Fanning the Flames Volume 10.5

Release The Box
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Around Your Twin Flame Journey

​Hi All,

So today I sat here thinking about what I should write for this blog and you know the usual topics came up, I wonder why we ask the same questions over and over and then go in search of the answers. Should you not be able to find them within yourself. The answer to that question is yes but there is always so much doubt.

There is a word that can change your whole journey ~ DOUBT

I doubt myself therefore it will not happen, what does happen when you doubt, you overthink, you have no belief that you can do what is required of you, let alone your Twin Flame do it also. What does it achieve, absolutely nothing.

Doubt comes from having a lack of confidence in yourself, this is a cycle that you have to break, it is very important that you do this so that you can come into union.

Stop comparing your journey to others, I have not come across one that was the same as anyone else’s and I talk to a lot of Twin Flames.

Write yourself and hand written note everyday about how great you are.

Know that you have the power to change your life, no one else can do that for you.

Forget what everyone else is thinking of you, this is your journey not theirs, how can they possibly understand how things are for you, especially people who do not understand Twin Flames.

Make a decision and stand by that decision. If you make the wrong one, it can be fixed there is always a solution to each dilema.

Let today be the day you change your journey for the better, no more doubt in yourself and your decisions.

Learn to trust your gut instinct, it generally will not lead you far wrong.
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Go ahead and ask me how I can help you with the use of positive Twin Flame mantras to change this self doubt that you have!! ​

​Moonshiny Moments!

July 19th is a first quarter moon phase.  This could be a time when external challenges show up in your world to give you an opportunity to take the discomfort of them and work through them into a place of peace and understanding.  This phase is in the sign of Libra which is a partnership moon. Creating harmony so that things that are meant to fall into place do just that. This a time to be honest and speak your feelings clearly and express them in ways that show how you feel and how things look to you, by what is happening.  Your feelings, no blame, no game playing. This can be with any form of partnership - love, business, friendship etc. If you have trouble with expression of your trueness in the way of your feelings this would be a time to understand who you are and your form of expression and what works best for you.  I can help you learn how to do this so that you speak truthfully and don’t cause unneeded hurt to others or pain or shame to yourself by being able to speak and feel this truth that needs to be expressed.

July 27th is a full moon!  During July the full moon resides in Aquarius (opposite of Leo-Sun sign) so rather than a quiet contemplative time in the sense of say dreamy wishing and healing, this moon phase is for independence of the energy in discovering who you are both within yourself and in life, creating and living your uniqueness not only from an emotional standpoint meaning your authentic reality of how you view and live in this world but also looking at the reality of what is or is not attainable to you and/or for you. Being realistic yet understanding you are capable of doing anything if you take the initiative that you choose your path and only you can be the one who walks it.  Individuality is the word meaning being a leader in your own life not a follower of someone else’s idea of how you are to be.


Master Number Energy Days

July 22nd, July 29th and July 31st are Master Number days!  

July 22nd and July 31st are Master 22 number days and July 29th is an 11/11 day. I wanted to give you a bit of a different perspective on how to use these energies this time around.  

As we lead into the opening of the Lions Gate Portal which begins on July 26th and closes on August 12th. Here is some information on energy days prior to it that you can carry through to the portal on August 8th. Using the Leo energy. That of the confident, bright shiny soul power of the lion. Strong and proud (not arrogant or full of ego, but one of confidence and self awareness, and inner strength- think solar plexus chakra energy the positive qualities)

I am sure you remember me telling you the magic of the master number 11 is the seeker of information, as well as the teacher of that information. Let’s say more that is sharing what you’ve learned in ways to make it more receptive so that people can open and allow the information to enlighten them and show them what they need for their own journey, whether it is the twin flame path or that which we learn for ourselves about life so they can see too that they can also find their way.  This can be spiritual information, or just information that really lives deep within you at your core - from your higher self. The information is meant to not only help guide you but others. Note I do not mean with tarot cards or such. I mean spiritual insights, not giving readings to others, but helping others find their inner guidance so they can use it to help themselves.

Now for the master 22 days. You know this is about taking the information you receive and learn and use it to build your world how you wish to have it become.  You do need to work on it as a present moment thing as if it is happening now though not out there in the future somewhere, as the future is not promised to us and we only have now and the past is done.  

You need to work on building the now - focusing on you, focusing on discovering your reason for being here on this planet, your soul’s intention. I spoke of that in blog 10.4.  Don’t focus on what your twin flame is or is not doing. Let them do what they are doing, in time when you take the focus off of them and put it on yourself it is then when the energy shifts and you can draw them or attract them back to you.

As you become more of who you are and you let your soul light shine and follow your inner guidance to live the life you wish to create. When you focus on finding the love within yourself and shine it out to the world, and to them, and I mean in authenticity not what people think love is. I mean unconditional love from your real self. Your true self.  The energy of the Divine within you is what I mean. Your guides and angels and yes Source is always knocking at the door of your heart. Are you going to let that in and let it fill you up? That is the pure love which drew your twin flame to you in the first place. Because you are the love and when you get all tripped up in the ego and what if’s and why’s and how’s etc you lose that.  --- Don’t lose that.. If you don’t know how to find it, or bring back that pure love ask me I can help you. Open and Allow this love in. No not just that of your twin flame’s unconditional love (from their soul/higher self) but from the universe.

How do you find that? It can be in many ways - yes meditation but also through being creative. Art, music, laughter, dance or just a knowing that spark of infinite love resides within. It is up to you how you let it grow and shine.

Open and allow to receive it so that you can build it and give it.


A Little Insight - Regarding The Chosen Blog Title

The title of this blog is Release The Box Around Your Twin Flame Journey and for good reason.  Many times we consistently look for others to help us get to where we desire to be on our journey with our beloved. We look to readings, and tarot and spiritual insight for all this guidance. We form ideas from that or look to have answers why this or that is happening and we can get all the outside validation we want just by asking someone.  And then we adopt it as our own truth and wonder why things aren’t working out in this journey.

What many of my clients are learning is while that is helpful,  this journey has no rules and no one has the exact same experiences or anything similar on this journey. That is for many reasons, mainly because each of us is a unique emanation of Source energy and so we need to learn to interpret things for ourselves on this journey and learn to let go of a lot of the old and outdated information on twin flames and even about spirituality.  

We need to understand that labels, and people and relationships and connections to one another be it your twin flame or someone else, does not fit into a nice little mold or a box.  There are no barriers or boundaries and NO RULES that fit each and every situation. I’ve come across many “teachers” or “advisors” who constantly say the same thing over and over to people looking for help and it just isn’t right. I’ve seen people be hurt because they know their own truth on this journey and some of these people out there trying to be helpful to the rest of us twin flames, are making it difficult for some on this path to even allow to be counted as a twin flame simply because their experience is different than ours.

Believe me I have spoken with so many twin flames and I know from experience not one of their journeys is the same as another. If someone on this journey tries to convince you by talking in riddles and making you feel as if your journey is NOT a twin flame journey but something else that you are supposed to be experiencing.  You do not have to accept that.

What I am trying to teach you that YOU are as much of a twin flame as another who claims this “label”  and just because what you experience is different does not make this any less valid of an experience as someone who may be having another type of situation with their twin flame.

Each case is individual and if you want a Leader Twin Flame who can show you how to actually get to union, please contact me today, while I may not have seen it all when it comes to Twin Flames, I sure do have an open mind and I will do my very best to advise you on the right way to move forward.

3 New Services for you to Consider


Number 1

When your Twin Flame writes to you, calls you or makes contact, you just go right ahead and answer only to find that you have not said the right thing. This happens oh so often. So in the next couple of months I will be offering classes in how to communicate with your Twin Flame effectively, to get across what you wish to say. I know that at times we are all scared of saying or doing the wrong thing because our Twin Flame will run on us again, so if you are in a situation where this is happening or has happened in the past this is the class for you.

I will send this information on to you via email, so if you have not already subscribed do it now!! You do not want to miss this unique opportunity nor the really great practical advice I have to offer you. I have helped so many people out with the right thing to do or the right words to say, it has got them back to where they want to be with their Twin Flame and beyond.

Number 2

I also offer a service where you can send me along the conversation, I can tell you where you were right and were you were wrong, can even compose the perfect answer for you to send. If interested please send me along an email today to reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com.

Number 3

Lastly I can also help you out by way of advice, have your email at the top of the queue, practical advice for dealing with your numerous situations with your Twin Flame, help you to do your inner healing, with ways and means of achieving your dream of union, all of this for only $35 per week. Do not delay secure your spot today!! You will not find services like this anywhere else.

How do you get to union, with practical everyday advice that works!!

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary

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Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary

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