Fanning The Flames Vol. 9.1

That Stubborn Ego!

Hi All,

Another week has passed and I am happy to say that many of you are doing great so far this year. So much positive work being done, how about you? Are you working towards your union?

When you pin your hopes solely on union, you put everything you have into it, do you then have the expectation that union will happen, I mean it is inevitable, right? Wrong, union is not inevitable, what is inevitable is that this journey will change your whole being, your whole outlook on life. Do you think that would be enough for you?

How will my union happen? When will it happen? How long do I have to wait? What do you think will change our outlook? So many questions but the answers are not out there for you to find, then you are told to follow your heart, it will not guide you far wrong, but what happens when that fails you? You have no idea where to go? You have no idea who to turn to?

I miss him/her so much! Why me? Why do I have to feel this way? It is hopeless, right? I am living in a dream world! I am losing it! I am crazy, I dreamt all of this up in my head? I think I am a stalker!

If I cut my twin flame off they will miss me and come back! If I sit and wait, they will come back! I do not need to do anything because you know it was predestined to happen!I could never leave my life now, it would cost me too much? How much is your happiness worth? Is there a price on that? I am in “surrender”! I give up. No wait I love my twin flame I can not give up!

It is a never ending cycle!!

Are you prepared to break that cycle? Are you ready, proactive and know how you will unite? If you answered yes and yes, contact me today because I will give you the answers, I will show you the way and I will not give you the bullshit others have. No I will not soften any blow, I will give it to you like it is! I will not fill your head with things that you do not understand! I will not talk about the divine masculine and divine feminine, there is no need to, you do not live in 5d you live in 3d and it is in 3d that the majority of us want to unite! Right? Yes damn straight, you want to unite here and in the nearest possible future!! Do you know how to bridge that gap?

Break that cycle!! Break it today! Change that negative into a positive!

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That Stubborn Ego!

I’ve spoken about the ego briefly from time to time but I wanted to divulge more insight for you who may not understand how this gets in the way of your twin flame journey and your road to union. Many do not realize the damage this does and for some it’s hard to come back from deep dark depths when you realize what has gone on.

The ego is something that lives both in our conscious as well as our unconscious mind at the same time. While in some cases as it relates to being the thing that creates motivation and self esteem and helps with self worth and those are all positive things and we need those as well in terms of creating boundaries, what we do not need is when we allow for it to “make decisions for us” in relation to our twin flame and being on this journey with them.

It is the one dictating your judgement of them (and yourself - your worthiness or lack thereof) It is the one trying to dictate your control over what does or doesn’t happen - ultimatums, anger, worrying about timeframes and all the stuff going on or not going on in 3D between you. It is the one making you feel disappointed, overthinking and creating doubts and fear, plus worrying all the time about EVERYTHING on this journey with them. It is a controlling little annoyance for sure and it is creating all the “attachment to the outcome” of this journey as well.  It is the one trying to override your intuition and talk you out of believing it by throwing all kinds of negative at you and getting you to trust those who are not twin flames talking you out of this whole thing.  

So what are some things you can do? This will take some practice to learn to understand if it’s your ego but it’s pretty clear if it’s anything like the above I’ve mentioned and anything similar.

Firstly --  You tell your ego to shut up and let soul speak and you realize that you are always connected at the soul level.

Secondly -  You then get involved in your own life and find things to occupy yourself that are about you and creating the love, trust, faith and all of that good stuff within and that means unconditionally and total acceptance of the good and bad and the things you can and cannot change and you find what motivates you to become a better you and you let them do their thing their way and not think he has to do it your way.  It is ok to observe them at a distance, but hold no opinion on the right and wrong of it, for this is a judgement and that you are not to do with them or yourself.  They are their own person just as you are your own person put yourself in their shoes would you want him going through what you are even though they might very well be.  They are handling it differently from you and so must you handle it differently from them.

One thing that would be helpful in respect to working on your ego is having an accountability partner. Accountability means if you say you are going to do something then you have someone to be there to support you and check in with on your progress and provide guidance and/or support and you do it for them. I would love to be this for you,   

Further advice on dealing with the ego… from personal experience having gone through so much in my life forgiveness is key of yourself and of your twin flame. The ego has big issues with this and will fight you at every opportunity.

That’s all for this week!! Until next time!

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

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