Fanning The Flames Volume 7.3
The Blame Game
As twin flames we do lay blame, come on there is not one of you reading this that has not blamed another person for the things that can go wrong in your life. I am noticing a trend lately that more and more leader twin flames are getting fed up with waiting for their sleeper to wake up and come into union with them.
I hear such things as he is blaming me for all that went wrong in our relationship, blaming me for our loss of contact, for how bad they feel, how hurt they are, the list is endless. Then you find yourself getting bogged down by negativity and you can not see any good in the journey you are on and think well they are not going to change so why should I waste my energy on them, they can not even do any of the work, I have to do everything, why is this all on my shoulders?
For some these feelings can come right after a period of union, while in union you both started to argue, then parted ways, you blamed him and he blamed you, so how is anything going to get resolved.
This is a tough one, it is because when you came together you both built up negativity and hurtful emotions and they all bounced to the surface. All your fears and frustrations arrived too, your head feels like it is going to explode or you just want out of your body so you do not have to feel this way anymore. It is a rough one to go through, it is necessary however so that you can be cleansed of all of this and once again move forward.
Build Up Walls or Resolve Issues?
Do you build up walls to protect your heart, many go ahead and do this but this is for sure the wrong thing to do, you must face it head on as the leader twin flame. You must list everything out and work on each issue one at a time, this will in turn help your sleeper twin because let’s be honest here they will not have a clue what is going on and will build that wall, that wall will break down the more work you do, therefore freeing both of you from these emotional chains.
If you do build up the walls the universe will surely send you a karmic learning relationship which will cause you more hurt and leave you with feelings of not being good enough, it will help you to once again feel abused, abandoned, untrusting and your confidence will be shot.
I know which path I would like to choose, how about you? After all you do not want your sleeper to fall into a coma right?
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Awesome blog as usual Carol!! I really love how you are so detailed. Yes, we are all guilty of a little blame game. He did this, and she did that...the cycle may never end. It is always to good to be open and honest with one another. So you can fix issues, rather than blaming one another all the time. It really saves a lot of grief. Sometimes when I hear it, all I can do is listen, and not get sucked into it myself. Luckily I did my fair share of wallowing, I think I'm done with that now. It's better to work on yourself, make yourself happy, and good things come to those who wait. I appreciate your insight and guidance. Thank you!!
Carol that is an awesome blog.. yes you know when the true separation started with my sacred partner aka my twin flame - after he blocked me online, well at least on Twitter ;) ;) you know how hurt I was and how we did the blame thing back and forth - mind you communicating in 5D through you but still...
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Another really great blog from you, I know where you are coming from on the Guru's I have had the pleasure of working with one in particular who would always talk about wounding, well you know people heal as they grow in love. Your blogs are awesome!! Thank you
Thank you, I think my twin flame and I are going through the blame game right now so this has been super helpful! I will be in contact with you!
I have been on my twin flame journey for the past 5 years, we were playing the blame game and then I found Carol Mary, lets just say, we have moved beyond this and more. Union will be ours! I am positive!
Devlin O' Hara
An irish woman who understands what I am going through is such a great find. I will take you up on that offer of a cuppa the next time you are free. You are ab fab!
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