Fanning The Flames Volume 7.3

The Blame Game & Karmic Surprises

Hi All,

As twin flames we do lay blame, come on there is not one of you reading this that has not blamed another person for the things that can go wrong in your life. I am noticing a trend lately that more and more leader twin flames are getting fed up with waiting for their sleeper to wake up and come into union with them.


Blame Game

I hear such things as he is blaming me for all that went wrong in our relationship, blaming me for our loss of contact, for how bad they feel, how hurt they are, the list is endless. Then you find yourself getting bogged down by negativity and you can not see any good in the journey you are on and think well they are not going to change so why should I waste my energy on them, they can not even do any of the work, I have to do everything, why is this all on my shoulders?

For some these feelings can come right after a period of union, while in union you both started to argue, then parted ways, you blamed him and he blamed you, so how is anything going to get resolved.

This is a tough one, it is because when you came together you both built up negativity and hurtful emotions and they all bounced to the surface. All your fears and frustrations arrived too, your head feels like it is going to explode or you just want out of your body so you do not have to feel this way anymore. It is a rough one to go through, it is necessary however so that you can be cleansed of all of this and once again move forward.

Build Up Walls or Resolve Issues?

Do you build up walls to protect your heart, many go ahead and do this but this is for sure the wrong thing to do, you must face it head on as the leader twin flame. You must list everything out and work on each issue one at a time, this will in turn help your sleeper twin because let’s be honest here they will not have a clue what is going on and will build that wall, that wall will break down the more work you do, therefore freeing both of you from these emotional chains.

If you do build up the walls the universe will surely send you a karmic learning relationship which will cause you more hurt and leave you with feelings of not being good enough, it will help you to once again feel abused, abandoned, untrusting and your confidence will be shot.

I know which path I would like to choose, how about you? After all you do not want your sleeper to fall into a coma right?

If you are going through any of this please book a consultation and I can guide you and help you become more enlightened. Click this link for more information on this and other services that I offer!

So let’s have a look at what is in store for us this week.

Astrology Awareness

The last quarter moon is not one to be ignored, many feel because it is not a full or a new moon, these energies are just as important and they do affect our journey. The Sun being in the sign of virgo is basically squaring up to the the moon in the sign of Gemini. So expect some opposing energies starting today!

In this case on September 13th, 2017,  the stable Earth sign of Virgo, which is all about practicality, perfection, discipline and purity is being pushed by Gemini to get things into motion with a little more emphasis on perhaps being a bit more spontaneous but not necessarily reckless.

Moon in Gemini energy is restless and yet lively and inquisitive especially when it comes to emotional matters. You may feel the need to overanalyze things now with relation to your emotions or be curious to know what others feel instead of listening to what they are actually telling you in a serious conversation. You’re more likely to be “feeling” with your mind rather than planning and plotting out things right now.  Essentially you may wish to analyze your communication with others and also your mental skills..  This is because both Gemini and Virgo are ruled by the planet Mercury, which went direct last week on September 6th so you may find this easier than you think. To sum it up it is responsibility vs freedom -- choices, choices…

Special day - September 14th 2017

It has been shown to me that September 14th is a day to make a decision about changing something with regards to your lifestyle. Perhaps eating better, starting that exercise program, or maybe learning something spiritual, or take up an art class or writing class to learn to have more fun and be more expressive and perhaps in whatever you choose you learn to meet new people who can help you stick with the changes.  Pick one thing, don’t go crazy trying to do all of these things and try to make gigantic changes only to find you will cease the opportunity to create a new you and perhaps a new life in some way.

Noteworthy Numerology

Now this is going to be interesting because we’ve got both the 13th and 14th of September to talk about and those two numbers 13 & 14 are considered to be karmic lesson numbers in numerology.

The 13th is a 4 energy - all work and no play - hmm rather kind of fitting for Virgo if you think about it. The karma of this day is learning to deal with restrictions and learning to hang in there and do the hard work. This day is about past life lessons related to areas where how you express yourself, perhaps the easiest way for me to explain it is, well rather than being straight out truthful and blunt with people you need to learn to express yourself without being harsh or rude or mean to others, AND probably to yourself too! (self talk!!!)  The lesson here is to learn to speak sweetly.. Or as the saying goes.. You draw more flies with honey than with vinegar.  It’s not just about being a “good” person this go round in this lifetime it’s about knowing that what you do in this lifetime will affect your next one if you are to come back again or will affect you later in this lifetime also.

The 14th is a karmic day related to change as it is a 5 day. It is about dealing with karmic temptations. This is related to past life lessons where you may have brought that with you into this life and don’t know how to enjoy freedom or have fun etc. This may have been because in a past life your freedom was abused and are now forced to adapt to constantly changing circumstances and things unexpectedly happening to you in your life. There is a potential to seek out unhealthy ways of finding freedom to relieve the stress brought on by this - alcohol abuse, drugs, overindulgence in food, sex or even things like gambling, maybe playing video games. Anything with a potential for addiction could be used as an escape from or hiding from that which you feel you are burdened with. Therefore modesty and moderation is the key here.

The full date of the 13th happens to equal a 5 and the 14th equals a 6. So we have an intensifying of the 5 energy of change over these two days. And also with the 6 you bring in the energy of harmonious relationships - whether that be with friends, co-workers, family and your romantic partner plus also the energy of being helpful to those in your community by sharing what you have. (food, knowledge, etc)

For Twin Flames & Sacred Partnerships

As you can see there are some intense energies here with energies of Gemini (The Twins) being front & center during the last quarter moon phase and being pushed by Virgo to watch what you say, think and feel toward your beloved right now and I’m sure you can see how the karmic days fall into play with this.  

While this journey is very serious a lot of the time, we need to learn to lighten up and have fun too. Especially for those of you who are in physical union with your twin as well as those who are in good positive communication with yours if you aren’t in union but working toward it.

This might be time with these karmic days upon us this month being connected with the moon energy to look at getting a past life reading and/or maybe a reading about your twin flame journey from a past/present/future standpoint. I can tell you what lessons you need to learn, have brought with you and what can happen if you do the work and also if you don’t!

I have noticed that there has been a run on karmic relationships ending in the month of September, are you ready for your twin to be free and available again or has it been that the whole time you were parted you wallowed in self pity. If you have not put in the necessary work be prepared to be waiting to unite because the universe will not allow it until such things are done.


Karmic Guru’s

There is something I have also seen of late and that is certain twin flame gurus trying to hurt the work that others do. I believe that there are many aspects to the twin flame journey and each person who is out there helping has a specific purpose. I know I have said this before but these people are speaking out of ego, while they claim they are the best out there, how can that be so if they are not even in union, because surely to be among the better twin flame workers, to impart the best advice you should have gotten through the whole journey to union and have begun their mission that was set out for them. Not just half way, became stuck and have no idea how to move forward. Remember to trust your gut, the good ones will not be afraid to answer any of your questions, they will not put what others are doing down, it is just not the twin flame way!! Are they here to help you or pull you further away from your twin flame.


Guides Message

“This is not your time to fold, this is your time to rise above and make the most of your twin flames absence. Grow in love with them not in pain”

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

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Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary


Much Love


​Carol Mary xx

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