you think of all the happy times together with your Twin Flame, you do not think ever that the fault lies within yourself, that you the leader Twin Flame is the reason why you are not in union, we always blame the poor sleeper, well this year you are going to find out that you have yet to become the best version of yourself and not accepting this is one of the main reasons why your union has not happened yet. Let this be your first lesson of the New Year.

11 also has energy regarding pursuing ideals, goals and dreams that will gain you some recognition with others and possibly be part of organizations related to helping others become better people or have better lives. Is this something that you can do?

It is not going to be easy by any means but the energies are more so in your favor this year than any other year. You really need to work hard to take advantage of this. You are the leader and you are being called on to do this even more so by these master numbers.

Remember it is all about self love, being creative, becoming the best version of you, looking within, being independent in your life tasks, self-confidence, shedding ego, being less selfish.

What about 2?

The energy of 2 carries through the year - the attitude of easy-going observance and creating love in everything you do. The unconditional love for all in your life INCLUDING yourself is key this year. 2 is also about peace and cooperation and looking at others beyond just you.

As well as patience is a key vibration for this year. Let’s just say don’t be hasty in your decisions, emotions and reactions to situations and do your best to remember to come from a space of love and compassion. If you cannot then perhaps it’s best to do nothing at that moment. Be conscientious and conscious of what you’re thinking AND feeling in the moment. Be careful to not let your helpfulness and concern for others overrule being true to who you are! This is a lesson to learn to set appropriate boundaries and learn to stick to them.

If you take this message seriously and understand that union for twin flames is possible but if you don’t do the things necessary it won’t occur at least at this time, which means you’re delaying it and I know many of you don’t want to do that.

Infinity

Lastly but by no means least we have the number 8, which is one of my favorites and it is going to be here all year long. Infinity, this is totally based on your love for yourself and your love for your Twin Flame. Coming into a state of unconditional love in life. Is this something you can do? Are you ready for this? If no, we need to talk so that you can use this year to be the year you get your union.

If you question this please send me an email with what you are doing to work on yourself and I will let you know if there are missing elements or insight you don’t see and I can show you how to implement them into your life and make this a great year for you. Union is not guaranteed for all this year but it will be happening for the ones who do what is needed for them to get past the troubles. It does come from within you as I’ve always said and I can show you how. This is where a twin flame consultation would be very insightful for you.

Start this year as you mean to go on with a bang not a whimper!!

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary

Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox.

Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary

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Fanning the Flames Volume 8.7

12/26/2017

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1st Quarter Moon Musings,

An Engagement Plus A Fun New Year’s Craft!

Hi All,

I hope you all had a good Christmas and that is was a happy and peaceful one. As always us Twin Flames are busy bees preparing for union yes?? I am so very happy to announce a Twin Flame engagement. Read all the way to the end to find out about that one!!

Proud Twin Flame

Do you know why there are so little people out there that do not understand the true dynamic of a twin flame relationship, I am not just talking about the 5d aspect, your souls, I am talking about in the here and now? Is this something that you are proud of, being a twin flame? Do you hide who you truly feel you are from others?

When I asked that question to a group of Twin Flames, many felt that they were embarrassed to tell people that they were a Twin Flame as they felt that people just would not understand and some said that when they try to describe their feeling towards their beloved, they were told to let that person go because it was unhealthy. Very few said that they would talk to others about it but the ones that did only some said that there was little support for them. However, how do you explain something to others that you do not even fully understand yourself. The first step is of course to accept who you are and know that not everyone believes in a love like this, so pick your battles wisely.

I do know that one day Twin Flames will become more mainstream but for now I saw that many of you valued the privacy and hoped that it would not be in the media ever, I do agree with that somewhat but the world is more accepting than we give it credit for. Try to fully understand who you are, accept yourself and choose your happiness, the rest will fall into place for you. Hopefully one day people will be less quick to judge and become more understanding and that will only come with education. Having said that be wary of some of the information you are seeing not always what it seems.

First Mention

I remember back to when I first mention Twin Flames to mine, he said what are you talking about, so I explained to him how I felt that we were connected at a soul level as I felt some of what he was feeling etc, he laughed and said “I do not believe in that”. Well he does now (laughs). He eventually admitted that he felt the same way I did, saw many signs and knew there was no possible way there was not a higher reason we met and are now in union. Be very careful on the time to choose to tell your Twin Flame who he or she are to you. I have known some to head for the hills, thinking you have lost it.

Moon Musings

December 26th brings us to the 1st quarter moon phase, where typically there are more external challenges coming that you may arise and due to the energies related to it things may perhaps go a little wonky for you and others around you and even if not you be aware this will and does apply to your twin flame very much so or both of you depending on what is going on in your lives.

This first quarter moon phase has an intensity to it is as the external challenges you may face are ones related to what is going on in terms of your current life routine. - Job, friends, family, school and so forth and some of it excites you because things are going so very well. However, there is underlying fear as well that it’s all going to poof and go away and end up being nothing you hoped for. You have no time for those who show little emotional bonding and weakness in dealing with being able to bond to another in a positive way.

Insecure or No?

Insecure people have no place in your life right now. Whether that is your friends, co-workers or even your spouse. If you have feelings of insecurity and lacking confidence in building trusting relationships I can help with that. This is a good thing because even with insecurities either from others or from within you, the moon’s energy carries in it that of deal with issues and move forward. You may even have an ability to be somewhat persuasive too, getting others to doing things for you (without asking or telling them, though you might like to but please please do not be bossy!) If this insecurity relates to your twin flame, then it is time to get to work on this, as the work you do will affect your Twin Flame and help them to grow also.

You need to be courageous and self confident, daring and independent but also patient and willing now and you’ll win people over with that, not in an egotistical way but showing them you just have a knack for being good with people. If you’re uncomfortable in your career or with your current job position, this moon energy bodes well for considering change. Don’t leap with spontaneity but plan accordingly and it can work out very well for you.

Craft time - A wish/dream box for 2018

Rather than New Year's’ resolutions which we all tend to break or not even bother with why not create a beautiful and motivational tool that can remind you of what you wish to create for yourself and your life next year. Get yourself something like a sturdy cardboard box (like a photo or memory box) and your craft tools (paints, glitter glue, glitter, ribbon, foam stickers etc) make something that you can use over and over again every year.

Decorate the box with positive words about your goals and dreams. Gather items/tokens that relate to the goals you wish to create and have come true. Example - a fork if you want to cook more or eat better, a bookmark if you want to read more, things meaningful to you about your twin flame and what union means for you and so on. Fill the box up with that and also use a small jar with small pieces of paper that have specific wishes and dreams related to that goal or goals if you have multiple dreams you’re looking to create for 2019. Now make sure you can open the box as you may wish to add things for the first couple of months when they come to you.

Then set it somewhere you’ll see it to remind you of those things, At the end of 2018 you can go through the jar over the Christmas to New Year break and see what did come true - that you can set aside and maybe make a memory book (using a photo album) to help you relive the events and feel joy and happiness. The things that didn’t happen, put back in the jar and come up with strategies to approach making them happen in 2019 that were and are different than you chose to do in 2018.

****Also I would like for you to keep a list of the wishes and dreams you put in the jar and read them to yourself in the morning and at night in the way I mentioned in the blog where we discussed doing gratitude in a new way: Click on the link below to read more about this:

http://www.reunitingcomesfromwithin.com/carolmaryblog/fanning-the-flames-85

Take 1 of those desires on your list and use it as a gratitude journal entry as described in the blog link and do it for 30 days until it becomes such a part of your mindset that it already feels real. By the way your mind doesn’t know the difference between the real and imagined so basically this is a matter of thinking called BELIEVE IT SO NOW I CAN SEE IT! Essentially you’re creating the mindset that you already living it so the universe has no choice but to bring it to you. This is the law of attraction in action because as you practice this you’ll raise your vibration and begin to attract the things/people etc you need to make that happen. Learn to trust the process and have ultimate faith the universe. Trust begins within you. Faith in knowing that what you’re asking for will happen come from repetition because that changes how your brain thinks, which changes how your emotions work as well.

Remember having negative things come up doesn’t make you a bad person nor does it make your life bad, it simply means you’re being shown it’s time to change how you think and how you do things. Knowing there are steps to take to make things happen is also good. If you can’t figure out those things, confide in a friend who supports you in the changes you wish to make and the new world you desire to create for yourself. Be sure they are a trustworthy friend.

The Kind Of News I Love Hearing!!

Some good news for you all and some that should uplift those of you who are in separation, you can get to union, you can do this, today I learnt that one of my very first clients is now engaged. Loretta began working with me about 3 years ago now, we have since become great friends and I guide her through her hard times, as she does for me. It was so exciting for me to hear that they were finally engaged and ready to take that next step towards a happier life together. When I think back at where they both were when we first began work, there was a mountain but within a year they were living together. Hard work on the right things does pay off. Neither of them have had an easy road of it but at long last happy times for this wonderful couple, congratulations to Loretta and Shawn.

You can read their story here!

You too can get to this point, contact me today to find out how and what you need to do!!

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary

Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox.

Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary

Much Love

Carol Mary xx

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Fanning the Flames ~ Volume 8.6

12/16/2017

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The Dead-Air Between You

& New Moon Musings

Hi All,

A week away until Christmas, this can be a magical time or a hard time for twin flames depending on the situation. I know that if you are in separation that you will be missing your twin flame but this is not want the universe wants you to do, you are being told to pick yourself, dust yourself off, show that you are independant and that you have got this. Sitting and wallowing does not a union make.

While I get that is hard, I have been there for 4 Christmases to be exact, none of them were easy, but did I learn something, yes, I learnt the true value of our love and how hard I needed to work and grow in order to get to union, each one brought a different lesson with it.

Our first year we were in union was great but it gets better and better each year and you can have that too. I am always asked how long did it take?, what did I do?, When my book comes out next year you will all be able to read the nitty gritty details, but for now I will advise on different topics, if you have a question you would like to see featured in the weekly blog, feel free to email me at reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com.

How To Cope With The Christmas Blues!

Stop saying no, if you are invited to a party, a meal out or just to go shopping or see a movie, say yes go out, have some fun.

How about volunteering, that will allow you to feel good and it will bring you good karma.

Gratitude, Christmas is the perfect day to take the time to appreciate what you have in life, be it good health, a place to live, or food on the table.

Mind over matter, allow yourself to know that you can cope, that you have got this and that will in turn help your twin flame who most likely will be feeling this way too.

Invite people in your life over, hang out and have some fun, board games are always great fun.

Lastly, at times we need a rest from society so perhaps use this time to find your inner peace or forward plan.

Please also remember, that if things get too much for you reach out, email me, I promise to answer as soon as I can and help you! Know that your life is more important than the temporary pain that you are in on this journey!!

Radio Silence

A period during which one hears nothing from a normally communicative person or group!

So things have been getting better with your Twin Flame, you are hearing from them more frequently, you have even met up one or two times and you feel like finally you are both going to get it together. Then boom, nothing, total silence, in 3d and in 5d. I like to call this radio silence.

What has caused this?

Things they’ve experienced in dreams and soul work, they’re starting to experience things in 3D and need time to accept it and learn from it, in order to move forward and yes into communication with you and eventually into union.

They are experiencing shifts in their lives but it’s knocked them for a loop and they need some time to realize it’s related to you and them being together.

They are in fact going through a healing phase and it’s affected them at the higher self level as well as in their physical and mental bodies.

They have in fact taken a step back from soul contact to allow you to do what you need to do for yourself and your life so that you can become who you need to be in order to be with them. So do it!

What Now!

If you only get an “I love you” or a touch or kiss you feel energywise, please just understand it’s not that they’re avoiding you, you are as much on their mind and their heart as they are in yours. They just need space. Let them breathe and go through itt, they need this time to become more who they are meant to be for when they can be with you. Please don’t panic and think it’s over or something far from it and continue to do your work!!!

This means your twin flame dynamic is shifting! Remain calm. Just relax and allow. Don’t get overly concerned if you stop dreaming about them or getting messages from them in your dreams or your sleep. They have not been cut off from you.

Moon Musings

We have a new moon this week on December 18th, 7 days before Christmas, perfect time while you are off to begin thinking of the plans and goals for 2018 you have. Be they small or large. What is it now that you would like to create and be in 2018.

When the moon is in it’s “new” phase it is beginning its waxing phase. This is a time when the energy is full of possibilities and opportunity however...

Things could be a little “explosive” right now. There are triggers both mentally and physically. Feeling free-spirited you’ll be tempted to play your “hunches” and most of them are good ones to follow.

A nervous energy during this phase is prevalent so get your rest, eat well and do your best to practice some self care right now. Mental fatigue is not something you want let alone physical fatigue either. Don’t do more than you’re capable of and those with a negative attitude tell them to keep it because it isn’t where you need to be in your mindset especially with the holidays coming. Be aware to not feel down about not getting everything done, overwhelm is an issue so please do your best to stay level-headed please. Ease up on the judgement of yourself and others and be more open-minded to abstract ideas and concepts now. Watch your lack of sensitivity to others and how you state your views and “beliefs” right now. It’s ok to have common sense but don’t be impersonal to those around you thinking only your ideas matter. Be open!

Winter Solstice

With the new moon on December 18th we also have the Winter Solstice this week which amplifies the positive energy of the phase of the new moon. The energy intensities is related to the soul connection between you and your twin flame, the divine love, soul love between you.

This can be a very powerful time for you to help your soul bond, combined with the energy of the new moon and winter solstice we can add strength to your soul connection in a positive way.

As many of you know we are currently in the middle of a huge transitional shift, twin flames are coming into union and fast.

I have two thoughts on this, one is are you being brought into union, to learn from one another, to be parted once more to play the blame game until you finally unite.

Or

Is this it, you are there, you have got to union.

Do you get to decide?

Yes and no, yes as if you have been putting in the work, there will be no blame game to play (Read about that here). Simply put.

No, if you have been sitting on your laurels thinking, I am perfect, there is nothing I need to do, of course my Twin Flame is just going to come to me and unite because well, I am full of ego, I know better than everyone else, sure haven’t I worked so hard, sitting here looking pretty!!

Or you could go ahead and do the following!

Realizing that although winter approaches it is time to nurture yourself and work on creating a new version of yourself. Plant seeds of good action and good thoughts and ways to develop good energy and positive habits.

Nurture them over the winter season for them to truly begin to blossom in spring. Like spring bulbs you plant in winter so they bloom in the spring, think of yourself in the physical and mental sense as a garden. What do you wish to grow in your life.

Prepare the soil - (your mind and spirit) tend to it - (practice self - care, and nurturing your soul, developing your goals) and in the spring you shall see a transformation. Think of yourself like the animals that hibernate in the winter to rest and regain their energy. This is the time now to turn within and work on you and what you wish to change and create for the new year in 2018.

We are always a work in progress of course so what you’ve already started, or have done, find ways to continue with it.

Your Questions Answered

In case you missed last week’s 2nd blog, here it is for you again in a video!! Enjoy!! If you would like to see more practical advice videos like this please be sure to let me know!!

Until Next Week

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary

Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox.

Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary

Much Love

Carol Mary xx

©Carol Mary 2017. ©Reuniting comes from within All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner

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Fanning The Flames Volume 8.8

A SUPER Wolf Moon

&

Did I Hear You Say Union?

Moon Musings ~ January A Month For
Super Moon’s

2018 - Could This Be The Year For Your Twin Flame Union?

Fanning the Flames Volume 8.7

1st Quarter Moon Musings,

An Engagement Plus A Fun New Year’s Craft!

Fanning the Flames ~ Volume 8.6

The Dead-Air Between You

& New Moon Musings

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