Fanning The Flames, Vol.10.8

Twin Flames ~ Conditioned Beliefs

Hi All,

You are having problems with your Twin Flame, you have no idea how to deal with this and you want to reach out to your friends, so that they can be there for you too but you quickly found out that they think you should just forget about them. They are not worth your time, someone who can hurt you how they do and say they love you, you should just let them go but the dilemma for you is that you just can not because of the connection that you share.

You end up finding yourself in the position where you feel very alone and you do not have any idea which direction you wish to go in, there is very little sympathy from your friends and you can not really figure out why.

It is because of conditioned beliefs. These are the beliefs we have most likely you learnt as a child from your parents or from other role models, you have had throughout life. Some you will have learnt on your own.

Then your Twin Flame comes along and these beliefs no longer fit in with your life, the things your Twin Flame will put you through are not what you are used to but somehow this starts to not matter to you, you slowly begin to change what you used to believe in.

Then you are put in the position where no one seems to understand you anymore, those friends who you felt always had your back, think you are losing your mind, they ask you what is wrong with you, have you lost your self respect.  

So here you are, with no one who understands you, feeling alone, trying to figure out how life has changed so much, how you got to here.

How did you find yourself in this position?

Well you met your Twin Flame, someone who will push all of your boundaries, is constantly showing you a new way to look at life, awakening you to see things in a different light, testing your strength, helping you grow. You are becoming the best version of yourself.

When you find yourself being up against such tests, ask yourself do I need these people in my life anymore, have I outgrown them, are they willing to grow with me, to try to understand me, do they serve any purpose. If you are getting a NO then it is time for you to continue moving forward.

It also depends on your outlook, if you are going to be negative, you will bring this into your Twin Flame relationship ~ food for thought! 

Are you meant to move forward and grow, or are you meant to sit and wait?

If you want to fly in the sky, you need to leave the earth. If you want to move forward, you need to let go the past that drags you down. ~ Amit Ray

What else is new for Twin Flames, well we have 7 days of powerful energies beginning today September 20th to 27th (the full moon energy begins 3 days prior (Sept 21st) and ends three days later (Sept 27th).

2 Master Number days:

September 20th is a Master #22 day - (9+2+0+2+0+1+8 = 22) and also as September 22nd is the 22nd of the month that essentially means it is also a Master #22 day. So there actually is a week of very powerful  energy opening to us as it leads into the Autumn/Fall Equinox with this number, between the 20th and 22nd of the month. 3 days to really spend crafting your ideas and figuring out how to put it in place or at least get ideas. It’s a great time to get creative in many areas of your life as well.

This is the number of the Master Builder/Organizer. A planner and a visionary. About finding ways to make this world a better place in a small way to build upon it to create significant change to all those it touches and will help you bring your ideas to fruition and lead you to others and methods to make it happen.  So pay attention. This is also a good time to work on being tactful or polite and discreet with others when dealing with matters of life, work and so forth.

This is also a number supported by the energy of the number 4 (2+2) so you have grounded energy - a good time to cleanse your home and self of unwanted and unneeded energies. Because of the power of the master number it is a possibility that if you are not grounded you will become overly sensitive to many situations in your life and things you’re working on will be put off by negative interaction with others around you at this time. So a great time to clear chakras or your aura.

You may notice a lot is expected of you at this time in relation to working towards your life goals and relationships with others and so forth but especially related to leading others/helping others become better or bettering their life or even your own. Time to look at how you can do that right where you are, in the city or area of the world you live in.

You need to have trust and faith in yourself, something I feel is very important on this journey is to learn to communicate with yourself, to listen to your gut instinct and to know that you are on the right track. This can be difficult but once you can you are over half of the battle, just like learning to understand whose energy you are feeling, yours or your Twin Flames.

Autumn/Fall Equinox Energetics

This time of year focuses on the harvest and cycle of abundance. It is a great time to start working on your gratitude as something specific you do every day. Write it out, say it out loud as an affirmation, or something that you make a daily habit. It does change your energy and can actually attract more abundance to you.  Now is also a great time to clear clutter to make room for new things in your life, and in your home. Cleaning clutter both physically and energetically is something we all can do, even in small ways. We all have to realize this world is not just a physical place but that we are all connected in some way energetically. Now I don’t mean leaving yourself open to potential bad energies so yes clear clutter and prepare boundaries in physical, mental, emotional and spiritual ways so that you remain safe, protected and balanced.

I have ways to help you clear your energy in 5D but I can also suggest how to do this mentally, physically and emotionally as well.  

Think of this as a way of creating fertile soil much like the farmer who tills his soil from his last harvest to prepare for winter, protecting it and raising its energy to grow new crops in spring and summer, you can do this for yourself now physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually so that when winter comes you have a readiness to take quiet time in the dark days and colder nights to heal, balance and wait for goodness to emerge from within and around you next spring.

It is time to face the parts of ourselves we are scared to look at or accept and learn to do so and that there are things we cannot change and yet things we can.  No I’m not asking you to be perfect, no one can but really it’s time to create the things you desire in your life in the areas where no growth or change has happened.

Why did it not happen? The fertile soil of your life didn’t not exist there nor did you tend it properly.  As the equinox approaches I would like for you to pick 1 or 2 areas in your life where you can make changes in them, from a mental, emotional, spiritual and even physical standpoint.

Do you know what that is? If not maybe a consultation with me can help you point those areas out to you.

The equinox takes place in the sign of Libra - the sign of balance and harmony. To me this is a perfect time to consider all I’ve mentioned here… yes?

The moon energy of this day is sensitive, compassionate and very creative.. Please be careful not to bite off more than you can chew and do not let yourself open up to disappointment especially from others now and that is why I said pick 1 or 2 areas in your life where you can make changes slowly over time during the late part of this year into the new year when we can in spring look towards amplifying these things so you can continue to make progress at creating new things in these areas and have a great 2019.

I’ll cover more on this with the Winter Solstice in December. Both Equinoxes and also the Solstices are prime time for shifts and change and making new things to happen but we can only focus on 1 or 2 things while the rest of our lives continue on as they do. Overwhelm is the wrong direction to take.  So once you get one set of good things happening in these areas you choose to work on changing and improving then there will be maintenance for a while until we decide we can add new experiences and make changes in other areas.

Moon Musings

September 24/25th Full Moon

Depending on where you are in the world the full moon is on either the 24th or 25th of September.  With the equinox, the energy of this moon phase starts in the sign of Pisces and as the clock changes time from the 24th to the 25th, so does the moon energy as it moves into the sign of Aries - (my sign lol)

Be prepared to go from dreamy contemplation to action and even spontaneity in your life with some of your thoughts and emotions and actions. Don’t go too off kilter though lol because impatience is a big thing for moon in Aries  you gotta be balanced too.

As per the equinox energies I mentioned earlier but you will feel urges to make big changes or big decisions. Just do so methodically not just off the cuff crazy let’s go for this kind of energy. Get me?

Your patience could very well be tested by others if you can’t convince them to do things for you that you want them to do for you.  This is where your resourcefulness as per the Master 22 energy comes into play.

See how all of this flows into one another?

I’m hoping this all makes you aware that knowing of these energies is important to how you go through life on a daily basis. Being aware how it affects you not only emotionally but possibly mentally, physically and spiritually is key in order to have balance in this life and also how to know what to do and when to do it.

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary

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