What has been going on with you and your twin flame, I see that some of you have been doing much better but that element of giving up is still there. I do know that this journey is not for the faint hearted and can be a huge struggle at times. So what do you do when you do not want to continue anymore? Do you just give up? Do you take a break or do you push through those feelings??
Personally I have done all three, in the end though I was always forced to push through my feelings, work out what I needed to learn and move forward so the smart twin flame continues on because they know at the end the reward far outweighs the pitfalls. Is this something you are aware of? If you are right about now not feeling that this is true then we really do need to talk!!
We have some pretty funky energies on the way in, it is once again a very mixed bag and not all of it is positive for us twin flames, I wish I had great news to bring to you but that is just not the case this week, perhaps you will use it in the correct way and that is to discover what the hidden message in it for you.
Have you guessed the theme for this week yet? Time to watch for those valuable signs that help us gauge where we are at in our relationship with our twin flame. I do offer a consultation that is very good to show you where you are going wrong but not all can take what they are told. I hear that is not who I am, who are you talking to in that way? OMG this is a joke and what would my reply be to that, you asked me what is going wrong, I tell you and you can not take it then you are not ready to unite and there is a possibility that you never will. If you are not willing to be open to criticism you have at that point turned into your own worst enemy because I will never sugar coat it and you will not unite. I know some will say how could that be true, look around you, are you hanging out in places where there has been no actual unions or are you working with others who have. Who is it best to learn from united twin flames or twin flames who are not united but think they know it all, have a think about that one??
I do have a question for you, I hear this very often my twin flame cheated on me, I ask how is that well they are with another man or woman and I say are you in an exclusive relationship with them. The answer is generally no. So let me tell you, you twin flame is not cheating on you unless you are in an exclusive relationship! Now that leads me to the next thing I am always asked is how could they be with someone else when we are so in love. The true and hurtful answer to that is that your twin flame may not understand your connection to him/her so he/she will not feel that they are doing wrong. I am not asking you to be a saint but think of it this way, if your twin flame is in relationship with someone else that means they are in preparation for you and learning what they need to, to become the best version of themselves. As always to the logical mind that sounds crazy but in my experience it is the only answer that can be given to make sense of it.
There is a lot for you to consider above, I also suggest that you watch the many twin flame tips I have over on my youtube channel or on my webpage if you have not already done so. The links for this are at the bottom of this blog.
Summer is here, well the months of summer are but sadly not the hot weather for us here in Ireland. I do notice that many forget about their journey at this time of the year because you are busy doing things out in the better weather, I am going to offer you the following warning on that, these months are just as important as any to forge forward, do not work for 9 months of the year and forget about it for the other 3, this will once more set you back. All of these set backs add up and then it will take longer than the universe has already planned for you to get to union.
My favorite place in Ireland is the Cliff’s of Moher (pictured below), I have visited there many times, one such noticeable time was when I decided to just go there and be at one with the ocean and nature. I went for my usual climb and sat looking out at the sea. In the car park right before I left, I said the following “ I have done all I can, I have tried to always be there for you, but from today on, I can no longer wait for you, to talk to me, to know that I am the one for you. When you do know I will be here waiting” I drove off and set on the 3 and a half hour journey home, I had the music up loud so I did not even hear my phone ring, it was him, it was John, after six months of nothing, waiting to hear from him, just a hi would have done, the day I say enough of course he calls, that is what us Irish call Murphy’s law. I laughed and laughed and said if I had known it would be that easy I would have done it sooner. What I did not know at the time was that this period of separation was necessary for us to end our marriages, learn the last we needed to before we could unite, it was about 6 months before we moved in together after that. A good friend reminded me of that yesterday. I have never been good with dates but after we spoke about her visit to the Cliffs, I said oh my it was exactly 5 years ago today. Just a little bit of my story for you. I am also not sure if anyone knows but the photo I use on my website was taken that day also.
This coming weekend starts with the first quarter moon and some energies I want to share with you. Just a quick hello to my followers in Canada, July 1st is Canada Day so happy 150th to you all. Happy July 4th to my followers in the USA! Hope you all have a happy celebration with friends and family. Enjoy and more importantly be safe!
General Advice For All.
June 30th is the first quarter moon, which means the energies for manifestation are increasing. Now is the right time to grab that list of things that you want to change, learn and grow from, if you have not done this list sit down when you have a spare 5 minutes and write up a rough draft. Those of you who did them on the New Moon and sent them on to me, you have a great chance to work on the return list now. Being that it’s a waxing moon now you can still do this, it is good time to do anything related to abundance, and prosperity anything positive and forward moving. So feel free to do something each day to help you stay in the positive moving forward into the good. Keeping yourself surrounded in good energy will really help you become happier. So like I asked like week do you choose to be happy or do you chase your happiness, that energy is still around right now.
Are you an extroverted person? Are you an introverted person? The universe is calling you to shake things up a little bit, asking people who are normally very outgoing to slow down a little and take stock of the things you have in your life. Be thankful and grateful for all that you are allowed to do and have. For the introverted it is time for you to take one step out of your comfort zone and be a little daring. You will reap rewards for this.
The universe is in need of a better balance and the only way this can be created is if everyone slows up for a minute and think about how you can change your life to be more positive.
The level of disrespect that people have for each other is at an all time high at the moment, I have never seen it like this before, it is like no one cares for how they treat others, they feel it is fine to tear them down, that they are better than the next person. Think about who you are, are you a person who brings others down or do you help the rise up to their full potential. Do you gossip about your “friends” yes I use inverted commas because a real friend never does this. So today I ask that you do one nice thing for your neighbor or a friend, create some good karma for yourself.
Do you try to one up someone, this is the most annoying trait anyone can have and you are setting yourself up for a fall because if you are one of these people and you start to see everything fall down all around you that is your payback, your karma coming back to you and believe me it will be 10 fold.
A wise teacher once said, “It is a fool who takes offense when it is intended, but it is an even greater fool who takes offense when it is not intended.” This is something I firmly believe in and no I am not perfect but really do you ever think someone is telling you this because it is in your best interests to change??
That leads me onto insecurity, so so many of us are insecure with who we are, my tummy is too fat, my thighs too, I am ugly, my arms are too skinny, I do not really think anyone likes me or cares for me. Stop doing that right now, you are perfect just how you are and if you can not change the things that bug you accept them. We do live in a cruel world and the more you criticize yourself you will not see your true beauty. The only ugly people are the ones who are ugly on the inside. Do not be that person. Hence that old saying “Beauty is only skin deep” Do you know your value?? Do you over or underestimate yourself??
It’s another warning!!
As with all moon phases there is usually a little energy that is well not the most positive. You may feel as if things are against you or you might feel antsy or at unease with things and how they are going. There could be some unrest or arguments arise between you and others due to the shifting energies. It will all work out fine if you just remember to breathe and talk it out. It will work out favorably if that is your intention with any situation during this week! Do not allow it to fester and if you can not talk it out with the parties involved take a break from their company for a few days.
So as we come to the end of mid year let’s look at the energetics for the numbers of June 30th and see what might play out for you!
The month is a 6, the day is 30 so 6+3+0 is 9. 9 is a very special number in numerology. The end of cycles, and also carries energies of the number 6, such as that of parental love and harmony in relationships as well as the energy of the love for your immediate community, your fellow man and woman around you.
The number 9 therefore is about compassionate, unconditional love for all. To me this particular date, also the 9 holds the energy of the 3, which is as mentioned earlier the energy of the divine in your relationships with all. 3 is also the number of creative energy. So perhaps open yourself up in this waxing moon phase to find new ways to be creative.
This is a continuation of last week’s energy too but adding more ideas to it. . Use of this energetic creativity is a must. Using the energy in a way you have not before. In other words you are being called upon to change things up.
Being creative in general is wonderful for your inner child, because as an adult we many times shove away our freedom of fun and play so we can be “serious” and get work done. Twin flames can be fun loving too!! You should laugh at least one time a day. Smile even if you do not feel like it. Sometimes just smile at a stranger, you never know you could be the only person who even notices them that day.
Much can be learned from allowing that inner child to come out and play. It is very healing and fun is good. So if you have kids or grand kids or small kids in your family, go play with them. color, paint, play in the sand in the beach, climb the jungle gym at the playground. Just go have some fun. It’s amazing how your blocks and sadness seem to magically lift and problems don’t seem so large and looming when you can release the troubles through some fun. If you don’t have kids well maybe get some of those adult coloring books, or plant some plants, play in the dirt. Personally I turn the music up as loud as it will go and dance around with the kids, that for sure always makes me feel better.
Sure we can do meditations and healings for our inner child too but do this too! It is amazing the transformation. Do it often and journal your experiences!
Wait there is more!
June 30 2017, the full date energy is 6+3+0+2+0+1+7 which equals 19 so 1+9 =10 which is 1=0 so it is a 1 day as well.
The 1 in numerology is known as the Primal Force number. Meaning being energy driven and focused on your goals, whether those are personal goals or ones you work on with others. Typically it is number one meaning Y-O-U. Not in a selfish way but in a productive way. Maybe even a little bit of a rebel but in a good way.
The number 1 is practical, straightforward. Do not overthink things too much, that is many a person's downfall, you can not live a life of what if’s and’s or but’s.
Will you look back on life and say, 'I wish I had,' or 'I’m glad I did'? ~ Zig Ziglar
Twin Flame Talk
With the energies this week you could see conflict with people but you can also enjoy others company. Let loose a little but do not lose sight of your goals.
Much of what I said above also applies to you. There is an air of unrest in the twin flame community and I have to say much of it is uncalled for. There are too many ego’s getting in the way of progress and I am not just talking about twin flames in general it is the twin flame leaders that have the problem, it is a battle of wills. Does it have to be that way? No so why is it, well the simple fact is human nature, we all strive to be better than the other. Well let me tell you, you are not, we are equal.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
The same can be said of jealousy, that is not a good trait do not posses it. It serves no purpose only to aggravate you. You know if you start to accuse someone of something chances are after you do they are going to go right ahead and do it, they may as well seeing as they are going to be accused of it.
Now there is going to be a huge sigh, as I do have some bad news for you, as we end June, some of your twin flames are beginning to run again, this is partly because so many of you have been starting to give up, your twin flame will always sense that and hightail it, hampering all progress, but as I always say forewarned is forearmed, you can stop this before it starts. How, well try listening to what your twin flame wants.If you are not able to understand, I will help you decode the hidden messages, it is one of my many services.
Do not give up or run, there is no room for that here!
Try not to keep saying over and over this is never going to happen. if you don't make use of a favorable opportunity, you may never get the same chance again. Time and Tide wait for no man!!
If your twin is running, that does not mean that you now can go ahead and give up because he/she would not be doing this if there was no purpose for it. Keep working, do not give up.
We all have our down moments but they come for a reason. Usually it means things are needing to be cleared or things are being cleared and shifted due to work you may have been doing on yourself or on the behalf of your union.
Here is the conflicting message, some of you will actually start to find balance in your life, of course this is for those who do not look at this journey as a competition, it is more for the ones who work steadily. Which type of twin flame are you?
If things are good between you and your beloved this means good things for the both of you and it’s really the energy we want to and need to stay in as much as possible. Do not doubt this feeling. The more positive energy you can create within your own life and your own heart, benefits your twin flame as well and helps them do the same for their life and toward you and their connection with you. For you are energetically.
No matter what you each influence the other. The mirror never goes away. It reflects most what we need, whether that is to learn and release the problems and blocks or to grow and prosper in love, compassion and understanding, acceptance and the big key the connection to the unconditional love which encompasses us all and holds us together.
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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.
“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary
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Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary
Carol Mary xx
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