What would you do?
Are you married? Is your twin flame still sleeping? Are you scared to make that leap of faith to end your marriage so that you can move forward into union? Is your twin flame telling you that they will leave their marriage and have not as yet? Are they telling you they are trying again? Are you struggling to decide what to do because you are scared of losing everything?
This was one of the hardest decisions I had to make, to walk away from everything I knew, leave my home, my car, my job, essentially the life I had built myself. My marriage was a no brainer because that clearly did not work, that was the easy part.. It was scary, it took a lot of believe in my twin flame, faith that I was doing the right thing, blindly going forward to what I hoped was going to be a new and better life for my children and I. In the end I took that leap of faith and it paid off but I battled for months back and forth on what to do.
Did it work out yes, so there was a whole bunch of circumstances leading up to this decision and I do feel that I was guided pretty well in the right direction but what do those of you who do not trust in your gut instinct. So much hangs in the balance right?
How do you decide? Let’s try what I call the stone method!
Firstly you will need to gather some stones, they can be all different shapes or sizes this does not matter.
Then name the stones and know what each one represents and what this person, place or thing means to you.
You can mark each stone with a number or letter of the alphabet if you wish and write down who and what it means.
Over the coming weeks you pick out a stone, think about what it means to you, is it important enough to keep, if yes, move on to the next one. If you can live without this person, place or thing go outside and throw that stone away, let it go, then once again move forward to the next one.
You have to be ruthless, there is no room for sentiment. Once you have this done you will have a clearer picture and perhaps even know what to do. Remember that the likelihood is you will be making the right decision and you are just letting your fears take over.
There is no right or wrong way to do this, but the longer you feel trapped in a life you do not want to be in the harder it is going to be on you to continue on your journey without feeling down and wanting to give up and stay stuck where you are!
In the end I did let it all go, my home, my car, my job but now I have the most important people in my life, a new home, another car, I have to admit this is not my favorite, I miss my other one lol, and I am working on a career as opposed to a job! Making the ultimate sacrifice now will give you rewards far greater than you know. Are you ready to take that leap, lead your twin flame to a new life??
“If there is no risk, there is no reward.” ~ Christy Raedeke
Fact or Myth
I often sit and contemplate this journey we are on, I think that there are many out there who have ideals about what being a twin flame is and how the sleeper twin flame should act. You know we are human, we make mistakes and there is no one of us perfect. That is why I say you can become the best version of yourself, be the best you can be.
The sleeper twin flame will do unspeakable things, things that will shock you, shake you to your very core, confuse you to the point that you think you are crazy, all of your friends and family will tell you that he is no good for you but yet you can not let him go! Actually some have even been accused of stalking.
That is not love, right? That is surely not what a twin flame should do!!
There is a common misconception that your twin flame is your perfect other half, they will complete you, will never hurt you, will always be there for you, support you in all you do, the perfect fit!!
Why is this belief there? In my experience this is not the case, that comes from people who are with their soul mate.
You will of course get to a state where you will both be perfectly happy with each other and have all of those things I mentioned above and a strength that knows no bounds. It does take a lot of hard work, heartache and pain to get to that point because what many do not tell you is that even when you do get to union there will be trials as you both set out on your missions!
Last but by no means least
Rules for Reunion!
Have you taken the time to watch my you tube video on Rules for Reunion
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“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary
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