I was sitting here thinking back on my journey to union, and reflecting on a question that I have been asked many times, that is, “I am in pain, emotional or physical pain and I am not sure that it is mine, could it be that I am feeling my Twin Flame’s pain”.? The wonderfully weird things that us Twin Flames feel because we are so connected to each other, so the answer is a resounding yes, you can. Want to know more?
The Magic Fix
So many Twin Flames are looking for the magic fix, the one thing that will get them to union, I see this all the time and I have people write me and say wow you have helped a good amount of couples get to union, how did you do it, well the answer to that question is, I did not do it, we did it, the leader Twin Flame and I worked together, to get to a successful union you must go within, dig deep inside of yourself and find out what is holding you back, you must not be afraid to take constructive criticism and get set to work hard. There is no magic fix but there is one and that is Reuniting Comes From Within, so get in touch with me today if you are serious about getting to union.
I asked a question earlier, do you want to know more, here is the answer to that question as I know you all said yes! As a twin flame, when you are in separation,you might find some odd things happening you can’t explain.
Pain, I mean physical pain that seems to come out of nowhere, that you have no explanation for, as you’ve not fallen or injured yourself, yet you can’t explain why your shoulder, or your back or your feet or whatever is hurting you actually is hurting you. There are a couple of reasons for this:
Your twin flame may have somehow injured themselves and so this is a mirror showing you that you’re connected by energy - phantom pains.
You could be hurting emotionally, have energetic blocks in chakras or energy fields due to your connection and you have something emotional to heal or energy to clear. Many twins experience this because either you or your twin is hurting from something that has come up, not necessarily by your connection with them but perhaps old karma, or dealings with others in their lives, old memories from past lives or perhaps interactions and stress etc in their lives or yours, you are feeling them and they are feeling you. So this may explain why some get stuck in a rut.
For example - shoulder, arms and upper back pain is associated with the heart chakra - blocked love or no trust, and no unconditional love or not allowing the love to flow not only to them and receiving from them but within yourself - no self love or self appreciation and no trust in yourself or the universe - for this chakra also helps you connect to the Divine - for a true connection with Spirit it must come from the heart.
Lower back pain is sacral chakra - sexual and creative issues - blocked not allowing you to be sensual and feel your emotions or you’re not allowing yourself to be creative.
Middle back, stomach issues etc. - solar plexus chakra - self worth, or issues with the knowledge of self, who we are or having issues with being authentic or issues with an overpowering ego (the bad way) -- because we need ego in some ways - for protection, setting healthy boundaries, giving us courage to step out of our comfort zone)
Pain in legs, feet, knees - root chakra - issues relating to security, safety, stability, basic needs (food, shelter, sleep, self preservation) or issues being grounded and physically healthy - problems with having a strong immune system.
One way to help these feelings, is to have your chakras unblocked and deal with the issue! You can help your Twin Flame and you get out of this rut your in by working on the things that stand in your way of union. You already know you mirror them so it makes sense that you as the leader Twin Flame can help your sleeper to feel less emotional or physical pain. So book a consultation today to find out what is standing in your way.
However having said all of the above, there are cases where you are in actual physical pain so I would also advise that you go to a doctor if you have unexplained pain. Cover all your bases.
This will in turn explain to many the different emotional feelings they have that they truly know are not their feelings. Let's move on and see what is happening this week!
The New Moon on January 16/17 begins in darkness, some of you will be already feeling down, angry or forgotten, then slowly revealing herself to us as a waxing crescent - therefore a positive moving forward into new pathways in life, love and so forth.
A natural energy that we all feel the need to start something new or create new from current paths, heading in a different direction towards all kinds of possibilities or adventures that are sure to bring growth and maybe allow for more joy, happiness and a better life in some aspects. This is a change your way of thinking kind of energy. Is this something you are prepared to do?
While the cold weather is upon us here in the Northern Hemisphere (Happy summer to you below the equator) the energies of this new moon may bring you the external challenges that can come with it. This could come from the form for mental challenges of wanting to keep focused on your goals and desires but not really wanting to do anything, or maybe allowing oneself to be thrilled by the opportunity to face them head on and get them going.
This energy in this new moon phase can also be one of emotional sensitivity towards others, watch your words and actions with others please. You might express the need to feel needed right now but the energy expresses the need to control emotions and with whom you share them and also a setting aside of emotional attachments for the favor of success and such. Be careful and make wise decisions. It is possible to have both if you know how to balance these areas.
Talk to me
So many ask me everyday why will my Twin Flame not talk to me, I message and I get nothing in return ever, how are we ever going to get to union if he will not even make the effort to speak to me on any level. Communication issues are very common between Twin Flames. Have a think about this and I would love to hear your feedback, how about you learn to communicate better with yourself first. What do I mean by that?
Trust in your gut instinct more, know what your feelings are before you go about trying to understand what your twin flame is feeling, learn to put your emotions into words. How about you have your mind, body and soul all working in harmony together. Uniting starts with you, learning who you are, why you are that way, your likes and dislikes, do you follow the crowd or are you a leader? Are you happy? Why are you angry? Why do you question yourself ? So much to consider. I am interested to hear how this will go for you, feel free to write me, but not until after you have actually thought about it.
“The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said.” ~ Peter Drucker