Fanning The flames 11.0.2018

​A Magical Month of Messages

Hi all,


Communication Errors

I hope that you have been doing well, if not why have you not contacted me yet. Over the past few weeks, I have been thinking about how Twin Flames communicate with each other. I have a strong feeling that many of you do not know what to say to each other especially after a period of silence.

Number 1:

Do you tell your Twin Flame, I love you, I need you, I miss you, I wish I could see you, I need to hear from you, I want to know what is going on? What is the common theme here? I need, I want, I wish. I, I, I. Who are you thinking about in this case, just yourself. Everything you want and need but have you thought about what your Twin Flame wants and needs? Chances are you have not, you are more worried about your thoughts, your feelings, your wants and needs. That is not acting with unconditional love.  

So that is communication error number 1. Stop making it all about you.

Number 2:

Another common mistake Twin Flames make is protesting their love, why would you do that to me, I love you so much. Why do you not call or text me, I love you so much! Should you feel the need to protest your love for your Twin Flame over and over and over. The answer truthfully is no, constantly justifying how you feel, is not going to make things any better between you.

That is communication error number 2. Do not protest or justify your love frequently.

Number 3:

Next up is, thinking for them, saying things like, I know you do not need me in your life like I need you or you do not love me, you do not want me, you rejected me. You did not come to meet me or message me because you are too busy for me, you did not show up because you do not care. While you are their Twin Flame you are just not being rational when you say things like this, do not assume that just because you are connected that you understand exactly what they were thinking when they did a certain action towards you.

Communication error number 3 ~ Telling your Twin Flame what they thought or why they did something.

The Month Of 11’s

I have been waiting all year for November to roll around, it is going to be a very exciting and powerful month. I am pretty sure that some of you are feeling these energies already, which may begin with a heavy feel and as we progress through the month become lighter.

We’ve reached that magical month # 11 - November. And this is going to be a very powerful month because 2018 adds to 11 so the whole month is 11/11!!!! Plus of course November 11th which makes it 11/11/11.

So many people on the twin flame journey focus on 11/11 as ONLY a twin flame number. There are other numbers that do have meaning also like 7 and 8 but  I would like to reintroduce you to the other meanings and reasons you may see 11/11 or 11:11 on the clock or elsewhere I wrote an article in 2016 on this and I ask that you take the time to review it and maybe save it to your computer to refer to when this happens.

The article link is here: http://www.reunitingcomesfromwithin.com/carolmaryblog/the-true-meaning-of-1111

November’s Magical Energy - Monthly Report

So this is the 11th month of the year but the letters when you do a calculation in numerology actually add to a 4.

For those who understand numerology and have an 11 anywhere on your numerology chart you know what a strong and possibly challenging month this could be for you especially since the whole year resonates with Master #11 energy.

This could be the time when things really come to light for you about who you are and where in your life you are to be and what you are to be working on now based on becoming the best possible you that you can be right now. A fine line between greatness and self-destruction is something the energy of this number carries with it. What that means is this:

You can either give over to the fear, doubts and phobias OR you can choose to take the higher path and become more enlightened mentally, spiritually, emotionally and this also means physically - no don’t go crazy with your workouts. What I mean is learn what is good for your body and also your mental, emotional and spiritual state.

This month also carries the stable energy of the number 4. Really it is a very grounded energy. It likes to be methodical and follow set steps but also will tear down and form and reform based on what is going on at the time. Meaning you need to also be flexible. This is the time to work on how your dreams and goals can be done or at least take steps to get to the next point in your journey. It’s a practical, earth based energy not necessarily a dreamy spiritual one. So it will balance the 11 energy that tends to be for some of us to put our dreams on clouds and float away on a wish and a prayer.

More Magic this month!!!

November 9th and November 11th are special days. As well as November 18th, and the 22nd and also 27th happen to be 11/22 days.

So much amplified energy there!  It is important to remember that this energy will not give you instant miracles but will rather built more slowly as the month goes by, so it is imperative that you are prepared for what it will bring with it.

Really the energy is about how I’ve described the monthly energy for all of November so these days just add extra punch to the flow of the vibration. If you know what I mean.

November 11th ~ The Most Exciting Day of the Year

11.11.11, all the elevens and something that many of us have been waiting for, up until now some of you have been working towards your union, some of you have given up and others of you are just plain stuck. So how will this day truly help you?

There is a very important portal opening on this date and it will remain open until December 8th, which happens to be another 11/11 day! This portal is going to be particularly life changing and what comes with it is the opportunity to set up your union.

So what do I mean by opportunity to set up your union, a change to make change, a chance to ask for what you really want and a chance to create a new outlook on life for yourself and your Twin Flame even if you are in union already. So that is going to be extremely pivotal on your journey, right?

This of course all depends on you, the leader Twin Flame, are you ready to take actions, are you ready to quit sitting on your laurels? Yes then read on, if no then stop reading here and stick your head back in the sand because you really do not wish to be in union if you do not want to do something about how your life is or if you are one of those Twin Flames who believes if I sit and wait, they will come back into my life.

Those of you who have been working are in for a pleasant surprise, where your journey may be fast forwarded, you will hear from your Twin Flame shortly after this date, your questions will be answered. It is a great day to make contact, but specific contact, do not just go in there without giving what you are going to say some thought. This is the time for you to set your intent, transform your journey even further and make those all important steps towards union.

Those of you have have given up will be given a chance to restart your journey to union, to create a new outlook for you and your Twin Flame, the possibilities are endless.

Now those of you who feel as though they are stuck, you will begin to start moving again and see that there is ways around the blockages that you feel are there, with a little work you can overcome what has been either holding you or your Twin Flame back.

A little birdie even told me that there will be some endings on route also, so those of you who are in karmic learning relationships I can see that quite a few of those contracts will be ending on this date in order to allow for more Twin Flames to come into union. You can not ask for more than that and of course who would not want to add some Irish luck into the mix by booking one of my very special services for this day! 🍀

November’s Moon Musings

For the first half of the month we have a New Moon on November 7th and a First Quarter moon phase on November 15th.

Still in that heavy transformational energy of Scorpio (remember blog 10.91 how I mentioned about that it is the sign of birth, life, death, rebirth and also transformation and how there is a lot of karmic energy due to both Mercury and Venus being in retrograde. Well now some other things are coming to light with the moon being in the same sign as the sun sign.

Let’s talk about November 7th! New Moon.

This is what  is called the moon in fall. This of course is not a  reference to the time of year but it refers to how the moon energy is rather uncomfortable in this sign.

We know from past descriptions of the New Moon phase is about creating new beginnings and starting new projects with a little apprehension but excitement as well.  This particular moon makes for great deal of conflict in how your emotions are most likely going to be affected and this usually means you want to shelter and hide your emotions not only from yourself but from everyone else.  Suspicion, lack of trust, doubt and your emotional failings are going to be on the radar right now.

You need to learn the difference between reacting and responding now. Being proactive more than reactive. Sheltering or hiding your emotions is one thing but the intensity of what you’ll feel with whatever situations you face or come at you will make you face that mirror rather harshly.  You have a choice. Run and hide or be mature and think before you speak or act on something. Beware of grudges and harsh judgments on yourself and others now. They’ll come back to haunt you in the near future. There is also a possibility that you will get to understand some of your deepest mysteries about yourself and how you fit into this world as well as your spiritual, mental, emotional and physical connection to it.  

Being the 7th of the month it’s a great day to do some truth seeking - within yourself, in your life and your interactions with others now especially your Twin Flame. It is a good time to be willing to be honest and open and speak your mind but as I mentioned respond do not just react, that could get you in a bit of trouble. Breathe, ponder, think then speak.

November 15th - First Quarter Moon

We will see the energy of this moon wanting to venture out and just be different, express uniqueness and also perhaps assert independence and maybe being detached from all that is currently going on in life. Therefore taking guided risks to explore options on external challenging times. So bringing energy of transformation with it.  This refers to pretty much everything in relation to dealing with others in your world and how external situations will present themselves and how you need to handle it. You may feel like expressing your individuality and showing the universe your full potential as a Twin Flame. This could also be a difficult time and I suggest is to think before you make any impulsive decisions or changes. On a lighter note you may discover new passions, make new friends or other positive relationships or even find yourself becoming more yourself. That is a good thing.

The 15th day of the month is essentially a 6 day in numerology. Good day to patch up hurt feelings with others, bury the hatchet if you will. A great day to be social and have fun.

On a Sad Note ~ I could not post this blog without saying goodbye to one of my clients who has been with me since the beginning of this journey online with me. She was a wonderful person, with a great heart. Always with a quick witted answer, or a kind word of advice, its been so weird not hearing from you but I do feel that you are happier now and have found that inner peace you could not maintain in this lifetime.

You will be sadly missed Tami,  RIP my friend! 

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary

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