Fanning The Flames Volume 2019.02.A

Twin Flame Labels and More

​Hi All,

Sometimes I sit here for a little while staring at a blank page to think about what I will write this month. How can I help those who take the time to read over my blogs, what do they need to know about? Or do I give them something to think on that could change their whole perspective on being a Twin Flame.

Have you ever sat and thought about what being a Twin Flame means to you? Is it just a label for a relationship that has a lot of issues to work through before the real unconditional love you share can emerge.

I am not just talking about the label Twin Flame, I am talking about all of it, Divine Feminine, Divine Masculine, Runner, Chaser. Sigh. On and on making things seem far more tangled than what they need to be. Creating a vibe of fear amongst those who are in separation and who are hurting from being without their love.

So imagine for a moment if you took any of those labels away, what would you be left with. Two people who love each other? Two people who in love who have somethings standing in their way of being together, two people on a similar journey or would you still feel exactly the same as you did before. I know which one it is. Do you?

Does it cause you so much anxiety now? In other words do not get too bogged down, it is not all about the label and more about who you are as people!

So many people are stuck with placing a label on things in life. If it does not have one, does that allow one to think it is meaningless?

​Just something for you to think about!

I for one love the term Twin Flame and what it represents but do you know the true meaning of it or the hype that you found online. I think that last night's season finale of Criminal Minds put it in one of the best ways possible:

“The thing about twin flames is that nothing can keep them apart. They are a magic unto themselves, and together they light the way for all of us.”#CriminalMinds

Pedestals  

There are people out there who worship the ground their Twin Flame walks on, they can do no wrong and they will put up with this bad behavior, this is the holy grail of love, I can not mess this up. They put so much pressure on themselves that can not deal with it and end up doing things that they would not normally do.

So is it ok to put up with being treated badly on this journey, oh hell no, that is exactly where unconditional love with respect comes in, but how does one achieve that is the question.

Would you believe it if I told you that the answer was quite simple? It is not complicated as others try to make it out to be.

Do you think that viewing your Twin Flame as your equal would be a good place to start? Knowing that they are just another perfectly imperfect human being like you. They make mistakes, have fears and insecurities just like you.

How about you try to understand them and why they do the things that they do?

Lastly do you value yourself, do you love the person that you are?

If you can do all 3 of the above, it is half the battle. The other half we will talk about very soon.

Need further help with any of this, I highly recommend that you go ahead and book a consultation with me. It will change your life and outlook on this journey. So what are you waiting for?

Now onto what may be in store for you this month!

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February’s Monthly Energy

February is the 2nd month of the year with a 6 energy when you add the letters in numerology.

So we actually have very symbiotic numbers really. The number two is about peace, harmony, duality, patient and loving as well as relationship conscious - all forms of relationships.

The number 6 is about nurturing, responsibility, family, love/romance marriage and divorce as well as service to community or to others. But do not disregard that in order to serve others one needs to care for self and that is where the number two energy comes in.

The number 2 is a passive energy - so self care and nurturing is key be sure to look into different self care matters - it isn’t spirituality and manicures and pedicures and eating right. It’s ridding yourself of things, people, habits that are no longer healthy for you, setting appropriate boundaries if you will.

The number 6 is the number of love - so it is about commitment or as mentioned earlier possible the end of one. It rules romance as well as all that it entails but also it means that there is a likelihood a relationship can end and it doesn’t have to be karmic either.

Valentines Day

Do you remember when you were a teenager and it is the night before Valentine’s day and you are hoping that there is that one card in the mail for you, or in your locker at school and the disappointment you felt when it was not there, your crush had not sent you a card. Then you would go through all of the emotions associated with that. So while the media portrays Valentine’s day as the day of love, it is not full of love for everyone. In fact it can be downright disappointing.

So then I got to thinking about how on this day we are meant to buy gifts, cards, flowers, jewellery. Does that really show your love, it is quite simple to go into a store and buy something. Really showing your love however is a harder act.

It means acting out of unconditional love not just one day of your life but everyday of your life towards all people, not just one person.

As Twin Flames we represent love, now it is time you started to show this. So make this St Valentine’s day the day you begin to show your true self, that loving person you can be.

Power Number Days

Well last month in January we had a run on 11/11 days. Well February has 1 - February 11th but the rest are actually Master # 22 days. The 8th, 17th, 22nd (of course) and the 26 all have master 22 energy and when you consider that February is the 2nd month of the year this makes them all the more potent.

This energy is dream building energy, amplifying the Master 11 energy of a blend of idealism and practical discipline/stability of the number 4 (22 is also 4 energy but amplified) so the energy is take your dreams and inspirations and build them on solid stone that provides security,strength and fortitude. Emotionally, mentally and spiritually and yes physically where applicable. Don’t let doubt and fear seep into the foundation you’re working on building in your life.

The master 22 is out to seek to inspire and help humanity understand their strengths - what the master 22 energy has in terms of knowledge and practical application of it. And they want to use it to help others. They know how to do things for themselves but want to and need to share it with the world.

That Marvelous Moon Energy

February 12/13 is the First Quarter Moon phase - two days mentioned as based upon the time it begins. This phase continues to bring more insight and positivity as you continue on with the things you’ve decided to work on that have been important to you.  

During this phase the energy is one of building trust as well as artistic creativity, warmth and affection. There is a need for quiet reflection on where one is in life or where one is going in life based on the influences of the things going on around you. Take time to ponder. You can also be likely to be obstinate and ruthless with your words thoughts and actions.

That is all during the early hours as the 12th goes into the 13th where the energy shifts and will become expressive, happy, buoyant even witty and amusing. So as you can see this energy is erratic and can be one of swayed moods and emotions. Not to mention flighty, unstable and frivolous meaning if you take risks you won’t really care one way or the other as in a rather nonchalant attitude shall we say. Oh and also to mention manipulating, cunning, and superficial..and perhaps inconsistent! Be careful with your thinking and actions!

Some of you may also enjoy intellectual pursuits much like earlier in the new moon phase so if things are going well you may continue to feel the pull towards higher learning.

February 19th is the Full Moon phase. This is the time when that which you’ve been working on for the last moon cycle - since the last full moon in January and perhaps before, is brought to full light. Time to do away with what doesn’t help you and hold steadfast to the good that is working for you and amplify that and continue to seek those things you desire.

This energy is one of high intellectual pursuits and inner knowledge of you and working on discovering who you truly are. You may find the energy of the full moon makes it very apparent, and you may or may not like what you reveal or find. That’s ok the energy also is one of being meticulous and responsible so it would behoove you to continue looking into making changes where needed for your benefit. The energy also presents itself as critical, standoffish and argumentative.  Yes this means overthinking, and denial about your truest self. Not fun to deal with but we all have to.

February 26th (also a Master #22 day) is the Last Quarter Moon phase. Where we can wind down, turn within and ponder what has come to pass since the new moon phase as see what progress you’ve made in improving what needs to be improved upon or do you need more work on some areas. That you can continue to seek as we venture forth to the next new moon phase.

It’s a definite benefit because this sign is about being open-minded, more exuberant, having more sincerity (Authenticness!!) and also more optimism so I think it would be good to find ways to capitalize on that.  Just a word of warning though, some of the incoming energies can be one of carelessness, irresponsibility and extravagance as well as non committal.

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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.” ~ Carol Mary

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