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Fanning The Flames Volume 7.3

9/13/2017

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The Blame Game


Hi All,

As twin flames we do lay blame, come on there is not one of you reading this that has not blamed another person for the things that can go wrong in your life. I am noticing a trend lately that more and more leader twin flames are getting fed up with waiting for their sleeper to wake up and come into union with them.


Blame Game

I hear such things as he is blaming me for all that went wrong in our relationship, blaming me for our loss of contact, for how bad they feel, how hurt they are, the list is endless. Then you find yourself getting bogged down by negativity and you can not see any good in the journey you are on and think well they are not going to change so why should I waste my energy on them, they can not even do any of the work, I have to do everything, why is this all on my shoulders?

For some these feelings can come right after a period of union, while in union you both started to argue, then parted ways, you blamed him and he blamed you, so how is anything going to get resolved.

This is a tough one, it is because when you came together you both built up negativity and hurtful emotions and they all bounced to the surface. All your fears and frustrations arrived too, your head feels like it is going to explode or you just want out of your body so you do not have to feel this way anymore. It is a rough one to go through, it is necessary however so that you can be cleansed of all of this and once again move forward.

Build Up Walls or Resolve Issues?

Do you build up walls to protect your heart, many go ahead and do this but this is for sure the wrong thing to do, you must face it head on as the leader twin flame. You must list everything out and work on each issue one at a time, this will in turn help your sleeper twin because let’s be honest here they will not have a clue what is going on and will build that wall, that wall will break down the more work you do, therefore freeing both of you from these emotional chains.

If you do build up the walls the universe will surely send you a karmic learning relationship which will cause you more hurt and leave you with feelings of not being good enough, it will help you to once again feel abused, abandoned, untrusting and your confidence will be shot.

I know which path I would like to choose, how about you? After all you do not want your sleeper to fall into a coma right?

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7 Comments
Amy
9/13/2017 18:56:35

Awesome blog as usual Carol!! I really love how you are so detailed. Yes, we are all guilty of a little blame game. He did this, and she did that...the cycle may never end. It is always to good to be open and honest with one another. So you can fix issues, rather than blaming one another all the time. It really saves a lot of grief. Sometimes when I hear it, all I can do is listen, and not get sucked into it myself. Luckily I did my fair share of wallowing, I think I'm done with that now. It's better to work on yourself, make yourself happy, and good things come to those who wait. I appreciate your insight and guidance. Thank you!!

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Kimberley
9/13/2017 22:37:06

Carol that is an awesome blog.. yes you know when the true separation started with my sacred partner aka my twin flame - after he blocked me online, well at least on Twitter ;) ;) you know how hurt I was and how we did the blame thing back and forth - mind you communicating in 5D through you but still...

You know how now we are the complete opposite. It's all love, unconditional, romantic and we're all about supporting each other in 5D.

I know that means we'll do it in 3D too.. albeit it won't be super easy but we've worked through so much I think we'll be fine.

I have resolved to listen to very few twin flame teachers only because I only trust the ones in union.. such as you and 1 other I know.. the others if they write poetry or such or talk about good stuff that supports the journey rather than always like the teachers not in union who constantly talk about wounding, surrendering, and that there is ALWAYS work to do... etc...

I've learned surrender is not for me! It doesn't feel right when I try to do it.. so I can't and I won't..

I have also learned you are not constantly in "work'' mode either..

you do some healing, some meditation, connecting to them telepathically etc.. then you rest and let them come to you or whatever and however it happens whether that is in energy, dreams, talking to you in return telepathically or even connecting in the physical.

It is all a work in progress but if you don't give the work a respite from time to time.. the universe I think and feel misreads your vibration and so rather than getting what you're working for.. it pushes it away..

which is why I haven't done much lately. my mind and soul isn't resonating to do so.. though I know I've had a couple ups and downs but I bounced back pretty fast ..and you know how.. - proper eating etc..and self care..

but that doesn't mean I won't do it.. just will do a little at a time and I do everyday...

Thank you for all your love and support and guidance.. so glad I chose to work with you..

let's do this!

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Kimberley
9/13/2017 22:50:52

2nd comment ...

Oh I forgot to say a lot of times when things happen with our sacred partner/twin flame we build up heart armor which typically arises from past pains caused by others through our life experience.

I'm pretty good at doing the play after work.. I read and listen to music, watch kitten rescue live streams on youtube.. kitten therapy ..

I'm pretty good at dealing with those so called karmic temptations. i've been eating really healthy lately for the most part... i do give in occasiionally to have some popcorn with cheese or maybe a couple of life saver candies or something..

You know we are - my beloved and I .. are closer and closer to moving forward.. you know we've done the work.. sure there is more to do.. but not nearly like in the beginning when we began about 5 years ago in this lifetime..

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Sam
9/14/2017 00:09:55

Another really great blog from you, I know where you are coming from on the Guru's I have had the pleasure of working with one in particular who would always talk about wounding, well you know people heal as they grow in love. Your blogs are awesome!! Thank you

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Millie Ward
9/14/2017 00:10:37

Thank you, I think my twin flame and I are going through the blame game right now so this has been super helpful! I will be in contact with you!

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Delilah Jones
9/14/2017 00:11:57

I have been on my twin flame journey for the past 5 years, we were playing the blame game and then I found Carol Mary, lets just say, we have moved beyond this and more. Union will be ours! I am positive!

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Devlin O' Hara
9/14/2017 00:27:20

An irish woman who understands what I am going through is such a great find. I will take you up on that offer of a cuppa the next time you are free. You are ab fab!

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