Balance & Passion and an 11 day!
Well it has been a very interesting first week for all, the first Super Moon of the year was pretty intense, so did it bring any good news for Twin Flames. Yes and that came in the shape of another Twin Flame union, this particular client came to me in February of 2017 and he said to me that he was thinking of giving up on everything to do with his Twin Flame, we chatted and I could see right away where the problem lay, he worked hard and this Christmas he and his Twin Flame spend their first one together, he had many bumps along the way, he wanted to give up but we kept pushing forward until we got there. I for sure am super happy for him, that brings the unions I have aided in up to 80 now. This is for sure a great number. Ended 2017 with an engagement and opened up the new year with a union.
Living In The Past
I have two topics I want to briefly talk about today and the first one is living in the past, many Twin Flames dwell on what happened when they encounter their Twin Flame for the first time, this can bring about many changes in your life, it may not seem like they are all for you betterment and that is when the problem starts.
You meet your Twin Flame, you get caught up in the whirlwind of it all, you are perhaps married, you are in a relationship with another, or even if you are single, you are going to be totally in love and you will have never felt like that before. You will do things that previously you will never have dreamt of doing before. That is cheat on your current partner, turn your life upside down for them, then they leave. Now what? Your life is a mess, if you current partner found out you cheated then you are going to surely be ending that relationship, you left your job, you changed a whole lot of things around to be accommodating towards them, because let’s face it they become your world.
You are hurt, perhaps feel guilty, sad, angry, a whole bunch of different emotions come to mind, then you are stuck. You do not see a way to pass this point in your life. You think of all of the things you did together, you want it back, you think about what you should not have done, you wish you did not do that, you feel guilty. Your twin flame is nowhere to be seen.
You need to keep moving forward but you can not see the light, how do you get past this point, well the first thing you have to do is keep moving, begin work on yourself, you know that your Twin Flame came into your life for a reason, do not get caught up in the blame game trap.
This is where you have to show the universe who you really are, get up, dust yourself off and keep moving forward. Try your best to maintain a positive attitude, look at who you are now, what changes have taken place, you should know that you have become stronger and instead of laying blame, make change!!
Everything and I mean everything, the good, the bad and the ugly that happened when you encountered you Twin Flame had a reason!!
“Letting yesterday affect today will only destroy the excitement of tomorrow.” ― Michelle Cruz-Rosado
Sigh ~ Too Many Twin Flame Readers Spoil The Union
Today’s second topic is one that does concern me greatly, everyone wants to be a Twin Flame reader. I am seeing this across the board on social media, advertisements, groups, pages, they are springing up all over the place. Can everyone possibly be a Twin Flame reader, no, what I feel has happened is for some is that they have seen what they think is a good market place to get in on and make themselves a fast buck off your hurt. Some will help you but more often than not you will end up more confused than before.
So before you book that reading here are some tips that will help you to decide if you are making the right choice or not:
1. Not every reader understands twin flame relationships or the dynamics of it, they may think they do but most will not have experienced this relationship themselves so go to ones who have many reviews on the work they have done. I do not advertise, so go by word of mouth, those tend to be better readers. Most importantly they are a Twin Flame and where possible they are in union. They will have been where you are so understand better and they do not have the bitterness of not getting to union yet.
2. Never give the reader too much info about your situation, the better readers will only ask for your name, date of birth and or a photo.
3. Ask questions about what to expect if you do not understand, a true reader will always answer them. They also will not be pushy about how much the reading costs and how it has to be paid for now this second.
4. If the information you are given does not resonate with you do not panic, some readers like to use fluffy words and talk in riddles, please come and ask me about it and I will translate it for you. This is one thing you will never see in one of my readings, it will be very easy to understand.
5. All readers will see different things, interpret things not how you would like to see them, take all information on board but if it does not fit your situation, do not worry or overthink it.
6. On timeframes, I would like to say that while a reader including myself may see a particular month or day being of significance to you, it is up to you what you do with that information, if you decide to act upon it you need to be careful as you may change what was seen.
7. Free will will always play a role in any energy work, you can guide someone, even their higher self and the physical self will not feel right with what they have learnt and do the total opposite of what the higher self agreed in this case I have learnt to allow the person time, their first reaction is not always the true outcome, .everyone processes the information in different ways.
8. Please also note that there are dark forces out there, pretending to be your friend, will offer you coaching, readings, healings and take your money and in fact be pulling you away from your twin flame, the horror stories I have heard and these are people who you will think are very professional.
9. If you find someone who is willing to help you and just talk with you on your rough days, those are keepers.
10. Remember not to use too many different readers, healers etc as the opposing energies could do more damage than good. Find one person you like and go with that.
What Is In Store This Week
We have two special days incoming, the last quarter moon on January 8th - there is that #8 infinity energy and January 11th yes 1/11 amplifying the energy of the year. The January blues will not be setting in for many and that comes with the warning that you must not get stuck in this rut. Up you get, there is much work to be done.
Moon Musings for January 8th and 11th
With the last quarter moon phase is about internal interpersonal challenges, typically dealing with emotions and spiritual energies and learning to respond, rather than react to situations in your life. It’s a good time to remind yourself that things that have gone poorly were lessons that needed to be welcomed, time to reflect and acknowledge from how far you’ve come - looking back at them in hindsight and not regret like I mentioned above. This is so you can move forward when the next new moon phase occurs.
The energy of this last quarter phase for January 8th and is for a couple of days has a focus on unions, partnerships and in general being “popular” with those in your world. Working on creating harmony and being socially active in other words and letting people see you for who you are.
Today is a day which will also amplify your journey, you may have already been feeling that sense of urgency, that I need to get to union now. What is this hold up, why are we not there yet?
All questions that will be running through your head.
What you may not realize is the energy also carries with it how you display your relationship with your beloved to other people in your world. If you are in union this means you of course, if you are not in union this means how you talk about your beloved with others and the way you truly feel about them on a positive aspect. Let’s those harsher feelings towards them go, you are their mirror and they feel what you are thinking.
The universe is ALWAYS listening if you understand what I’m saying here and trust me your beloved WILL pick up on the energy whether you acknowledge it or not. Preferably I’m talking about positive love vibe here. You may find yourself receiving more of their positive energy and love if you allow yourself to be.
Because we are seeking harmony and working towards union for some of you, please be honest with yourself, do you also love them and I mean yes both romantically and unconditionally. Can you look past the bad and truly love them from your heart? In other words learn to appreciate them faults and all, even with all that has happened?
You know they are not doing it on purpose, it is because they have chosen coping methods to deal with the intensity of your connection and also their life lessons that they need to go through in order to be a better person for themselves and for you.
If you cannot then you and I need to talk. Please contact me and we’ll see what I can help you understand that you may not right now.
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January 11th we head deeper into the waning moon phase so we still are dealing with internal matters of emotions, but the energies are a little different. You may wish to hold those emotions close to you very tightly and suppress them which we know is NOT healthy.
Do not be holding grudges, or talking badly about your beloved. Deep down we know even if things are not always good or if you always find yourself professing to dislike, misunderstand and having grudges and judgement towards your beloved they will feel that. And honestly with this being a year for unions are you really going to constantly be negative about them, when you know they are your mirror so really they’re reflecting back to you what is going on within yourself.
Do You Hold A Grudge
As mentioned above the energy of holding grudges and being negative or even arrogant towards your beloved continues and should you still tread down that path as you may have been it will land you in a very awkward position one day.
How… ? well let me tell you. Because you are expecting them to do all the work and believe they are not, you feel that you have no work to do and you’re going to find yourself with some very hard lessons to come down the road for that. I cannot tell you now what they may be but I will tell you this, for those of you who constantly look outside themselves at their beloved and send blame towards them saying “they aren’t doing anything, or they make me so mad, or well anything of that nature, that is denial of who you are and it won’t get you anywhere on this journey.
This is where my consultations pay off so much so you know what you need to do about you. I have done many of these and some people get upset with me, those are the ones who are not ready to face their flaws, but I have many who will embrace what I tell them and set to work right away, these are the Twin Flames who are saying, look at me Universe, I am ready, Let’s get to union. No sitting around wallowing here or sitting in judgement of others!!
While you are working you are allowing your Twin Flame to do and be their own teacher, it doesn’t have to be the same as your lessons but as you learn, change and grow it will reflect to them what you have done and they will be inclined to do the same for what they need to change.
The good side of the January 11th waning phase is it can be an energy which will compel you to become more self-confident and assured and certain about who you are and where you’re heading in this life. It carries an air of independence and strong self worth and being able to move forward into positive change. It is also about passion - passion for life, passion for your beloved, passion for creativity and passion for making things new and fresh and making positive changes in any area of your life, be it physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually etc.
“Rehashing thoughts of painful events from the past or imagining negative events of the future is self-abuse and can be more destructive than physical harm.” ― Maddy Malhotra
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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.
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