Fanning the Flames Volume 7.7

10 ~ 10  Gateway and More!

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Hi All,
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Tomorrow is a very interesting for us all, I don’t know about you but for the past few days I have been feeling sluggish, like the energies are just muggy, if you are feeling this you will be glad to know that it was just the beginning of the opening of the 10 ~ 10 Gateway and that feeling should leave us early in the morning. This is going to be one of my blogs where I wish for you to wake to it and read as you eat breakfast.

Let’s talk about this gateway, this one is important but it is not spoken about as much as the other more obvious ones. A person could almost miss out on this and that would be very foolish. I am being shown that this energy is going to be around for the next 7 days.

Reflection

There are two ways that you can handle this energy. You can go backwards and stay there, this however may have you make a huge mistake, so I am asking you to do the opposite in a way. I want you to reflect , this is the optimum time for this. Look back at who you were when you began this journey, the first day you met your twin flame, who were you? Do you see a huge change? Have you learnt and changed as a person, grew in love with your twin flame? If  you are answering yes to these questions you are on the right track. If it is no then we need to talk, so I would advise going ahead and booking that consultation.

Are You Dreaming

Have you felt like you have been communicating with your higher self or your twin flames higher self over the past few days?? Have your dreams been more realistic, you can remember them. If you have had a sense of calm surrounding you, embrace it and figure out what message you are been given. This is something I can also help you to work out. Dreams were super important on my journey. They gave me so much insight and over the past years since we reunited I am seeing why. Most of what I saw in my dreams has come true!!

Numbers

Over this 10 ~ 10 gateway be on the lookout for numbers, different combinations can mean different things to your relationship. If you need help decoding this just let me know, there is no charge for this service!

Chakra’s

Now is the optimum time to pay attention to your chakras, do you know what each one does and how it aids you on your journey?? Take for instance the throat chakra, helps with communication, so if you and yours have not been in contact or have the ability to give messages to each other on a higher level, chances are this is blocked.

Doubts Be Gone

Now is also a great time to let go of your doubts, why do you sit and overthink your journey, how is that going to change anything? How is that going to get you to union?? The simple answer is it will not. There are none of us who truly know what the future will be, while we get glimpses, human nature being what it is, along with free will involvement,  will almost always change what was going to be. So what is the point of sitting there thinking, stop it, go out there and start doing things, making changes, working towards your mission. At times twin flames do procrastinate, then they feel stuck. Why are you stuck? Because instead of thinking you need to be doing, I can not make this message any clearer for you!  

Think About This!

I asked the members of my group a question yesterday and to my surprise not many could answer it, correct me if I am wrong but only 2 people were close to it. I asked how much is your time worth. How do you measure that time? What is your self worth? So now I am putting that question out there to you, I would love to hear your thoughts so please feel free to send them to me. Think about it and I will talk about the different answers to this next week.

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Liar Liar

A trend to watch out for this week and in the future! I briefly mentioned in last week's blog that I would talk about this. So have you lied to your twin flame? Was it a white lie or a whopper? When you lied did your twin flame take what you said to be true? I am thinking the answer to that is yes, so now what?

You have lied, you can not take it back because then you will have broken your twin flames trust. Who wants to be lied to, no one but there is a big down fall to lying to your twin flame, they will know that you lied, they will feel it. They may not ask about it but they will always remember how you lying to them made them feel.  Is there a way to fix this deception?How do you take it back? If you tell them you lied, you are scared they will high tail it, so what do you do. Catch 22!

How would you feel? Put yourself in their shoes, this is a huge breach of trust, it is going to hurt and leave you wondering why they felt they had to lie in the first place. You will feel disrespected like you were not able to handle the truth or that you were not important enough. It was so easy to lie to you! You will feel foolish. You will begin to lose trust in that person! Lastly if they do not confess you will begin to move away from them because of course this is a betrayal.

Lie in haste and repent at your leisure!! I hear a lot of the time well it was easier to lie because I did not want to tell him the horrible truth and then he would not want to be with me anyway! You just risked it all in thinking that!!! 

Tough Love

Here is the tough love bit, you have to confront it, you must confess, you have to tell your twin flame that you did lie, there is no other way out of it. You remember I said they already know, so it is best to admit what you did so that you can build trust with them again.

The How To

The first thing I always advise is to think about why you had to tell that lie, what did it achieve?

You know you have to confess and it is not going to be easy, there will be consequences and I do know that this has been a test for many twin flames.

Will the relationship be the same? No it will not but I have come to find out that if you are willing to confess, face up to what you did, you can look your twin flame in the eye again, you will feel relieved, he/she will feel relieved. Explain your actions and why you did it.

If you were scared of him/her, give the reasons for that, if it is that you would lose them, tell them.

Say that you are sorry and mean it, that you will never do this again and mean it!

Getting caught in a lie and confessing a lie are two different things. The former will cost you everything! Remember that!  

Moon Talk

Lastly but by no means least I want to look at October 12 and if there is anything that we should be looking at.  October 12th is the third quarter or last quarter moon phase, during this time we are in the midpoint of the waning moon phase before the next new moon, and as we enter the dark moon phase after October 12th,  now is the time for you to look over how far you’ve come since the last new moon and what was completed since the full moon last on October 5th. Some of you will be sent further back. So the theme for the week is very strong!  

It’s time to slow down, and think about what mistakes may have been made, what you’ve learned from them and where you can go from here.Time to reflect and realize what you have succeeded at, what you’ve maybe failed at - which is normal, failure happens to us all,  and then prepare yourself, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start again with the new moon in a couple weeks.

Thank you all for reading and if you got this far that means I have not bored you into an involuntary coma. Have a great week ahead and of course as always any questions or feedback you may have is greatly appreciated.


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This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion.

“Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary  

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Much Love


​Carol Mary xx


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