Fanning the Flames ~ Volume 8.6

The Dead-Air Between You
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Hi All,

A week away until Christmas, this can be a magical time or a hard time for twin flames depending on the situation. I know that if you are in separation that you will be missing your twin flame but this is not want the universe wants you to do, you are being told to pick yourself, dust yourself off, show that you are independant and that you have got this. Sitting and wallowing does not a union make.

While I get that is hard, I have been there for 4 Christmases to be exact, none of them were easy, but did I learn something, yes, I learnt the true value of our love and how hard I needed to work and grow in order to get to union, each one brought a different lesson with it.  

Our first year we were in union was great but it gets better and better each year and you can have that too. I am always asked how long did it take?, what did I do?, When my book comes out next year you will all be able to read the nitty gritty details, but for now I will advise on different topics, if you have a question you would like to see featured in the weekly blog, feel free to email me at [email protected].

How To Cope With The Christmas Blues!

• Stop saying no, if you are invited to a party, a meal out or just to go shopping or see a movie, say yes go out, have some fun.
  

• How about volunteering, that will allow you to feel good and it will bring you good karma.
  

• Gratitude, Christmas is the perfect day to take the time to appreciate what you have in life, be it good health, a place to live, or food on the table.
  

• Mind over matter, allow yourself to know that you can cope, that you have got this and that will in turn help your twin flame who most likely will be feeling this way too.
  

• Invite people in your life over, hang out and have some fun, board games are always great fun.
  

• Lastly, at times we need a rest from society so perhaps use this time to find your inner peace or forward plan.
  

Please also remember, that if things get too much for you reach out, email me, I promise to answer as soon as I can and help you! Know that your life is more important than the temporary pain that you are in on this journey!!

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Radio Silence

A period during which one hears nothing from a normally communicative person or group!

So things have been getting better with your Twin Flame, you are hearing from them more frequently, you have even met up one or two times and you feel like finally you are both going to get it together. Then boom, nothing, total silence, in 3d and in 5d. I like to call this radio silence.

What has caused this?

Things they’ve experienced in dreams and soul work, they’re starting to experience things in 3D and need time to accept it and learn from it, in order to move forward and yes into communication with you and eventually into union.

They are experiencing shifts in their lives but it’s knocked them for a loop and they need some time to realize it’s related to you and them being together.  

They are in fact going through a healing phase and it’s affected them at the higher self level as well as in their physical and mental bodies.

They have in fact taken a step back from soul contact to allow you to do what you need to do for yourself and your life so that you can become who you need to be in order to be with them. So do it!

What Now!

If you only get an “I love you” or a touch or kiss you feel energywise, please just understand it’s not that they’re avoiding you, you are as much on their mind and their heart as they are in yours. They just need space. Let them breathe and go through itt, they need this time to become more who they are meant to be for when they can be with you. Please don’t panic and think it’s over or something far from it and continue to do your work!!!

This means your twin flame dynamic is shifting! Remain calm. Just relax and allow. Don’t get overly concerned if you stop dreaming about them or getting messages from them in your dreams or your sleep. They have not been cut off from you.

Do you get to decide?

Yes and no, yes as if you have been putting in the work, there will be no blame game to play (Read about that here). Simply put.

No,  if you have been sitting on your laurels thinking, I am perfect, there is nothing I need to do, of course my Twin Flame is just going to come to me and unite because well, I am full of ego, I know better than everyone else, sure haven’t I worked so hard, sitting here looking pretty!!

Or you could go ahead and do the following!

Realizing that although winter approaches it is time to nurture yourself and work on creating a new version of yourself. Plant seeds of good action and good thoughts and ways to develop good energy and positive habits.

Nurture them over the winter season for them to truly begin to blossom in spring. Like spring bulbs you plant in winter so they bloom in the spring, think of yourself in the physical and mental sense as a garden. What do you wish to grow in your life.

Prepare the soil - (your mind and spirit) tend to it - (practice self - care, and nurturing your soul, developing your goals) and in the spring you shall see a transformation. Think of yourself like the animals that hibernate in the winter to rest and regain their energy. This is the time now to turn within and work on you and what you wish to change and create for the new year in 2018.

We are always a work in progress of course so what you’ve already started, or have done, find ways to continue with it.

Your Questions Answered

In case you missed last week’s 2nd blog, here it is for you again in a video!! Enjoy!! If you would like to see more practical advice videos like this please be sure to let me know!!

Until Next Week

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

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Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary


Much Love


​Carol Mary xx

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