Fanning the Flames 2019.05.A
Are You Entitled?
Are you entitled?
I have been noticing of late, a change in society, where people have become more disrespectful to others. I see that people feel like they are entitled to certain things and do not feel that they have to do any work to obtain the things that they want. I say “want” because most entitled people have wants not needs. They may think they need something but in truth they want it.
More often than not, a person who has an overwhelming sense of entitlement make unreasonable demands on others around them. They expect a certain lifestyle has to be maintained. They will push their demands on most people in their lives and their Twin Flame is no exception to that.
When they can not get their way, they will lash out at others, the people trying to help them especially so. The difference between a person who is angry and a person who is entitled can be shown by how they act, a person who gets angry over being wronged does not have a sense of entitlement but a person who does will become angry and difficult every single time that they do not get their own way.
Me, Me, Me!!
Me, me, me, I am the only person, I need people to give me all of their attention, they expect that the world revolves around them and they always have to get what they want. As many of you know of course this is not how life works.
They are not people who give to others, they are people who take. Does this come from their past and not being able to have what they wanted or were they brought up in such a way that anything they wanted was produced, either way it is something for you to think about.
So you may be wondering why I am writing this and what does it have to do with Twin Flames?
The answer to that is, I meet Twin Flames all of the time, from every walk of life, some who are so very kind, some who are hurting, some who just need answers, but I do come across those who have the sense of entitlement, so I felt it was worth of addressing.
Are you a person who expects everything to be handed to you, are you a person who feels like you are entitled to the time of others, do you act out of anger towards others when you do not get your way?
If yes, it is time to change that about yourself. This is the type of help that I offer when you wish to work with me, I will show you exactly where you are going wrong, perhaps it is time you booked that Twin Flame consultation so you know what mistakes you are making.
Do you feel like you are entitled to your union? If the answer to this is yes then we need to talk because your union with your Twin Flame is something that you have to work towards and not something that will just happen.
Food for thought. Now I would like to move to the various energies to expect for the month of May.
This May is all about your sense of freedom, freedom from those life happenings that start to hold you back. You know those issues that keep popping up that you just can not seem to get past.
It is going to be a month of change, if you are ready to use the tools that you are being offered by the universe. When I say tools, I mean those signs that are always in your face, time to find out what they mean and how they can help you.
There is going to be a variety of energies, so positive, some negative and very strong energies that can aid you with your union. Progressive and quick thinking as well as resourcefulness.
It is also important to note that there is no quick fix on this journey, it is working everyday to achieve your goals. I know many feel that union is the be all and end all but perhaps you are missing out on the bigger picture, that is bringing yourself to a place of peace and happiness, that is as important in your life as union.
Essentially, it will be rather chaos driven, not conventional in any way the energy is teeming with craving change and seeking freedom with the underlying tremble of rebelliousness.
It is also a magnetic energy so if you’re one to practice working with the law of attraction this can be a prime month for doing just that in whatever way you work that energy for creating your desires and bringing them into reality. Monotony will drive you batty so if you get the urge to be a little more carefree this month do so. Break tradition and have a little extra fun this month.
As well as being imaginative, enthusiastic and optimistic, it is an important time to take a long hard look and things and how you are progressing in life.It is also definitely time to bring things in your life into fruition. The 3 is sometimes also called The Sunshine Number.
It is a potent yet scattered energy, sometimes focused, sometimes all over the place. It is the energy of creative expression, this can be a powerful time to help with communication. Direct but subtle yet strong. This is where art meets life. You may find yourself drawn to new ways of expressing your thoughts in written, spoken or physical artfully done ways this month. Don’t keep it bottled up.
You know how good you feel out in the sun when it’s warm and you’re just feeling great! Think of the song Forever Young by Rod Stewart for what the energy of this month is. Here is the song for you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yGEe_zpddNI
Do you need help on how to do that? Or some guidelines on where your focus needs to be? Please ask for a consultation and perhaps even something to do with your personal numerology (for you and your twin flame) for further insight
Power Number Days
May 11 - Master #11 day
The energy is obviously going to be intense for many of us. It is also the 4th month of the year so I’ll cover that too as well so you can see where the energies blend. Please remember the number 11 is NOT just a twin flame number BUT a number for spirituality as well.
Let’s start with the 5 energy. This number carries the energy of stability and also obedience. Determination, persistence and trustworthiness is the key energy, it’s all about being present, doing what you are to do where you are and noticing what and who is around you without having opinions or judgments. As Twin Flames we are leaders, people who not only need to guide our Twin Flames, but those around us too.
Now this Master 11 energy. Essentially this is the 1 energy doubled or amplified. Independence, the primal, creative force to be reckoned with, a warrior energy. A strong determined “masculine” straightforward energy with determination to get done what needs to get done with no assistance from anyone.
Now it is also the 2 energy (1+1=2). The creative energy for getting things done comes from here with an underlying wittiness and tact and diplomacy that makes this energy one of harmony and peace so when needing to be around others this is the fun energy of the Master 11.
Are you living in truth?
Trust in your gut instinct and intuitive energy that is meant to guide you to push your limits and past certain boundaries in order to make the most of who you are truly meant to be. You need to be aware of the capability of putting up blocks from you venturing forward here. Be willing to explore what is beyond you not only mentally, but even spiritually and physically. Is it time to look at your truth?
Start this month to explore those things in this mortal world that make you think, feel and be more than who you are, take some risks to explore and step out of the shadows and barriers you’re creating and using to prevent yourself from growth. What are you willing to become? The links between the mortal and immortal essences of yourself are asking to be pushed further, go harder, go faster, grow!
Question your beliefs and what you are willing to go beyond in order for further enlightenment to this world, spiritually and also within yourself. Time for seek the answers for taking steps to get out of the comfortable and typical patterns you’re so use to living in? What are you going to do and become now?
May 5th, 14th, 22nd and 23rd are Master #22 days.
Do you have the confidence to make your dreams a reality. This will require planning and thought of course and investigating ways to do this but you are capable. It is time you use the energies available to you to become more aware of the path you need to create to have what you desire. You need to create it and be your best self possible and that starts now BEFORE anything will ever happen in your twin flame journey.
So I mean focus on you and your life, this is not selfishness in the negative sense. How do expect anything in your life to ever happen for you personally or otherwise if you don’t build it yourself? Like the movie Field of Dreams - build it and they will come!
The energy of Master # 22 is not only about working on turning your dreams into reality but once you’ve really been able to become good at that you’ll realize all along it’s been for a higher purpose. Use your creative nature to help you with this. This is also a good time to organize, - declutter, re-configure etc. whether that is your home or your life. Essentially do one you basically do the other - declutter your home interestingly enough your life becomes lighter and easier to manage. It is also about having a life and self that is more actualized. - Self improvement, personal development - mentally, emotionally and for some even spiritually will aid you in finding a balance when things are off kilter.
This energy does have a weaker side - the tendency to be all work and such and no play makes for a dull life. I’m sure some of you can identify with that. Learn to achieve a healthy balance of hard work and hard play! Don’t allow yourself to get that way where all you do is work and run errands and such. Have some fun … whatever is fun to you … it’s a good way to let off some stress and bring yourself back to the reality of who you are.
Now is a good time ,where you find your stability and being more grounded. Meaning it’s ok to have a routine but what good is it if you’re not colouring outside the lines from time to time and breaking free to have some down time and honest to goodness fun.
That Magical Marvelous Moon!
The dates for the moon phases are May 5th - New moon, May 12th - First Quarter, May 18th - Full Moon, and May 26th - Third/Last Quarter.
The moon is essentially connected to our emotions but also our spiritual self and our spiritual intellect (our inner guidance) and can essentially be considered our mirror for that in terms of what it is reflecting back to us that we need to understand and then work on both from a spiritual perspective but in this physical world too, in order to make it a reality.
The universe delivers things in the way for us which is best for us and it is up to you to see what the light and energy is truly revealing to us as it won’t be how we think or hope but will come to us in what we need at the time.
I can help you understand your place in this journey with your twin flame and your place in your own life. Ask me about which services might benefit you in this and be sure to seek out your own information as it relates to creating your life as well.
New Moon News
The New Moon occurring this month on May 4th, is still not visible in the sky so essentially it’s the time when plans and goals need to be researched how to set them into motion. To me this is the energy of mysterious possibility.
It is about starting something new, not repeating the same old patterns or trying to make the same old plans or dreams try to happen. This phase is about a new burgeoning perspective. It is about being willing and this energy asks for you to be open to a new idea or new message about where you need to focus and what you need to work on or seek out in terms of the things you may have kept buried or thought impossible. NOTHING is impossible if you nurture it and give it time to grow and open and allow for the messages of the universe to guide you instead of resisting. Allow this phase to help you build new strengths and new pathways to creating your life and your world as you wish to have it be.
The First Quarter moon on May 12th is during what is typically called the Waxing (Growing) phase. This is the time when you need to remain motivated not only to sticking to the plans and goals that you wish to see come to fruition in the future but also if you’re set on a different path then understand there is a reason for that too and in time you’ll see why this may have happened. This is a positive energy so don’t get all upset if things go differently than planned. As mentioned earlier sometimes the universe has different things in mind for us than what we intend. You’ll see why eventually.
The Full Moon on May 18th is when things are brought full circle in the sense of what needed to be completed has been and what is still needing to be done is being shown in its full expression, the things needing to be done to complete it or shift the perspective or the blocks/shadows will come to light so you can decide either to carry on or let it go in favour of a better option in terms of what you originally planned, with the destiny in play that it might actually turn out far better than you wished for or could have realized.
Be careful though this can also be a time when the energy is not favorable and you might be led to think the opposite because you think there is too much in the way or too much negativity blocking you from achieving what you desire. Delays are not bad, it just means perhaps a different path is coming to get there or different people or methods will show up to make it happen. Don’t fret or worry, let that all go. Release that in favor of more positive changes and be open and willing to the new on its way.
The Third or some call it the Last Quarter occurring on May 26th is the time when things are half enlightened and half in shadow. Meaning what has been completed can finally be let go of and move onto the new. The benefits have been gained and now it’s time to move onto other things. Consider it as if the seeds you’ve been planting are now fully settled and true growth can happen.
Lessons may have been learned or new insight to ways to do things or to be are and have been shown and now it’s truly time to let go of that which may have held you back in favour of new directions. This includes creating new intentions, new ideas and so forth.
Ok I know that we don’t always have the opportunity to do this every moon cycle from new to full each month. I am simply saying that each moon cycle gives us the opportunity to be aware and open to what is possible and available if we stay aware. Not just spiritually but to be present in our mortal life and aware of what is real in the now. These cycles are really about learning to blend our spiritual guidance with where and what we are in the physical and move forward and about taking advantage of choices and opportunities.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this, I do hope that it is helpful and of course if you have any comments, questions or feedback, I would be very happy to hear from you!
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As far as entitlement and all the things you said about what you hear from other twin flames - I see it all the time.
Very nicely done as always my friend.
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