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Finding Meaning In Separation Hi All, It has been a quick two weeks since I wrote the last blog, so have you moved forward or are you still stuck in the same old cycle? Yawn, right? Why does it always have to be about what work you have to do, have you move forward and are you stuck, why can’t your Twin Flame get up off their ass and do something for once? I heard you yes, your impatience and need for change for your Twin Flame has been noticed. Hurry up So we all have this need for things to happen in our lives fast, whatever happened to the best things come to those who wait? Well you are not going to wait, if you are very impatient. I know that I have written about this before, but oh boy are some of you the most impatient people I have ever come across. How do I know that you ask? Why should I be patient, I already know what I want? I know simply because of the emails I get each and everyday, if it is not where is this, you know it was only 24 hours ago I wrote you and you did not answer yet, so I am going to write you again but I am only going to do it 10 more times before you answer. Is that acting out of patience? No? So you want to learn everything about your journey the hard way just like I did, or are you going to sit and think for a moment and realize that the more impatient you are, you are sending all the wrong messages out to the universe and it will teach you the difficult way how to be patient. Why should I? Many disregard the importance of patience on this journey, we have the 20th century disease of always having to have everything now, not being willing to wait and if you have to wait it is not worth it. Waiting for something can be frustrating especially when you know you know exactly what you want, you can not understand why your Twin Flame can not see it too. Well the answer is simple, if they have no idea, you are not do your job as the leader very well. You are not guiding them towards you, most likely you are pushing them further away with your negative impatient feelings. The strong message today is learn to be patient and it is not just for being with your Twin Flame, it should be in each and every aspect of your life. Be Patient So let’s say you book a reading, the wait time for this reading is 14 days, but after 2 days, you are like where is my reading, why has it not been sent on, well either you did not read the full instructions or you feel that you are so important that you should not have to wait the specified amount of time like everyone else. Right here you show your impatience or lack of attention for detail (which is a whole other story). How can you improve upon this, how can you act out of patience and lastly how can you get rid of that ego where you think everything revolves around you? When you learn that, another piece of your puzzle on your road to union will be unlocked. Some Wishes I would like to take the time to wish those of you in Canada, Happy Canada Day, those of you in the U.S, happy Independence Day and to those of you here in Ireland with me, quit moaning, it is not often that we have beautiful weather like we are experiencing right now, gosh it is like you can never be happy, when the sun is shining you are too hot, when it is raining, you are like when will it ever stop and we can see the sun again, how about you just live in the moment, soak up some of that vitamin d and smile. Patience is not simply the ability to wait - it's how we behave while we're waiting ~ Joyce Meyer A Notice to Notice
First of all, I love hearing from you, your stories always tell me something I do not know about this journey, let’s face it, in union you are still always learning and growing. However, some of you who fill out the contact form, I can not answer you as you do not input your email information correctly, so if you have not heard back from me, it is because I could not make contact. 3 New Services for you to Consider Number 1 When your Twin Flame writes to you, calls you or makes contact, you just go right ahead and answer only to find that you have not said the right thing. This happens oh so often. So in the next couple of months I will be offering classes in how to communicate with your Twin Flame effectively, to get across what you wish to say. I know that at times we are all scared of saying or doing the wrong thing because our Twin Flame will run on us again, so if you are in a situation where this is happening or has happened in the past this is the class for you. I will send this information on to you via email, so if you have not already subscribed do it now!! You do not want to miss this unique opportunity nor the really great practical advice I have to offer you. I have helped so many people out with the right thing to do or the right words to say, it has got them back to where they want to be with their Twin Flame and beyond. Number 2 I also offer a service where you can send me along the conversation, I can tell you where you were right and were you were wrong, can even compose the perfect answer for you to send. If interested please send me along an email today to reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com. Number 3 Lastly I can also help you out by way of advice, have your email at the top of the queue, practical advice for dealing with your numerous situations with your Twin Flame, help you to do your inner healing, with ways and means of achieving your dream of union, all of this for only $35 per week. Do not delay secure your spot today!! You will not find services like this anywhere else. How do you get to union, with practical everyday advice that works!! Useful Links: Contact me at: reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarolMary1111/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/CarolMary1111 Instagram: www.instagram.com/reunitingcomesfromwithintwinfl/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ1xAgZKyLOJ1fNEUtW69bg Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/carolmary11/ Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reunitingcomesfromwithin/ This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. “Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox. Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary ©Carol Mary 2018. ©Reuniting comes from within All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner
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Who are you?Hi All, Exciting times ahead for the next two weeks, I am sure that by now some of you are wondering how you can use these energies to put your best foot forward towards your union. So many of you feel stuck on your journey so why now figure out how to unglued so you can get back on the right path. I know how, I can and will pass that information onto you, so go ahead and book a consultation today. Who Are You? You are a Twin Flame, but that is not the only aspect of your life, there is so much more to you, I find that so many feel so worthless, make today the day that you stop feeling that way. Yes you have been hurt in the past, you may even be hurting now but do you know that you have an inner strength trying to get out, yes you, once you find that and stop doubting yourself you are going to open up a whole new world for yourself. Feeling down? Wondering why life is not working out how you dream about it? How do you change that feeling? Well the next two weeks are going to reveal to you how to do this. Now that is good news. Union is yours, do not listen to those who tell you that only a handful will get to union, that is an excuse for the ones who are not willing to change their life in any way shape or form, those who try to fill your life with doom and gloom, get rid of them now, they no longer serve you or your journey, any one who tells you that you can not do what you desire do not deserve your listening ear or reading eyes, nor your time. Let them go now. Bring only positive in your life and choose to only be positive. Then you have won one battle and you a ready to tackle the war that is brewing inside of you. Gone are the days when you say you can not do this make today and everyday to follow the days that you know you can. Where there is a will, there is always a way!! Make that your life motto from now on!! Do you dare to take the risks that will bring your Twin Flame home to you?? I did, now it is your turn! Here is that blog to give you a quick recap or if you missed it last week. http://www.reunitingcomesfromwithin.com/carolmaryblog/fanning-the-flames-102 Furthermore Someone mentioned to me that in order to truly be in physical union with your beloved it takes more than healing. It takes for you to connect to the part of yourself many refer to your higher self. . Some of it will be negative some positive. You want to create a balance within you of these energies. Let’s clear that negative and bring you into a place of positivity. Some fail to realize that you are the master of your own destiny, hold on to that as it is the most helpful thing to know. You can with the right tools, knowing how to understand your Twin Flame, how to talk to them in the correct way and preventing miscommunication is key. Do you communicate with yourself? If not, now is the time to start. A Notice to Notice First of all, I love hearing from you, your stories always tell me something I do not know about this journey, let’s face it, in union you are still always learning and growing. However, some of you who fill out the contact form, I can not answer you as you do not input your email information correctly, so if you have not heard back from me, it is because I could not make contact. 3 New Services for you to Consider Number 1 When your Twin Flame writes to you, calls you or makes contact, you just go right ahead and answer only to find that you have not said the right thing. This happens oh so often. So in the next couple of months I will be offering classes in how to communicate with your Twin Flame effectively, to get across what you wish to say. I know that at times we are all scared of saying or doing the wrong thing because our Twin Flame will run on us again, so if you are in a situation where this is happening or has happened in the past this is the class for you. I will send this information on to you via email, so if you have not already subscribed do it now!! You do not want to miss this unique opportunity nor the really great practical advice I have to offer you. I have helped so many people out with the right thing to do or the right words to say, it has got them back to where they want to be with their Twin Flame and beyond. Number 2 I also offer a service where you can send me along the conversation, I can tell you where you were right and were you were wrong, can even compose the perfect answer for you to send. If interested please send me along an email today to reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com. Number 3 Lastly I can also help you out by way of advice, have your email at the top of the queue, practical advice for dealing with your numerous situations with your Twin Flame, help you to do your inner healing, with ways and means of achieving your dream of union, all of this for only $35 per week. Do not delay secure your spot today!! You will not find services like this anywhere else. How do you get to union, with practical everyday advice that works!! Useful Links: Contact me at: reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarolMary1111/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/CarolMary1111 Instagram: www.instagram.com/reunitingcomesfromwithintwinfl/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ1xAgZKyLOJ1fNEUtW69bg Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/carolmary11/ Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reunitingcomesfromwithin/ This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. “Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary Find Your Inner Magic!Hi All, It’s be awhile since I posted, I hope that you are all doing well, it has been a pretty busy time for me in both my personal and work life. I am loving reading all of the stories you send into me, as always we are on a learning curve, so as I read about you and your Twin Flame, what is happening between you both, I am also gaining even more knowledge, so keep on sending them in. While you are on this journey of self discovery, you are going to be met with much hurt, how you deal with that depends on you and your level of understanding of who your Twin Flame is, I have found that many put their’s on a pedestal. Is this something that you do? If you answered yes then you need to do something about changing that. Your Twin Flame is the other half of you, they are not better than you, they are equal to you, so why hold them to such high expectations because surely you may end up feeling so disappointed when they let you down, which they will. Make no mistake on that, your Twin Flame like you is an imperfect person working towards being the best version of themselves, in order to get to that point they will make mistakes, hurt you and show you a side to them that you may not like. Now if you remember, I said it is how you deal with it that counts, so if you decide that you are going to feel hurt, unable to forgive and in general wallow in self pity, then you shall not learn the lesson from it, your Twin Flame will not learn what they were meant to, you both will end up stuck. STUCK!! However if you put yourself in the shoes of your Twin Flame, think about why they did what they did, what did they learn, what can I learn from this? Figure it out, forgive, heal, move forward. MOVE FORWARD. It is a process but you need to believe in yourself and find a different understanding, a new perspective. Perhaps even go so far as to take each lesson as a blessing! While I do understand that these lessons can be super painful, I have been there, when you look back from a place of union, you will see why they are necessary. So try not to suffer so much now and remember that hindsight is a wonderful thing. Do not rely on your Twin Flame for your happiness, choose to be happy, even in the hardest of times try to find a positive in your day! ~ Carol Mary False Information About a month ago, after over a year of not looking at any of the available Twin Flame information on the internet, I decided to go have a look. Most of what I saw shocked me. There is a predominance of false information out there. I was really taken aback by some of it. Here are a few examples. So you are straight, your Twin Flame is gay, therefore your mission is to change your Twin Flame so that they will be straight like you. Ummmm nah it does not work that way and it never will. You can have more than one Twin Flame, nope, hence the word Twin, meaning two. How can you have many Twin Flames, many people who share an identical soul to you. Twin Flames are rare, yes years ago when we did not have the means of communicating that we have today, the world has evolved to allow more and more Twin Flames meet. Those are just three of many that I saw, so over the next number of weeks I will be writing what I think and believe to be true. The last thing one needs on this journey is incorrect information to confuse you even more than you already are. While this journey has a lot of varied experiences and many of us share similar characteristics of them each of you on this journey has a unique path due to your life experiences - where you grow up, who your parents are, where you live etc. Energetically yes also similar experiences but never exactly the same and I will be covering some information during the next few weeks and have some special blogs talking about these things so you can truly understand. I do understand that you need answers, but you want the right ones, practical information to help you on your road to reunion, that is what I offer. We can work on both aspects however if necessary, both 3d and 5d. All of my work has a proven track record and testimonials from people who tell me I have changed their whole life and out look on their journey. Don’t be shy, email me today! Inner Magic
As the title mentioned Discover Your Inner Magic. The energy of this moon is in a very sensitive sign (Pisces) where it bodes well being a 6/11 day as mentioned above so there is an energy of dreaminess and heartfelt compassion towards others. Be sure to be compassionate towards yourself as well and don’t allow yourself to wallow in pain and misery. We get addicted to it because it seems to make life more real to us. Please practice self care - and I mean eating well, getting enough sleep, learning to clear away energies that are clouding the brightness of your light. Your inner magic or finding that intuition and learning to navigate life in a more positive way is very important. I’m not saying to look at life through rose coloured glasses but learn that in order to get what you want out of life and be happier and more in sync with your desires you need to go within. People are scared to go within because for some reason they feel that they won’t be able to cope in life without these crutches to hold onto, or that others won’t be there for them without always constantly having some sad story to tell. This moon phase is in one of the most spiritually inclined signs in the zodiac and it behooves you to learn that the Universe will not allow for you to stay in this constant darkness. Every time something negative happens, don’t look at it as punishment. Look at it as a way to become more of who you are which is NOT some down in the dumps person where everything feels so negative. The negativity is trying to tell you something, teach you something. Now is the time to rely on that inner guidance and your higher self.. Learn to use that inner radar for cleaning out the skeletons in your closet. Being scared to face your dark side and your negative issues is keeping you right where you are. No one likes to hear this especially on the twin flame journey but this is why myself and other twin flame teacher advisors say it over and over again. You want to be in physical union aka reconciliation with your twin flame? Then do the work. Learn to communicate with yourself for it is inside of you that you will find all of the answers ~ Carol Mary Useful Links: Contact me at: reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarolMary1111/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/CarolMary1111 Instagram: www.instagram.com/reunitingcomesfromwithintwinfl/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ1xAgZKyLOJ1fNEUtW69bg Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/carolmary11/ Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reunitingcomesfromwithin/ This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. “Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox. Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary ©Carol Mary 2018. ©Reuniting comes from within All Rights Reserved. No part of copyrighted material may be used, altered or copied in any way without the express written permission of the copyright owner Hi All, I first wrote this article around 2 years ago, some of it was from my own journey and more of it was from what I have learnt helping out, many wonderful Twin Flames. We already know that our Twin Flames will do things, hurtful things, that would be a deal breaker with anyone else, however, the one I find most struggle with is what I call the searching phase. I know that some of you will know about this already, but I decided to look at it again and see what if anything has changed, if there is a new way of combating it, and of course to refresh your memory. Life Changing After we meet our Twin Flame our whole life changes, this had a pretty tremendous impact on you but it seems our counterpart does not notice this as much as us leaders do. Often times many do not understand that, because it had such an effect on your life, it brings up all kinds of hurts and struggles, things that you may have thought you left go long ago. Oh No! One of the next things that could happen is you hear that they are dating someone else, on a dating website or the latest dating app, some will tell you that they want to date others, or you hear from a friend that they saw them with someone else. As if you heart was not broken enough already!! Now you have to deal with this on top, there will be so much going through your mind. Along with crying, anger, some even get depressed. Questions Why are they putting themselves out there and looking for someone else? How could they want to be with someone else after they have been with me? Did they not feel what I did? Am I losing my mind? I am sure that these are all questions you have asked yourself! Well I mean the love of your life has left you, it seems to you that they have moved on and at lightning speed, all the while you are in a lot of pain. It is never easy to comprehend why your beloved finds it necessary to find someone else. You will find yourself asking questions like, what is wrong with me? Am I not good enough? Did they not find me interesting or attractive enough? Did they not feel the same things as I did. because it had such an effect on your life. What Actually Happened Your Twin Flame knows on some level, but it is because they are not as awakened as you, they find that the whole relationship with you could not possibly be real, I mean there is no such thing as a perfect partner right. In my opinion there are four reasons why they do this, which one has your Twin Flame done? This might help you to understand more why they have done this. Reality So your other half goes out in search of reality. They want to make sure that they have found their one by seeing if others will even compare. It is a sleeper instinct to do so, the sleeper may be running away but they are also in search of truth as they do this!! Safety The search for the safer you, why do I say that?, well like I said on some level they understand who you are to them, but oh my do you have the potential to hurt them, sleeper Twin Flames do not cope well with being hurt at all, so instead of having to feel such things, they just let you go and go out in search of another. This person may have some of same characteristics of you, but they will not feel for them, half of what they feel for you. Therefore less chance of getting hurt, but this relationship will not compare to you at all, so they will begin to drift away quickly from this person. Opposite Alternatively they may be the total opposite of you, in looks, personality and actions. This is perhaps because you have brought out all of the things that they do not like about themselves, a person who is nothing like you, could never do that. What your Twin Flame does not realize is that when you brought up all of that in them, that they will have no choice only to begin working on it, so being with another person will not help that process and that relationship will fizzle out. Going Over Old Ground They may revisit old relationships, this is to try to figure out why it did not work with that person. This is a learning curve for them, it may be necessary for them to know so that they will not do it in the future. Once again they will find out the reasons why they left this person in the first place. Your sleeper will realize this and know that it will work with no other, there is really only you. What Happens Next Now will come the time where they will make contact with you again, or you both will have a chance meeting. How you react towards them is up to you. You both will either come together one more time and part or actually get to union. You will need to forgive your sleeper for hurting you so much, it is hard to think about them being with someone else and I know you will have to dig deep to find it in yourself to forgive them and move forward. This forgiveness will also need to be offered to yourself for acting out of ego and not a place of unconditional love. One thing I will say though, is your Twin Flame is not cheating on you, I hear that so often, if you are not in a committed exclusive relationship with one another, it is not cheating, while it may feel like it is, it is not, it is important to know that while they are your Twin Flame, you do not own their lives or what they do. My Lesson I learnt about the searching phase the very hard way, when my Twin Flame decided he wanted to go back to his ex wife, he wanted to see if the marriage was worth saving. He later told me it was for their children in some ways and the other reason was he was scared, that things would not work out with us, everything felt too intense for him. It did not make sense to me as they were going through ending their marriage, they did not talk much anymore, a karmic relationship for him. We were in the beginning of our relationship, not committed more so talking about being together. Things started to get a little strained with us, I was feeling like he was pulling away, talking with someone else and I felt that he had decided to try again with his wife. Double whammy. When I questioned him about this, asked him if he had decided to try again with her, why did he always take so long to answer me, when it was normally instant, asked was he talking to someone else, he lied to me, I knew he was lying, so I got more silent, stopped communicating with him, it took him 4 more months to tell me the truth, the next time we saw each other in person, that he did indeed have sex with his wife, that he was talking to an ex, the one before his wife. I could see that he was suffering, he knew that I was going to walk away and I did just that, he asked me to come back, he wanted to be with me, but I could not bring myself to do it, I was just too deeply hurt. I walked away! For 9 months, I had so much pain and hurt built up inside of me, I asked all of our mutual friends to not talk to me about him. I did not want to talk or hear from him. I had the hardest time with this and made it a very difficult time, I often look back and say that I wish I had known why he did it. Now that I do, I want to share that with you. I asked him many questions about this time and the answer he gave me was I had to know if I was making the right choice, as being with you was going to change my whole world. It was not that he was not totally in love with me, not that he did not want to create a future with me, but more so protecting himself. That was hard to take too because I would not have hurt him in that way, he just did not know that I would not have. In those 9 months I was gone from him, his whole world fell apart, I immersed myself in my children and work. He was very depressed, he said he would sit outside for hours and cry because he had lost his one true love with his actions, he deserved to feel that way. Moving Forward Then out of the blue I heard from him, I did not open the message for a week, could not bring myself to do it. There was an apology and an explanation, one like I said I had a hard time hearing it. You know that burning feeling in your chest, that is how it felt. I now knew that I had to either forgive him or walk away, I knew I was still in love with him. He told me everything was done, he had learnt his lesson. He asked if we could be friends so I agreed, when we signed off for the night he would always tell me that he loves me, I did not reply, my ego was bruised more than anything, about 2 weeks into that friendship, after a lot of thinking and soul searching, I wrote him, I knew he was hurting, I told him that I forgave him for everything. Things moved quickly after that. Hindsight I am now happy that he did this because it showed him without doubt that he wanted to be with me and no other for the rest of our days on this earthly plain. This searching for another will hurt you very much, and make you ask the question how can this person be my beloved, the other half of my soul. If they are in love with me, they would not do this to me. In fact they are doing this for you complicated I know, so they are 100% sure when entering a relationship with you. Your sleeper will never find it necessary to look for another, they will know 100% that you are the one for them. Some of you might argue that this should be known from the beginning but I will state that past hurts cause sleepers to act how they do. So how do you get through this phase, how do you deal with the hurt your runner causes you? Many work on themselves, find other interests. Some wallow in self pity and wonder all about how they are not good enough. Some twins meet someone else in the hope they can forget about their sleeper Twin, this one never works out either. What I suggest for you to do, is accept what your twin is doing and the reason why. Work on yourself, look at your faults and failings, not an easy task I know so contact me and I can help you deal with this phase and how to move forward with the least hurt possible. If I could offer any advice or words of wisdom on what I call the searching phase is that you know that they will not find another like you no matter how far they look, and know that you are good enough and that you are special, unique and not like anyone else!! Don’t do what I did, it wasted so much time!! I do know that some will say, wow she is crazy going back to someone who hurt her that way, but they do not understand the love we experience. In all the world, there is no heart and soul for me like yours, in all the world there is no love for you like mine ~ Maya The quote he said to me when we first met up after that life changing forgiveness message. Thank you all for reading, I do hope that this will help you if you are suffering right now or to perhaps know what could come in the future. Much Love, Carol Mary Useful Links: Contact me at: reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarolMary1111/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/CarolMary1111 Instagram: www.instagram.com/reunitingcomesfromwithintwinfl/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ1xAgZKyLOJ1fNEUtW69bg Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/carolmary11/ Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reunitingcomesfromwithin/ Email: reunitingcomesfromwithin@gmail.com This is a good year for uniting twin flames and I am very honored to aid you on your road to reunion. “Look inside yourself, become the best version of you, reuniting comes from within.”~ Carol Mary Please do not hesitate to contact me for more help with any of the above or any of my other blogs, I always strive to answer every email, direct message or Facebook inbox. Take a chance, make a change, unite! ~ Carol Mary ©Carol Mary 2018. ©Reuniting comes from within All Rights Reserved. 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